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  • Ukraine Crisis
    Interviewer: "So they blocked it?"

    Naftali Bennett: "Basically, yes. They blocked it and I thought they're wrong. In retrospect it's too soon to know.

    [Naftali Bennett lists a number of disadvantages of continuing the war, and then continues...]

    On the other hand, and I'm not being cynical, there's a statement here, after very many years. President Biden created an alliance vis-à-vis an aggressor in the general perception and this reflects on other arenas, such as China and Taiwan and there are consequences."
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Hilarious as you may find it, there are independent people giving acounts of the negotiations, and that's the picture they sketch.

    Here's what Jeffrey Sachs had to say, based on his direct contact with the diplomats involved:

    The war broke out, and within a month Zelensky said: "[Ukraine] could be neutral." And negotiations started in Ankara with Turkish mediation. And I spoke to the Turkish mediators. I spoke to people who were deeply involved in this. There was rapid progress made on the basis of Ukrainian neutrality.

    Then, one day, the Ukrainians [stopped the negotiations]. The best estimate given to us by former prime minister Naftali Bennett in a very interesting, long interview he gave online a couple months ago, said: "The US stopped it. I didn't agree with them, but they thought they needed to be tough towards China. That it would be a sign of weakness to go along with [the peace negotiations]."

    Honest to god. It's worse than five-year-olds.

    The Russians and the Ukrainians were ready for peace. The US wasn't, because they feared how it would reflect back on them in the eyes of the Chinese.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    You are campaigning against your own intellectual decency.neomac

    Coming from you, that's rich. :rofl:
  • Coronavirus
    Imagine spinning apologetics for smear campaigns falsely accusing someone of anti-semitism.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    It appears those who would post lengthy and strongly-worded posts on how the Ukrainians must continue to fight and die, themselves lack the courage to risk something so trivial as being wrong.

    There's something rather icky about that, and it doesn't suggest any kind of confidence in one's views either.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Not in the slightest.

    makes a good point here:

    Convincing people that Ukraine has a chance of 'winning' is the main method by which continued drip-feed sales of weapons are justified (making the arms manufacturers an unrivalled fortune). Since Ukraine is actually being destroyed (economically, but also literally), it takes quite the major advertising effort to keep this illusion up. Hence the massive social media campaign, of which your posts (wittingly or not) form part.Isaac

    Since so many of you are happily contributing to said ad campaign, isn't there anyone among you who believes enough in this theoretical chance of winning to make a prediction of the how/when of Ukrainian success?

    It appears not, and that is no surprise, but it does beg the question what it is exactly that those people are doing here.

    Entertaining a notion for sport?
  • Coronavirus
    If "you people" means US voters, [...]jorndoe

    Of course that's what I mean.

    [...] a few US politicians are clowns, including RFK Jr.jorndoe

    And I suppose that is your excuse for participating in said smear campaign without even bothering to see what was actually said?
  • Ukraine Crisis
    :point:
    If there are people here who are predicting imminent major successes in line with this paper reality, speak up please.Tzeentch

    No one?
  • Coronavirus
    Here's what Kennedy himself had to say about it:




    Is Kennedy secretly anti-semitic, or is this just a well-coordinated smear campaign to dispose of a threatening political opponent?


    Let's be real. 'Dumpster fire' doesn't begin to describe American politics and the buffoons you people put in the White House. Think what you will about RFK, but he's a decent common sense guy, and common sense is something that is deeply threatening to the American elite.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    I'm sure on paper everything is looking just dandy for Ukraine.

    If there are people here who are predicting imminent major successes in line with this paper reality, speak up please.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    How far should the situation in Ukraine deterioriate before we can agree the peace accords that were on the table in March / April 2022, scarcely a month into the war, should have been carried out instead of blocked by the US?

    Those were blocked by the US simply to save Washington's ego. Flipping Ukraine pro-western has been a decades-long project of the Neocon foreign policy blob, under leadership of chief blob Nuland.

    How many thousands of lives and billions in damages is Washington's ego worth?
  • Ukraine Crisis
    I await Ukrainian success, as evidenced by their 'offensive' at Kherson, with bated breath. :pray:
  • Ukraine Crisis
    If Ukraine lacked the capability to take Kherson, then Russians had no reason to leave it.Jabberwock

    A very simplistic way of imagining things.

    There's not really much point in debating. If you want to believe the propaganda spins and keep puffing the hopium, have at it.

