Sure, what does that have to do with me using the Catholic Church for the sake of this discussion though? — Agustino
In fact, you probably don't find a lot of genuine believers, period, because following Jesus or Buddha is hard. — Bitter Crank
I'm far more of a cultural Christian than an ardent believer. Whether I even believe in it is unclear. I hang around a Lutheran church because it is near by (across the street) and it helps me maintain a little community with other people. I would prefer a bit more community, and would like to have more gays and oddball outliers among my circle,. But success in seeking oddballs and outliers in Lutheran churches is contraindicated. — Bitter Crank
They also have as much integrity, interest in salvation, and are as attentive to the teaching of Jesus as everyone else. — Bitter Crank
I have had lots of interaction with conservative and liberal Catholics, mainline Protestants and evangelicals. Sincere and earnest believers are all pretty much alike, as are lukewarm believers, whatever their denominational membership. — Bitter Crank
My, such a glittering generality. What, actually, do you know about Lutherans and Methodists? — Bitter Crank
That's correct. But so what? — Agustino
It is a curious thing. From afar, protestants (thinking here of evangelicals mainly) seem a lot more into their religion, at least superficially, than many lay Orthodox believers (or Catholic) that I know personally. But obviously I don't have as much acquaintance with protestants as you do. So what's your general take on Protestantism from within the belly of the beast? — Agustino
Is a common experience with Protestant believers? — Agustino
Right, so now we know that you don't own a Mac — Agustino
I have no opinion about Muhammad's character. — T Clark
He died 1,400 years ago.
It's not relevant to what we are discussing.
Thousands, tens of thousands, of Catholic priests have raped tens of thousands of children, in many cases destroying their lives. Does that justify rejecting Christianity out of hand? Actually, maybe it does. That's not the only stain on the robe of Christianity.
The fact that you, Agustino, and your ilk are so afraid of Islam shows the emptiness of your ideas. You just want to keep what's yours and make sure no one else gets their share. — T Clark
If I was the Pope, I'd be adamant about this. An important job of the Church should be to find a mechanism to even speed up the process of removing fake believers from within. A wolf in sheep's clothing is more dangerous than even a pack of wolves! What is necessary are people who are totally committed to the traditions of the Church, to its history, to living moral lives, and to God. — Agustino
No, I actually don't think I'm fit to be a moderator, but I would have other people to propose: Mariner, Thorongil, yourself, John and a few more! I'd aim for a mix between theist/atheist, progressive/conservative, just to make everything fair. — Agustino
And I don't agree that depression never ceases to exist for those who have been depressed at one time or another. It's not something that you're stuck with for life, but something which can come and go. I reject this false dichotomy of either being depressed or coping with depression, and everyone else must be in denial. There do exist people who, for periods of time, are genuinely neither depressed, nor coping with depression, but for whom depression has no place in their life. — Sapientia
Like look - hard work means you don't even have time to eat properly. No breaks, no nothing. Wake up, work work work, sleep. Repeat. — Agustino
3+1(.5) (MSc). — Agustino
You just misunderstood what I meant by my statement. — Agustino
I'm not blaming it, I'm merely saying the truth — Agustino
Quote the right bit of text. The ego is in you saying your character would be wasted by working at McD's. — Agustino
Well yes, I think if Sapientia wants more money, then he needs to work harder (more than fulltime). I certainly had weeks this past year when I worked 12hours+ day after day. — Agustino
Yes, but the government should do more to help people like me than people like Mr. Rich and his gold digger wife. — Sapientia
Bridges are more complicated structures because of dynamic loading issues and (for some bridges) resonance. So no, I didn't expect to be a bridge master. But I did expect to be able to design and build a simple house from scratch for example. — Agustino
In my opinion yes, but that's not what most other people would say. Most other people in my place (my classmates) were very happy. — Agustino
I'm not blaming anything - as I said before, I am happy that I'm not working in the same industry I got my degree in atm. — Agustino
Weak — Agustino
Right, I suggest you compare the job description of a civil engineer with that of a construction worker. Totally different things. Site management/supervision is just one of the things a civil engineer can do. Designing structures or foundations is another for example. — Agustino
Who told you it was shite? — Agustino
Nope, I went through my education with the idea that I'd actually emerge a fully capable engineer out of there. — Agustino
No this isn't an a priori necessity. It could be that all parents send their kids to become doctors, and we end up having an overabundance of them. Then the world certainly doesn't need anymore. — Agustino
