THE FIGHT WITH IN I love my friends and family and I want them to be safe and happy. I don't take it as personally, but I feel that way about humanity in general. I like people. I wish them well. You don't feel that way? Ok, but that's you, not the rest of us. — T Clark
I never said that I didn't wish my loved ones well, for many of them I would sacrifice a lot, but why? Because their well being matters more than my own, let me use an example:
Lets say someone I care really deeply loses the eye sight and the only way for them to gain it back its me giving them on of my eyes, I would lose half of my own eye sight, what would I do? If I really cared deeply about that person I would gave up my eye to them, why would I do it if I would get in a worse position than before? Because it would give me more pain knowing someone I love so deeply will be blind for the rest of their lives than gave up my eye.
So did I gave up my eye for them? Or just because I didn't want to fill the immense pain and suffering that I would felt if I didn't do that. The answer is the last.
That was the point that I tried to make, and I truly believe thats how everyone operates knowingly or not.