    I think if you were honest with yourself, you'd realize that the longer people cling to idle hope, the more people needlessly die and the more devastation is inflicted upon Ukraine.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    What? You still consider the offensive in which Russians lost Kherson (the only oblast center they managed to take) as failed?Jabberwock

    The offensive I referred to took place well before the Russians left Kherson. And it failed.

    It's pretty obvious that Ukraine lacked the offensive capability to wrench Kherson from the Russians in an actual battle like the one we saw at Bakhmut.

    They timed their 'offensive' when the Russians were pulling back to fix their overextended lines, and of course the western media propaganda spun this into a 'successful offensive'.

    Pure nonsense.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    That is, you have declared the Kherson offensive as failed (and Ukraine as losing the war) a bit prematurely, haven't you?Jabberwock

    No, I think those were both bang on the money, and the current situation reflects that.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Why do you think so?jorndoe

    There have been reports of the Russians pushing for territory in the north. Meanwhile, the Ukrainians haven't reported any territorial gains for about a week or so. That to me is a pretty good indicator that the Ukrainian offensive has likely concluded, and the Russians might be looking to retake the initiative.

    The Russians probably wouldn't go on the attack if they believed the Ukrainians may still have capacity left.

    NATO members (and whoever else) are indirectly involved (no declaration of war / combatants). Why "heavily" though?jorndoe

    Biden stated Ukraine couldn't join NATO while still at war with Russia, obviously fearing what would happen if Ukraine invoked Art 5. and dragged all of NATO into the war, potentially triggering WWIII.

    This is a big deal, because it basically puts the power in Russia's hands. As long as Russia continues the war, Ukraine can't join NATO, and NATO won't be getting directly militarily involved.

    All of this was of course already implied, but when Biden says it publicly it means it's basically official NATO policy now. It's a harsh blow to Ukraine, because as I've argued earlier, their chances in this war are extremely slim without direct NATO involvement.

    Plausible enough, yet makes Prigozhin appear dumber than a fairly successful entrepreneur. Is he that out of touch? Does it stack up?jorndoe

    I don't know. Much is still unclear and earlier I stated I would judge the episode by its effects on the battlefield, which haven't been noticable, so for now I'll settle on it having been an accidental fluke.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    I've not heard you rate the two elements before (but I may be misremembering). Intention and effect are necessary but intention is 'first and foremost'. That complicates any judgement a little. How does this 'first and foremost' cash out in terms of moral judgement, for you? If a person really strongly intended a good thing, but a bad thing occurred, is that moral because their intentions is 'first and foremost'? The element of weighting adds a new dimension to my understanding of your moral system.Isaac

    Consider these examples:

    A person intends to harm, but fails to do so. Was the act immoral? I would say yes. In this case, apparently the intention is all it takes.

    A person does not intend to do harm, but accidentally does harm anyway. Has this person acted immorally? I would say no. Because the person did not intend for this to happen, this has to be chalked up to ignorance or inevitability, and as such belongs in the realm of tragedy. It's impossible to avoid harm if we are not aware that we're committing it. Apparently, a harmful outcome alone is not enough to class an act as immoral.

    Obviously we could fill a whole book with this subject alone, but this is my simple take on the matter and the types of intuitions I'm following.

    Then I'm persuaded. Otherwise we'd go left.Isaac

    I think we're using different ideas of what persuasion entails. It seems persuasion to you means the act of changing another's mind. I don't think that's inherently immoral, and in my view, nothing immoral or questionable happens in your example.

    Why? Why meddle?Isaac

    I'd appreciate you come to your point.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    So these acts of persuasion are not immoral, but not moral either.Isaac

    In my view, persuasion is skirting the line. I've explained that. It certainly can be immoral, but it doesn't have to be. Immoral acts depend first and foremost on the intention, and persuasion often serves selfish goals, and some common methods of persuasion, which I referred to earlier, indicate that.

    ...so in what way 'pitfall'?Isaac

    What I was hinting at with that comment, is that morality is often used simply as a means for exerting power over others - an excuse to interject oneself unwelcomely in the affairs of others.

    No, I don't agree. If you and I were carrying a large object through the woods and reach a fork in the road. I think we ought go left and you right, I needn't have any strong conviction about left, nor you right, but we can clearly only go one way, so we must decide I must persuade you, or you I.Isaac

    I don't know why you'd have to be persuaded if you didn't feel very strongly about left or right. I would say "Right" and you would shrug your shoulders and right we went!

