a few points of information would be helpful:
Your age?
What metropolitan area do you live in or near to?
How much is your debt?
Age makes a difference. If you are 20, that's one thing; if you are 28, that's something else.
Where you live matters. If you live in a very expensive city but with lots of opportunity, that is one thing. If you live in a low cost dead zone, that is something else.
The size of debt matters. If you owe $3,000, that is one thing; If you owe $30,000, that is something else.
I have had low self esteem and either hopelessly vague or totally impractical plans, as one often does. So I am sympathetic with your situation.
I'm suggesting you make some changes; I'm not suggesting you become someone else. I finished graduate school and spent 40+ years in the work force, much of which totally sucked. I had some good jobs and some bad jobs. Sometimes low pay, simple work, and low stress was worth it.
One don't have to make a huge amount of money, but one does have to be thrifty if one's pay isn't high. I never made more the $35,000 a year, but I lived cheaply most of the time. I was able to save something for retirement -- not enough, but it could have been worse. I didn't live in an expensive area, and I paid the mortgage off as fast as possible. Pair up with somebody -- 2 incomes help a lot, even if neither of them is very high.
Had I to do it over, I would have pursued a purely liberal arts English major, rather than a teaching degree. Total waste of time in my case. I would take the first job more seriously, and would quit the second good job at its peak rather than hang around coasting. I didn't strike while the iron was hot.
But do consider trying my 5 year plan.