btw is not saying that is right in any of this, i just think its an interesting subject ;)

I know im just talking generally. I was stating the possible requirements.

I'm not a genius I'm just typing from my own experiences. First of all, grammar is not an important thing. It's a norm. If I get my intention out properly that's what matters. Again when you see rich kids get what they want all the time and repeatedly experience pleasure they have no reason to think reasonable since they will get what they want either way.
Going through hard times will either break you or make you stronger. No cliche intended.
To make this happen, you need to experience both comforts and ''hard times'' otherwise your whole focus will be directed at the tough things and have no time to reflect.
Same with continual pleasure.

Spoiled kids-teenagers don't reflect on their life realistically since their only focus is on what the pretty girl they wanna bang today will dress or what Gucci clothes he should buy next to be more accepted in his friend groups.
I don't have any advanced English learned soi don't know the word to use for the ''logically reflection of one's life''
What I mean is to reflect on your life, not in the present time but in general. What can make me more enlightened as an individual and what can make me a more ''happier person''
Not thinking from others perspective, not thinking from your opinion or others.

time does not exist

Living your whole life with only pleasure would make you spoiled and not appreciate life in general. Goin through hard times make you more ”enlightened” as a person and makes you being able to reflect on your life more logically