    There are loads of views I respect but thing are wrong (I don't see any need for 'categorically' here).Isaac

    Obviously if you hold a view and someone else holds an incompatible view, you must in some way believe they are wrong, so believing someone else is wrong isn't the issue.

    If one believes there's no merit whatsoever to their ideas, no room for doubt, no room for another's view, then I don't think it's possible to respect their ideas. That is my view.

    But this discussion is getting lengthy enough as is, and I don't think there's a need to fret over every word used. Let's try to stick to the core of the matter.

    But 'of great importance' is a different kettle of fish entirely to 'pitfalls'.Isaac

    You asked how conversations could take place in a non-voluntary setting, and I pointed out how a child is taught moral ideas largely without their say in things, as an example of a non-horizontal 'discussion' that isn't exactly voluntary.

    Now, obviously a child needs to be taught things, but due to this non-horizontal relationship, an asymmetry in power, the nature and shape of such a 'student-teacher' relationship are of great importance. Suffice to say that in my view it puts a great deal of responsibility on the shoulders of the 'teacher'.

    If subconscious effects have to now be taken into account, your posts become a lot more risky.Isaac

    As I said, I do take into consideration the kind of person I'm talking to. I wouldn't discuss this way with someone who strikes me as being easily influenced.

    I can't help feeling all of this is a very long winded post-hoc way round the fact that your posts are fine because you have good intentions. You're not trying to hurt people and you're not trying to use them for your own gain, so it's fine that you post the way you do. doesn't that just seem simpler?Isaac

    I mean, you interjected in my conversation with someone else and are showering me with questions. You're of course welcome to do so, but I'm not sure why you're turning this into something I'm trying to do, all of a sudden. :chin:
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    Yes, but intent is not enough. You sell yourself short. You do persuade. and unless you've been living in a cave for your adult life, you'll know that when you present arguments as you do here, they sometimes persuade.Isaac

    What I'm doing isn't persuading, at least not in the way I've characterized it. I'm conversing and exchanging ideas with people on a voluntary basis.

    Sometimes that changes people's minds, but the form such interactions take matters, which is why I make the distinction.

    Sure. But immoral. That's your claim. A moral action is good in both intent and outcome. Intent alone isn't enough. so any act of conversation which actually does persuade someone (even if you intended it not to) is immoral because it's had the effect of meddling in their affairs.Isaac

    That is not a claim I make though, nor do I claim that any act that changes someone's mind is immoral.

    Note also that I have shared my view on what constitutes a moral act, not on what constitutes an immoral act, and I believe the two don't function exactly the same.

    You said earlier that non-horizontal dialogue was one which assumes the correctness of one's own position and the incorrectness of the other'sIsaac

    Non-horizontal dialogue is one in which one party expresses their views, and the other party simply listens and accepts or is not allowed to express their views, or their views aren't taken seriously. This usually means the former assumes the correctness of their position, and the incorrectness of the other, which is why I said persuasion seems to imply non-horizontal dialogue. The act of persuading someone is typified by a strong belief that one's own belief is better than the other's, no?

    Horizontal dialogue on the other hand is typified by openness and respect.

    I can respect you and still think you're wrong, I hope.Isaac

    Respect me as a person, perhaps. But I don't think you can respect my views while simultaneously believing them to be categorically wrong.

    How is teaching a child morals different from teaching them language, or maths, or history, or biology...?Isaac

    There isn't necessarily a distinction, and the same thing applies (though, in subjects that teach tools rather than views it seems less relevant). The nature and shape of the student-teacher relationship therefore is of great importance, because it too implies a non-horizontal relationship.

    But people can tun off the TV, no? If we're concerned about the subconscious, then your posts here have more to worry about than their general persuasiveness. There's a whole slew of subconscious messages they might be conveying. Again taking intent and effect.Isaac

    People 'can' turn off the TV, but also for various reasons they won't, even when they probaby should.

    And I wouldn't have these types of conversations with people who cannot push back against my ideas.

    So yes, such things should be taken into account.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    The argument... ... seems to be trying to persuade me of a position you think is right. Is that then unethical?Isaac

    I'm not trying to persuade you, or anyone on TPF. My purpose here is testing my views, and looking for interesting insights that I may have failed to recognize.

    In the example I gave I could simply be 'thinking' the man greedy and happening to vocalise what I think.Isaac

    If there is truly no intention to meddle, this belongs to the realm of tragedy and ignorance. Unfortunate, but no one is perfect.

