were to start. OK there is only one truth one law. i say that because its the only one that will never change. "Change is inevitable. Change is constant." (Benjamin Disraeli). well that applies to everything except a few and those are the ones that define this. i don't know who said this one but "nothing ever occurs" something must always happen. to anyone who says that there was nothing and poof suddenly there were all these things your wrong. "anything that can happen will happen" (Murphy's law). the same can be said that if something cannot happen then its safe to say that whatever it may be has never happened in the past ether. which means existence has always been constant. there never was a time or before time that existence was not. however there could have been a time when existence was not like the one we know now.

who is to say the child or child that was never to be amounts to nothing however twisted this concept may be for you to grasp or how horrible and extremely offending, if it dose offend you then that i am sorry for but the alternate perspective here is this, the child is gone its body now fertilizes the ground and in that begins new life. however horrible this may sound one cannot say that the person who was never born didn't effect the world in some way.