Thank you for your thoughtful response, I understand that the direction of these discussions in not in the hands of any one person and that if people want to simply talk about their gut feeling, or political opinion that's up to them, but I do miss chance to explore the difficulties of a real-world ethical issue with a wider group, and so I appreciate your direct use of actual cases.
I get rather confused then when you keep asking, in principle, at what point an individual's right to not be offended becomes more important than another individual's right to free speech. The only example you gave is that causing emotional offense can lead to suicide. If these are your chosen hills though, so be it. — VagabondSpectre
Any ethical decision must be based on evidence, otherwise we simply have rule-by-guesswork and that does not help anyone. Most ethical decisions made by institutions are made on the basis of utilitarianism. Most boards of ethics will have a religious representative, but the only degree to which their actual religious tenets are taken into account is the extent to which people may be grossly offended, which is considered a harm. You may well disagree with utilitarianism (I don't know), but very few other ethical systems are actually defensible in democratic institutions, so I'm presuming it is the default system here. So, in order to make these decisions, we need a list of harms (with evidence) and a list of benefits (with evidence). All the evidence gathering is time consuming, and as early empiricism showed us, is prone to selection bias. So what we generally do first is set the parameters. Would an increase in suicides of transgenders linked to the misuse of personal pronouns be a significant enough harm for the government to intervene in enforcing/encouraging their proper use? Because if it wouldn't, we do not need to waste our time looking for any evidence that this is happening. The same is true of any other parameter. We establish first what would be the value of any harm whereat it would outweigh the benefit, and
then we look for evidence to see if it is at that value. That is why I'm asking for the values first, it's just the way I normally work. If it's unsuitable for this format, then I apologise, I'm still getting used to using such a platform as this, not entirely sure it's suitable for me.
I won't use made up pronouns because I refuse to accept an obligation to learn and remember an ever growing list of made-up words that are required to secure the emotions of people who have been trained to have an emotional breakdown when they don't get their way — VagabondSpectre
You've missed a few important
ifs in your argument here.
If the list were ever-growing,
then it would indeed be a burden that might well outweigh the harms, and
if the individuals had been simply 'trained' to have an emotional breakdown when they don't get their way,
then the harms would indeed be too trivial to be of concern. So there is the first requirement for evidence. Personally, on this issue I am of the opinion that the greater harm is done to the transgender person by the therapist/transgender movement encouraging them to consider their gender and their pronouns to be a vital part of who they are. I believe that such an attitude is actually manufacturing excessively fragile individuals who place too much of their self-worth on the successful presentation of their image and we shouldn't be encouraging this by the use of special pronouns. But that opinion would need to be backed up by some evidence (which I don't yet have). Even then, it would not be that we should not restrict language use to protect people's emotional state. It would be that,
in this case, restricting language use would be further harming people's emotional state and should not be done. solely on utilitarian grounds.
But the main reason is that the upward limit on possible emotional harm caused by allowing certain ideas to exist is far more insignificant than the amount of physical and all other forms of harm which history has demonstrated can easily be inflicted upon a population, by it's own government, when free speech is forbidden. — VagabondSpectre
Again this is rather taking a polemic view which I don't think the evidence has shown is warranted. It is perfectly possible (though difficult to prove outright) that much of what we take for granted as 'civilised' society is held together by our day-to-day levels of politeness and the thousands of acts of small polite acquiescence we all engage in on a daily basis to live peaceably with one another. Likewise, restrictions on certain freedoms to speak (inciting hatred, defamation, harassment, racial and sexually abusive terms, etc.) have all shown themselves to be very useful in stabilising society and none of these interventions, so far, have been any kind of 'slippery-slope' to Orwellian thought-policing. So no, I do not accept your argument that it is simply a given that people taking offence is automatically shown by history to be of less harm than the restriction of free speech. It is still about weighing the harms in each individual case, there are no absolute positions on this that I can see.
I will not quote sections of your approach to the de-platforming of racists, because I think the issue we have here is one of fundamental axioms. If you would reconsider the rough list of harms I outlined when I first tried to talk about the weighing exercise, the idea that denying these people a platform makes their ideas more attractive was in the list of harms, as was the idea that opportunities might be missed to counter their ideas with good arguments. But also on that list was the idea that providing any official sounding platform might give their ideas legitimacy, and that arguing with them as if we believed they had a point to make might encourage more extreme views (as many of these people simply enjoy being the maverick). So I understand you consider the evidence to be in favour of the harms caused by making their views more attractive and not countering them. I tend more towards the evidence being in favour of the greater harm being legitimising their views and inviting them to become more extreme (in trying to get banned, simply for the kudos).
Given the difficulty in trying to find conclusive evidence in this area (we can't simply run our future both ways and see what happens), I think we may simply have to agree to differ on this one. History is littered with examples of views given open platforms that have not been challenged, but instead grew out of control (Nazi Germany), as it is with ideas driven underground that grew by virtue of being repressed (Arab Spring). At the end of the day, this one will be a judgement call, from a utilitarian perspective. From a virtue ethical perspective, however, progress I think can be made. I would not tolerate that kind of language in my house simply as an expression of the virtues I hold to be important to my character, I don't see why YouTube should tolerate it on their website, nor why a university should tolerate it within their buildings, nor why, by extension, the democratic will of a population should tolerate it within their country. Sometimes our actions are expressions of our fundamental virtues and institutions like universities and democratic governments have just as much right to express their virtues by their actions as any person does.
The rest of your argument seems to centre on another area where I feel we will simply have to agree to differ on axiomatic grounds. Yes, I absolutely do think that "the voting public cannot be trusted to form their own rational assessment based on the evidence". That is why we have representative democracy, not direct democracy. We do not ask the public what they think the tax rate should be, we ask them which expert they would like to decide on their behalf. I believe the evidence is overwhelming that people do not make rational decisions the vast majority of the time, they are easily lead by charismatic or powerful speakers, regardless of the logic behind their rhetoric, and are not persuaded at all by calm rational disabusing of powerful emotional propositions. The powerful, emotional propositions win every time.
The only way to protect society from harming itself in the long run seems, no matter how unpleasant, to be to put some restraint on the ability of powerful charismatic speakers to say certain things which, those who have been elected to make such decisions, feel would be harmful were they adopted. I think trusting to a largely emotionally driven general public to resist the temptation of a powerful speaker like Hitler is taking an excessive risk, just to uphold a principle. It would be like starving to death in the wild, just to maintain one's vegetarianism. I admire your faith in the enlightenment, I do not share it.