    I think in general we ought to be thoughtful in how our actions can affect others.

    How would you know it was unwelcome in advance?Isaac

    You can't. But a thoughtful approach will ensure no major damage be done until one can discern whether their involvement is appreciated.

    What kind of action do you think people ought take to ensure their efforts are not unwelcome?Isaac

    Horizontal dialogue, for example, which is characterized by respect for the other's view point.

    Any and all moral declarations attempting to influence others will take place during some voluntary conversation.Isaac

    I don't think so.

    One example would be how many moral 'lessons' take place when one is still a child - when one's brain isn't fully developed and one doesn't really possess the tools to give any pushback to the ideas that are being presented.

    Another could be how people are repeatedly exposed to moral messages, in the news, in media, in commercials, etc. A lot of this may even take place subconsciously. I would argue that the nature of those things isn't exactly voluntary.

    I'm not yet seeing the difference you're trying to get at between a forum like this and any other normal conversation.Isaac

    A normal conversation would be subject to the same criteria, though is generally a lot more personal (and thus powerful) in nature.

    If we imagine some type of philosophy conference where people come to express their views and listen to those of others, I would regard it the same as what we're doing here on this forum. People engage voluntarily, and know the nature of what they're participating in.

    When people voluntarily join in the exercise of sharing and discussing views, this is of course not meddling.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Now that the dust has settled, perhaps it's a good time to evaluate the balance of power in the conflict.

    The last months have been marked by the long-awaited Ukrainian offensive. That offensive seems to have now concluded, with the result being what many had already expected - minor gains for Ukraine, but no real strategic impact as they were unable to pierce Russian defensive lines.

    My sense is that this offensive was a failure in all ways but one. The one upside being that this offensive can be used for a long time to come as proof that Ukraine is still capable of launching offensives, and therefore is not yet defeated on the battlefield.

    The veracity of such a view is questionable, considering the offensive was essentially a complete failure, but nonetheless it may function as a source of hopium for those who prefer not to face the facts, which seems to describe most of the western political top.


    My prediction is that Russia will take over the initiative once Ukraine's offensive has completely halted, and once again will start offensive operations as we have seen in the past.

    Depending the degree to which Ukraine's offensive has exhausted Ukrainian reserve capacity, the Russians may push for territory more aggressively than in the past, or if resistance remains fierce might opt for a more Bakhmut-style approach of grinding attritional warfare with artillery and other types of indirect strikes.


    Mearsheimer seems quite confident that the Russians still intend to push for large amounts of extra territory, so there's a prediction we can come back to to test Mearsheimer's views in the future.


    NATO's response in the Vilnius Summit has been quite telling - basically a clear 'no' with regards to NATO membership for Ukraine as long as the war continues, which suggests heavily that NATO is not looking to get more military involved than it already is.

    As I predicted in this thread a long time ago, without direct NATO involvement Ukraine will continue to lose more and more as time goes on. It simply lacks the military capacity.


    Lastly, the Prigozhin episode has been quite interesting. It's still hard to tell what exactly went on, but a few weeks back I noted it's probably best evaluated by the effect it has on the battlefield. From what I can tell, so far there have been little to no effects, and things developed pretty much how one would expect.

    My sense therefore is that it probably was a rather fool-hardly attempt by Prigozhin to protest against the top military brass, and subsequently this was oversold by the media in the hopes that it would weaken Putin, which it probably has in some ways, but not enough to have an impact on the war from what I'm able to tell.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    What is it about these that you find 'non-kosher'?Isaac

    Their forceful nature.

    Genuine being...? I assume if I want to persuade you to give more to charity, my intention is as genuine as if you want to persuade me to meddle less?Isaac

    Persuasion seems to assume the correctness of one's own position and the incorrectness of the other's, which in itself seems to imply non-horizontal dialogue.

    If I make a law out of the conviction that to do such is a moral good, my intention is genuine. If I make a law with as my goal personal gain, or out of a desire to control, a desire to hurt, etc. my intention is not genuine.

    I see a wealthy person and say "it's really greedy of you to keep all your wealth, children are starving!"

    You see a meddling person (for example me, in the above situation) and say "you didn't ought meddle in that man's affairs, it's up to him what to do with his money, morality is about personal virtue, not imposing on others" (or something like that).

    Are we still both on a par? Have I crossed a line yet in my intervention which you haven't crossed in yours?
    Isaac

    That's not really something I would say, though.

