If I condition on ~(Tuesday & HEADS), I exclude neither the heads protocol nor the tails protocol, as neither included it.
This is incorrect. What happens on Tuesday&HEADS is a part of the HEADS protocol, so you excluded part of it. And you treat the various possibilities inconsistently.
What you are trying to do is like trying to get a sum of 10 or more on two six-sided dice. If you look at only one, and see that it is not a 5 or a 6, can you conclude that the sum can't be 10 or more? After all, you have to have a 5 or a 6 to get that large of a sum, and you don't see one.
Just like my example excluded the possibility that the unseen die is a 6, you excluded part of the HEADS protocol when you conditioned on ~(Tuesday & HEADS). Specifically, the part where SOTAI happens. Whether or not Beauty is awake to see it, it is still a part of the HEADS protocol and you are treating it as if it is not. You are inconsistent because you insist you can't separate the two parts of the TAILS protocol the same way.
This helps me not at all.
The "help" I am trying to offer, is to get you to see that you have to separate both protocols into individual days. And you are right, it will be of no help to you if you refuse to see this, just like you won't address my "four volunteers" proof that the answer is 1/3.
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In probability, an
outcome is a description of a result. A set of such descriptions with the property that every possible result of an experiment fits exactly one of the descriptions is called a
sample space of the experiment.
There can be more than one sample space, depending on what you are interested in describing. Possible sample spaces for rolling my two dice include 36 outcomes (if every
ordered combination is considered), or 11 (if just the sum is considered), or 2 (if all you care about is whether the sum is, or isn't, 10 or more). But note that it is never wrong to use a larger sample space than the minimum required to distinguish what is of interest to you: the 36-element sample space describes the experiment where you are trying to get 10 or more, and in fact is easier to use. The most common mistake made by beginners in probability may be using the wrong sample space, and assuming the outcomes are equiprobable just because it is a sample space. ("I have two children, and there is a 1/3 chance that I have two boys because the sample space is 0, 1, or 2 boys!")
An
event is not the same as an outcome, it is a
set of outcomes. The two are easily confused. The difference is that your schema for providing descriptions can, depending on the event, separate it into subsets that are also events. By definition, an outcome can't be separated that way unless you change the schema.
So if your schema is to look at the sum, a 10 is a 10 whether the combination is (4,6) or (5,5). But that schema isn't useful if all you see is one die: "I see a 4" doesn't tell you anything about which "sum" description is appropriate. You have to change to a schema that describes the possible companions of the 4 you see.
In your approach to Sleeping Beauty, you are considering Monday&TAILS and Tuesday&TAILS to be
inseperable parts of the same
outcome. Probably because they are both part of what you call "the TAILS protocol." That is, you consider Monday&TAILS, Tuesday&TAILS, and just TAILS to be different names for the same outcome. This is a point of view that is only valid from outside the experiment; the lab techs, or Beauty on Sunday night.
What you are ignoring, is that when she is inside the experiment, even though she doesn't know which day it is, she does know that that it is not currently
both days. So TAILS (or TAILS protocol) is not an outcome. She can separate it into the distinct outcomes Monday&TAILS and Tuesday&TAILS, and know that only one applies to the current moment. And the fact that you do make this distinction for HEADS requires you to do it with TAILS. (And even if you think it should not be necessary to do so,
you can't be wrong by doing it.)
The
two-day protocol is irrelevant to Beauty, because she is inside the experiment and so participating in only one day. Her sample space is the set of four possible
single-day protocols: {Monday&TAILS, Tuesday&TAILS, Monday&HEADS, Tuesday&HEADS}. Each has a prior probability of 1/4 to apply to a random
single day in the experiment, which is all that Beauty knows is happening. But because she kn0ows SOTAI is happening on that
single day, she ca rule out one of those outcomes.