On 'mental health'? However, there is an issue that I haven't mentioned about antidepressant medications, they tend to poop out with time. In my experience, after a while the antidepressant effects subside and your left with feeling apathetic or unmotivated.
And, motivation is an important thing, don't you think? I would say that motivation or the desire to get better is the best prognosis for remission from depression. What these drugs do is make you content with everything (mostly the SSRI's), and leave you or me, from personal experience, apathetic and unmotivated. That's a hole many people get stuck in. Doing some armchair psychology, I suppose that the best time to address depression is when you first get into it, then the cause of it is easier to discern, I think. — Posty McPostface
I happen to think that "armchair psychology" is an inexpensive way of keeping one hand on the pole while you try to deal with what life is throwing at you. So I for one, am glad that you continue to share your ideas with us because you are not alone in this ride of absurdity called life.
I can relate to being on SSRI's and Benzos for almost 30 years now and I can tell you that the reason I was put on the medications is not the same reason I am still on them today. I am on them today because as you might know, once you start on them there is really no way off. I mean sure you could stop taking them but those around you, many who have only known you on these meds, do have a bit of a say in how they are or are not affecting you. Same with the discontinuation of any med and how it affects you. When I share with the Doctor that I don't think (Insert SSRI name here for the list is long) is working anymore they either have started me on another SSRI or one even gave a secondary med to improve the impact of the SSRI. In doing so there is absolutely no way to know if you are stable without meds and when you go off the medication, how do we know if we are stable if it has taken a medication to achieve stability for over a decade? There really is no way to find the 'real you' which was a slice in time before the addition of meds because while on the meds, time has passed, anxieties have changed focus and we have grown.
I have been told that people who are manic or people who ruminate have learned to enjoy the unmedicated high and who wouldn't? I know that I still cycle on medication, I just am more apathetic so it takes a LOT to get me riled but when it does, oooo just be careful you are not in my line of fire.
Genetically and being from Chicago, I have a decent 'fight' factor in my makeup which rarely overrides my filters of logic and grace, I mean rarely, like once or twice a year but it's there. Last week it happened when the Dentist called regarding oral surgery I was scheduled to have yesterday (and did) just to give me a "little update from the surgeon" which was to say that the Doctor thinks it would be easier on me and faster for him, to sedate me via IV, as opposed to taking the time to work on me with only Nitrous. I will save you the pages of how that impacted me and cut to the chase in that I had the surgery done, on time and done right with another dentist.
There are some times when it is perfectly okay with being not okay and don't let any one person tell you different. But for me? By the time a third person says something to me about my emotions not being in line with what is 'normal', I actively work at calming to the same level as those around me.