    I may think something along those lines (and of course here on this forum, I write down what I think), but the meddling only happens when there's an unwelcome effort to influence someone.

    Similarly, I wouldn't accuse you or anyone else of meddling just because they post their thoughts on a forum.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    Wouldn't the same be true for almost all moralising? Very rarely do the would-be moralisers herd people at gunpoint into rooms before speaking. [...] I can't think of many examples where people are forced to listen to moral arguments.Isaac

    I think a lot of moralising falls into the meddling category, though certainly not all, and there are plenty of cases in which the responsibility lies with oneself to leave the conversation.

    A gun isn't necessary though, since individuals can be forceful in non-physical ways.
    Think for example of applying social pressure, using misleading rhetorical devices, non-horizontal dialogue, etc.

    These are all common, non-kosher ways of discussing morality.

    Then there is morality that's implicit in law, which is applied through the threat of violence ('at gunpoint').

    And of course, if the intention isn't genuine this is also a problem, and I would argue that's the case for a lot of moralising too.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    But you've previously argued that morality is not solely about intent. If the result of your posting here is that I'm persuaded to act other than I would have, then you've meddled in my affairs. You might not have intended to, but you've previously denied that as a credible excuse.Isaac

    Nor is it solely about effect.

    But since you are here, interacting and reading my messages voluntarily, there's no meddling taking place. Meddling has an unwelcome quality to it, do you agree?

    If by some fluke you are on this forum against your will, and find my arguments most compelling for reasons that have nothing to do with their merit, then that would be tragic.

    One does well to avoid tragedy, but such is the nature of tragedy. Sometimes one does ill unintentionally.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    I'm not seeing how morality alone 'meddles' in the affairs of others in this way.Isaac

    I didn't mean to imply that it did. I believe it's a common pitfall, but not an inherent one.

    I can see a way in which strong social approbation might 'meddle', but that doesn't seem any different to what you're attempting here (trying to 'meddle' in other people's affairs in getting them to stop 'meddling' in other people's affairs).

    If your arguments are persuasive, then you have undeniably 'meddled'. If I'm persuaded, I will stop the meddling I would have otherwise done, you have meddled with how my affairs would otherwise have progressed.
    Isaac

    I'm not trying to stop anyone from doing anything, nor am I attempting to persuade.

    This is a discussion forum. People come here voluntarily to discuss their ideas, so there is no meddling, only voluntary interaction.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    :pray:

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    Yes, but also and increasingly because there is a strong strand of secular morality which attempts to eschew traditional forms of morality, and even goes so far as to try to undermine normative behavior claims altogether. From this flows the idea that to call something immoral or wrong is passé. Surely this is rooted in the resentment you speak of, but it has become a force unto itself which shapes moral inclinations. Many now deem it mildly immoral to accuse someone of having done something wrong, and in some cases even the private judgment of wrongness is censured. In consequence we see the attempt to have it both ways: to have personal moral standards while at the same time professing that these standards are in no way applied to others.Leontiskos

    This is a rather uncharitable representation of those who follow a personal moral code, and one which I cannot agree with.

    The focus of the sage on self-cultivation is as old as philosophy itself, and perhaps older. We can judge by the nature of their behavior (asceticism, isolation, etc.) and writings that these were in fact genuine motivations towards self-cultivation, and not attempts to 'have it both ways.'

    What may make this disposition appear threatening to some, is that it avoids the common pitfall of using notions of morality as a means to meddle in the affairs of others, and it disarms those who would.
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    All I can say is that charlatans are praised the world over. I generally find bias to be healthy, it is good to think of oneself well. But in terms of understanding the world, it's ideal to exclude oneself from the analysis. I'd like to think I can do it, but I can see that neither intelligence nor wisdom makes one immune to being fooled, and so I know that in all probability, I'm not immune either.Judaka

    Not starting on such a worthwhile endeavor as the search for wisdom and moral virtue, on the off chance one may fall for a charlatan, seems a bit like throwing the baby out with the bathwater, no?

    I think in general charlatans prey on the fickle of mind. A modicum of scrutiny is enough to sniff such characters out.

    You're right, but I have no faith in "us", ...Judaka

    A bit grim, but ok.

    Systems that put no faith in people's ability to discern right from wrong tend to gravitate towards total control. Just something to think about.

    Moral behaviour is behaviour that is moral, no?Judaka

    In my view, a moral act must consist of both a good action and a good intention.