Right, so more ego. Instead of saying something reasonable such as "I think I can help others better as a licensed counselor than as a McD's worker", you prefer to indulge in ego :-d — Agustino
How can something be a tragedy for someone if their actions didn't cause it? — Noblosh
A civil engineer isn't a construction worker mate... — Agustino
I'm probably one of the best educated people on the planet actually in terms of schooling. I was always the very top of the class, in both school (I was valedictorian) and university (apart from first year when I almost failed). — Agustino
My complaints don't stem from "my" failed education. My complaints stem for the fact that education just isn't helpful - despite me receiving some of the best education out there, I was still incapable to do useful work for others. — Agustino
It did get me a job, but I soon realised that in a job you are like a slave for the most part - at the mercy of others, since you simply haven't been adequately trained to provide real value to people. There's very little creativity, freedom to choose when you work, how you come dressed to work, etc. And I don't like that. So I absolutely didn't choose to quit engineering because of necessity - it's not because I wasn't making enough money. — Agustino
That's not the point. The point is that you have so many advantages which you're throwing away. — Agustino
Ehmmmm no. The system isn't supposed to ensure your success at all. — Agustino
It's nothing but your arrogance and inflamed sense of self worth that makes you think degradingly of working at McD's. — Agustino
Just like losing weight, making money doesn't involve secrets. Just hard work. — Agustino
Supposing that the world doesn't need anymore doctors (there's too many) why the fuck would you become a doctor? It's your fault for going into something that the world doesn't need anymore. You keep throwing the blame, but it's not anyone's fault. — Agustino
So I'm not telling you to be a slut at all - I'm telling you to do something that is useful and helpful for others (and obviously legal) - as far as I see, I'm telling you to stop being a selfish bastard (I want I want) and start being an unselfish and upstanding man (what can I give to the world?). — Agustino
Who told you that? The corrupt educational system? Of course they did! That's the basic principle of selling anything, convincing your customer (read victim) that he needs your product or service - or otherwise he's fucked. — Agustino
Oh I am well acquainted with educational systems through out the world. They all say the same shit. I too believed that shit, until I had my degree, and I saw that it really was no big deal. I wasn't actually smarter or more qualified to do anything because of my degree. I really understood that despite getting my degree with honors, I was completely unqualified in truth for any real work. I really felt I didn't know much. And so I understood that, despite them praising you and shit - university is really useless. — Agustino
Oh, so you think I just magically landed in such a job, completely by accident right? — Agustino
Unbelievable mate, you're complaining?! If I can start a business and make money in a fucking ex-communist country, full of corruption, bureaucracy and crooked laws which squash small businesses and help only big oligarchs, why can't you do it in the greatest capitalist country on Earth?! Just the mere fact you're American => that's instant credit worldwide. — Agustino
You could do something internet based - work anywhere in the world from this "rust belt" middle of nowhere place, so long as you have a computer and an internet connection. If you ran, for example, a web design agency - you could get your projects anywhere in the world. If you ran a digital marketing agency - same shit. I guess you could even open a writing business. And you're American - that alone puts you ahead of most everybody out there. What can the poor Indians running web development companies and trying to get international projects say then? Why can these people do it, even though they have all the disadvantages in the world? Language barriers, etc. — Agustino
If I came to that fallow field, I'd show you how eazy peazy it is to bring in 5K/month revenue in no time - just one month. 60% time getting projects, 40% doing them yourself or giving them off to others to do in parts for you. It's really not that difficult if you're willing to work, persevere, and handle the worst imaginable emotions and thoughts ("oh I'm failing, never gonna make it, this is stupid, I'm wasting my time, oh this is so hard - never gonna learn it, my client will be mad, etc. etc.). Make 100 phone calls every day - you'll find work, after 5 days of rejection. It really all has to do with never giving up, and resisting pain and stress. — Agustino
Change this negative attitude of yours from "it's impossible" to "how can I make this work?" — Agustino
Why is a degree "supposed to land you a job"? Why do you think that? — Agustino
Not true. I work in web development, database management & recently online advertising - I have no degree in any of them. Completely self taught. I hold a degree in civil engineering - so yeah. People are misguidedly obsessed with degrees - that's why they get stuck at certain levels in society and never move beyond. A degree is a fucking piece of paper - means very little. I've probably seen more incapable people with degrees than without — Agustino
Well, why not? — Agustino
