You are willfully misreading what I am saying here.
The beauty of democracy is that there is free speech, something you obviously don't like. — RepThatMerch22
I adore free speech, but I didn't say anything to the contrary. I did not address whether polygamous marriage was good, bad or indifferent. I addressed whether it was an issue at all, and what it was that would make it a real issue.
The fact that you claim that the majority of people in Australia do not support polygamous marriage is not a sufficient rebuttal. — RepThatMerch22
No, I didn't say anything about "a majority" supporting polygamous marriage. Majorities are needed to enact laws. Political viability can be achieved with much smaller percentages. I referenced 1% or 1/2 of 1%, or even less than that; how about 500? If 500 people asked for polygamous marriage, it would be
closer to being a "viable issue". Political viability isn't about consistency, it's about at least minimum numbers of interest. In 1975 or 1985, maybe even in 1995, gay marriage was not a politically viable issue because too few gay people, let alone straight people, supported the redefinition of marriage to mean two people, whether of the opposite or same sex.
The question is whether people who support gay marriage should also support polygamous marriage to remain philosophically consistent. — RepThatMerch22
It is consistent to support heterosexual and gay marriage IF one defines marriage as a legal arrangement between two people, and only two people. It remains consistent to support heterosexual and gay marriage, and oppose polygamous marriage, IF one defines marriage as a legal arrangement between two people, and only two people.
It would be
inconsistent to define marriage as a legal arrangement between two people, and only two people, and at the same time define marriage as a legal arrangement among several people.
More than the issue of polygamous marriage's political viability or logical consistency, I wonder what it is that you wish to achieve in this discussion about what is, for all practical purposes, a NON-ISSUE.
Apart from what is logically consistent and politically viable or not, my own take on marriage makes me an outlier. This has nothing direct to do with your hobby horse of polygamous marriage.
As a gay liberationist, I never bought the idea that the term "marriage" had the inchoate meaning of "between any two people, whether a male and a female or two people of the same sex". I have always thought that marriage was a heterosexual institution, designed to facilitate stable families in which to rear children. Two-parents-of-the-opposite-sex families that are stable and enduring are critical to a healthy, stable society.
Gay liberation asserted that homosexuality was both good and not the same as heterosexuality. In practice, homosexuals had developed an assortment of living arrangements ranging from solitary to long-term, stable couples of two males or two females, with various alternatives in-between. There was never any reason to not continue to promote the range of homosexual relationships, EXCEPT that assimilationists wish to portray homosexuality as essentially the same as heterosexuality, and could/should include "marriage and child rearing".
Of course, it is possible for a homosexual couple to provide 1/2 of the genetic requirement for a baby, and obtain the other half from a surrogate. It is done, and there are other arrangements such as adoption or foster care whereby a homosexual couple can provide a family for a child to grow up in. I don't consider it a priority (or even a desirability) for gay people to duplicate the institutions of heterosexuality.
I would prefer that gay people who wish to form enduring relationships do so on the basis of mutual commitment, without legally binding documents defining the relationship. Gay relationships can last decades (ours lasted 30 years until death intervened) because the two people want them to continue, without any inconvenient legal framework to make it difficult to quit. But relationships don't have to last for the rest of one's life, whether that be 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, or more years into thee future. They don't have to last the rest of the week, and many gay people have had very short term relationships (a matter of days, weeks, months) which were very good. So do heterosexuals, of course.
I cannot consistently support the idea of polygamous marriage because I think it means "two heterosexual people". But I have no objection to people attempting to devise polygamous relationships, and if they do, more power to them. They don't have to receive the imprimatur of normative heterosexual society to be valid. They either make it valid themselves, or it isn't valid at all.
PS: a quote from the State Assisted Suicide thread:
That is the same reason why people were against gay marriage, until there was enough social advocacy that it became a popular idea, at least in Australia and the United States. — RepThatMerch22