    How does coercing someone into behaving morally not create a facade? Whenever the coercion stops, or wherever it isn't present, the person will inevitably fall back into their immoral ways.

    Ideal governance involves anti-corruption bodies, and legal agencies, who do not have the same incentives as the officials they're monitoring. Accountability is circular, not top-down, and this is crucial.
    Nobody should be trusted to act morally, we should never rely on self-accountability.

    It's important also to remember, while within the moral context, we could "agree" to do away with power, that's never going to happen in reality. The existence of power must be assumed, and so, besides circular accountability, there is only self-accountability, and I have no faith in that.

    Even if we could know the moral paragons, the selection bias for who has power isn't based on that. It'd be easy to, within the moral context, say "Well, we shouldn't allow that", but this is again, overreaching. Morality doesn't govern the world, those with influence, wealth, and power, aren't selected by their goodness, and that should also be an assumption we have to make. Thus, self-accountability can't be relied upon, you know those with power will not be moral paragons, and often, those with power are the ones you least want to have it. Those without moral scruples, choose the optimal route to power and thus outperform the ones with a strong moral conscience.
    Judaka

    This is essentially my message, with which I intended to show that coercing people into behaving 'morally' doesn't really solve anything.

    It puts power in the hands of people who by any means shouldn't be wielding it, and puts those same people in a position where they're above the coercion.

    Ideally there should be 'checks & balances', but one glance at the world we live in will show you what that looks like in practice. That's no surprise - the people in power don't want to be checked and balanced, and they will find ways of avoiding it. They have the power, after all.

    You're quite right that this is a situation we cannot change. All the more reason to focus on oneself!
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    Even if there were such moral paragons, we wouldn't be able to sort them from the charlatans.Judaka

    Oh, come on! That's easy!

    Are you telling me you are afraid that in your quest for wisdom you'd fall for some charlatan's trap? I think you're selling yourself short.

    [...] those who would actually sacrifice their personal ambitions, their goals, their livelihoods, and their freedom, for moral purposes, are a rare breed.Judaka

    If doing Good were easy, we'd all be doing it. We look up to people with a virtuous character precisely because of those things you mentioned. And it's up to us whether we follow their example.

    When acting morally is by far the best choice, due to being incentivised, and a lack of benefit in alternatives, then you get moral behaviour.Judaka

    No, you get a facade of moral behavior. The immoral behavior will then take place in the shadows, or on a level where accountability no longer exists.

    The question here is whether it's possible to coerce a society into behavior morally. I would say that it isn't, simply because someone has to do the coercing, and that happens at a level where there is no (real) accountability. And it's at that level the new immorality will manifest, while the rest of the people are simply oppressed into said facade.

    For example, someone might erroneously believe that nation states manage to successfully coerce their societies into behaving morally. However, since there is no one to coerce nation states, the immorality is simply elevated to that level, and nation states get up to all kinds of immoral behavior!

    Giving someone the ability to benefit from acting immorally, and then trusting them to avoid that temptation, it's dangerous.Judaka

    Certainly, which kind of begs the question why we put our lot in the hands of politicians. But that's really beyond my ability and desire to change.

    It helps others to act morally because it influences their decision-making.Judaka

    Would it? If I were indeed 'enforcing', then I would simply be coercing them into a facade of morality. They wouldn't reap any benefits, because they act 'morally' out of fear, and not as a result of actual virtue they possess.

    In addition, I think coercion is immoral to begin with, so I'll just have to respectfully disagree.

    If ignoring immoral behaviour was the norm, it would encourage it.Judaka

    On the contrary, I think 'turning the other cheek' is a very powerful message. And most importantly, a message that doesn't require immoral behavior on one's own part.

    I am describing my own views, but I feel uncomfortable advocating them to others since as I said, I'm interested in imposing my views, not having others impose on me. That's where the politics begin, as is inevitable.Judaka

    Is it inevitable? You seem aware of your own somewhat contradictory stance with regards to imposing, so what's stopping you from simply resolving the contradiction?
  • Masculinity
    To reiterate, though the primary beneficiaries of a patriarchal society are men, they are not men in general. As@180 Proof pointed out, patriarchy (as I conceive it, simply a society dominated by masculine values) funnels wealth and power to a small cadre of a particular type who happen to be men, but theoretically could be of either sex. And the solution is not to eliminate competition or demonize men or masculine values but to recognize that the way we understand our interrelationships is infused with an arbitrary self-justifying way of looking at things that, I would argue, is deficient and in some senses destructive.Baden

    As I've posted before, I think competition is much better understood as a result of the dynamics of power, something which all living beings are subjected to as a result of a basic drive for survival.