But it does take a lot of will to keep crying and waiting you know. It's not like that's the easiest thing in the world either. — Agustino
Implying one can choose to be born. — Noblosh
First there's nothing wrong with working as a trash collector or a McDonalds burger flipper if that's where you have to start. What's all this pursuit of status and pride because of a fucking college degree? — Agustino
The truth is that a degree means almost nothing these days - university isn't even that hard anymore. It's not like you graduated a university in Newton's day - no you graduated a University in the day and age when it is full of drunkards, druggies, and partying - everyone knows that. Everyone knows that finishing university is nothing big anymore - it's easy, if even these crazy party goers can finish it pfff - give me a break. And rightfully so - everyone is getting a degree. If you're doing what everyone is doing you're competing against everyone, what are the chances of winning that way? How are you any different from them, why should anyone pick you and not them? How do you stand out, what makes you unique? — Agustino
A degree is only helpful in one situation. If you want to get a job in a big organisation. Then a degree is needed, not because it shows you have the skills (cause it probably doesn't show that - a degree is skill faking quite often) but rather because the people in charge of employing you need a way to justify hiring you in case you do a shit job. Then they can tell the higher up managers/bosses, "oh well, he had a degree, his paper work was all okay, he was certainly the most qualified, I couldn't have done any better!" - save their own bottoms. That's when a degree is needed. Most of this world is built on forgery and fakery, not on intelligence and skill anyway - it's all smoke and mirrors, because people are damn lazy and don't put heart in their work - they just want social status and prestige, being seen well by others. What did Napoleon say - "a soldier will fight long and hard for a bit of colored ribbon". But how did Napoleon himself think? "A throne is only a bench covered with velvet" — Agustino
And getting a job isn't your only alternative. You could either work as self-employed (as a contractor or freelancer) or start your own business in some field you know about. The possibilities are all there, you just have to look for them and take them. You aren't entitled to a job in any field, regardless of your education. There is no entitlement in this world, you can either provide value to others, or you can't. — Agustino
Do some art. Take up astrology or tarot. It's a body of symbolism that goes on and on and reveals how suicide relates to other parts of life.
Otherwise just cry and wait it out. — Mongrel
depression is a mood, not an illness, treat it accordingly. — Noblosh
Opportunities abound. Seriously. But many people are not willing to put in the effort, and go through the fear, anxiety, etc. required to take the opportunities. They also lack discipline, will, and intelligence.
Many people expect to find a job - why? - because they think they're entitled to it. Nobody is entitled to anything. But yet many people wait on the state - give me this, give me that, make the economy better, clean my street, etc. Bullshit. — Agustino
This attachment to the enjoyment of life, instead of to more objective goals - such as building a family, spiritual enlightenment, building a business, etc. - leads to chaos. — Agustino
Common — Agustino
tragedies and bad luck are much rarer than we usually think. — Agustino
Apologies for just jumping in and critiquing (my mental quota for posting here gets filled pretty fast, but I keep reading), but how does a purely theoretical concept like this support any real argument? — Noble Dust
That may be true, but those in power always seem to want to hang onto it; and it doesn't seem to have much to do with theological issues. — John
If Islam had come first and enjoyed the geographical and cultural advantages that Christianity has, then it might well have had a more centralized structure. If Islam had been around instead of Christianity then Constantine might have chosen it to unify his empire instead of Christianity. Of course, that is really pretty empty speculation; and if Hegel is right and history is a dialectic, then Islam as we know it could not have preceded Christianity in any case. You are of course free to cite "books and articles by the dozen" or present the arguments from those in your own words. — John
Every attempt to analyse Islam on the basis of theology and not in terms of sociology and politics is vacuous. — StreetlightX
What is your proposal for addressing it? — andrewk
It's a complex issue, there can be either theocratic or ecclesiocratic states associated with religions. — John
Christianity is a much older religion that Islam, so it is not surprising that predominately Christian countries have developed nearly universal separation between politics and religion earlier than Islam has. — John
There are also many economic, geographical and historical factors in play. Thinking about complex issues simplistically leads to simple-minded conclusions. The tendency to want to view cultural issues simplistically is driven by either laziness or negative emotion or a combination of both, and leads to conclusions which are not rationally supportable. — John
Sometimes I feel like we should just wait - we'll die eventually and ''hopefully'' solve this ancient riddle. — TheMadFool