    Why is it so important that this human flaw be labeled as 'masculine'?
  • Personal Morality is Just Morality
    Although your thoughts are almost the opposite of how I think about morality, I do respect your stance.Judaka

    Likewise, and I appreciate the discussion.

    As you said, our views seem to be contrary, so I will not spend too much time pointing out differences, so instead a question:

    We can't wait for moral paragons to guide us, ...Judaka

    Why not?

    History is full of moral paragons, and a lot of them have written things that are quite consistent with one another. The problem is that most have no real desire to follow their example!

    What's your opinion on the need for accountability & enforcement?Judaka

    As flawed as I am, I do not feel like it is my place to hold others accountable, or to enforce my views of morality on others.

    What purpose would it serve?

    What compromises are you willing to make for them and how do they violate your moral principles?Judaka

    The short answer is 'none'.
  • Masculinity
    ... , if you come in with the claim that what those kind of people are espousing is misandry, you end up behaving like one of their tropes.fdrake

    I don't care if people resent me for calling out their bullshit.
  • Masculinity
    None of my comments were directed at you personally, but at some of the people whose opinions you shared. Nor was this an appeal to have you moderated.

    But, as they say, "If the shoe fits..."
  • Masculinity
    Even though these types of subjects aren't my cup of tea, I can actually sympathize with a few of the criticisms that are expressed here. Society certainly isn't perfect, and if there are archaic modes of behavior that cause widespread suffering they should be adressed.

    If such criticisms are expressed with some wisdom and nuance, obviously I would not consider that man-hating.

    However, some people seem to slip into these sorts of discussions and take it as a carte blanche to vent their personal grievances with men on the rest of the world. Suddenly gestures of genuine affection become symbols of male oppression, and fatherhood becomes a means of enacting a power fantasy (as per one of the articles that was linked earlier).

    Such ideas are vile, destructive and sexist.

    In any other context they would be immediately recognized as such, but here they seem to get a pass just because there might be some merit to the wider discussion. And they shouldn't.

    When I see things like this going repeatedly unchallenged, I feel the need to speak up.
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    white people as a classT Clark

    black people as a classT Clark

    How is this way of thinking not inherently racist?

    I'm a good liberal with close black friends and I see it in myself. They do too and some of them tell me about it.T Clark

    Sounds like you need some better friends.
  • Masculinity
    I don't see what you're not getting, it's quite simple.

    Some men oppress some women, but not all men, and nothing about their being men has anything necessarily to do with it, and some of the people doing the oppressing are women, and some of the oppressed are men, and some of the men doing the oppressing it turns out are really women, and some of the women who were oppressed it turns are really men depending on how they're feeling that day.

    But the important thing to remember is that it's the patriarchy.

    Beware of the trap a lesser mind might fall into of just thinking that humans ought not oppress other humans and the best way of identifying victims is by their actually being, you know, victims, rather than by using chromosomes or skin colour which are obviously much better metrics.

    Hope that helps.
    Isaac

    I'm glad I can always count on you, , to shed light on things. :wink: :ok:
  • Masculinity
    I'll blame that on your shoddy quoting.
  • Masculinity
    You are a careful reader. Tzeentch is not.Amity

    Careful reading isn't going to make the sexism any less obvious. :lol:

    Maybe if I read this type of garbage often and carefully enough I'll start to rationalize it too.
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    No, she doesn't. Perhaps read the whole article.Amity

    Yes, she literally does.

    I understand your sentiment, but can you make the argument that connects Mirren's statements with a hatred of men?Moliere

    The fact that she takes fatherhood and equates it to "sop offered as compensation for not having real power".

    Spare me any apologetics. If you don't condemn this type of blatant sexism for what it is, I have nothing more to say to you.
  • Masculinity
    There's scarcely a sentence in the quoted sections that isn't overtly sexist.

    Note how Mirren literally says that men are 'offered their families as sop'.

    Disgusting.

    And what's worse is that, apparently, there are people with a functioning(?) brain who see nothing wrong with a statement such as that one.
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    I guess her pushback against the sexism she encountered along her varied and fascinating life, made her what she is today.Amity

    She became what she hated. What a winner. :clap: