Okay, how is this possible if I have no emotional response at all to exposed torsos, especially for man? Growing up this was a VERY common sight for me. There's no emotional reaction. I still think it's wrong.It's quite possible (even probable) that your emotional response to exposed torsos led you to view it as indecent and (if carried to far) immoral--rather than morals being the reason for your emotional response. — Bitter Crank
Yes, and your retarded man clearly has only one pair of robes...The man informs you that his robes are at the cleaners. He shrugs and continues walking.
"Would you like to play again?" — VagabondSpectre
That is persuasive to you I cannot guarantee, but that there are reasons for holding such a belief, that I can provide you.All I really want is even one well founded and useful rule that is persuasive to me — VagabondSpectre
We will always care about it because people are born with a sense of decency, that has to be then overcome through education.and how long before we stop caring and mystifying/immoralizing/obsessing over genitalia as a society due to our steady over-exposure? — VagabondSpectre
No.Isn't that somewhat wholesome? — VagabondSpectre
Yes, you can add to that attempt to show off.indecency = attempt to be sexually provocative. — VagabondSpectre
I see no attempt in your post so far, so hopefully I expect to see this in some future post.By defining indecency as an attempt to be sexually provocative (rather than instances of individuals actually being sexually provoked (to avoid the ankle dilemma?)) you have essentially shoved your subjective (and perhaps religious reasons) into this one odd postulate that I will attempt to convince you is flawed. — VagabondSpectre
Yes, indecency harms the person who is being indecent.Well, arguments that I might accept would be based on some kind of harm caused by an action — VagabondSpectre
So witnessing and passing by potentially infectious penises which swing from side to side isn't dangerous and psychologically harmful for children? :sThe reason why what I would describe as a "sex act" would be immoral for display in public is that witnessing them can be psychologically harmful to children — VagabondSpectre
Maybe you would have trouble, but I have no trouble at all. This is a common occurrence for me. Attractive women don't attract me much anymore. People can train themselves to stop being enslaved by the cultural instincts that society breeds in them, especially when these instincts are immoral.Men like you and I might have a hard time thinking straight if a very attractive woman suddenly exposed herself in our presence, but isn't that our problem and not hers? — VagabondSpectre
Again, to whom? To you? It clearly isn't one to you.Because it's no big deal — Sapientia
No, a conservative isn't a prude. I didn't suggest you should not show your sexy six pack to your wife, of course you should, she should enjoy that. But only she. (well people at your gym can enjoy that too, or the beach, etc. but certainly not the street).I'm a liberal and you're a prude. — Sapientia
Nobody can be sure of anything, so what's your point? :s We shouldn't judge things just because we can't be sure? Our judgement should take into account the uncertainty.I don't doubt that you go around judging what you take to be indecent behaviour. My point was, in what we were talking about, how can you be sure? — Sapientia
What do you even mean the female body becomes protected in public display? Protected from what exactly? :sWorse, the naked body of women becomes protected in public display. — TheWillowOfDarkness
Yes, it's a way to spread propaganda.In this instance, the concern isn't so much about sex, but the celebration of public nudity is politically associated with people who advocate for permissive sexuality. — TheWillowOfDarkness
Wow wow wow, slow down please. Why should we "attack" women who go on the Slutwalk march?If we respect the publicly naked body, for example, he won't be able to attack women Slutwalk march for going topless. — TheWillowOfDarkness
No, I don't think I'm prudish at all BC, it seems you picked that meme from Sapientia. I don't think there's anything wrong with showing your body in the right circumstances. There is however something wrong with purposefully looking to be sexually attractive.Agustino: You are Exhibit A in the Case of the Prudish Philosopher. — Bitter Crank
I do celebrate it, I have no clue why you'd think I don't. At the gym and in the right places. With my wife when I will get married eventually. And also by currently being a celibate - that's also a way to respect and celebrate my body, by the way. Freudians are really behind aren't they?Because they have a problem with being an embodied being. One suspects they have rejected their own body, and then generalized this rejection to others. If they thought being a body was really a good thing, they would celebrate it instead of constructing barbed wire fences and visual screens around it. — Bitter Crank
No I don't think it's normal at all. I want to be sexually appealing to the woman I love, not to any random woman on the street, that's silly now. Why would I want that? :sPeople who are physically and mentally healthy NATURALLY want to appeal sexually to others. It's NORMAL. — Bitter Crank
I was speaking about decency there.Maybe where you come from that is so, but I doubt it. — Bitter Crank
No, I'm not "bothered" by seeing it at all, it's just that it's not decent, and it would be better if it didn't happen. If I see a smoking hot woman walking by, I'm really not that interested anymore, as I would be when I was a younger boy :P - I really feel no need to be. But if I were to love that woman, that would be a different question...Exposed and eroticized torsos (of either sex) bother people who are uncomfortable with eroticism. — Bitter Crank
Well I believe you haven't read all of my posts, otherwise you would understand that I said that the image is ugly, and justified the ugliness based on the fact that pregnancy is used to drive a political agenda through the picture. This, I believe, is immoral. And no, it has nothing to do with the beach. People at the beach aren't driving political agendas by their nakedness, nor do they stay with breasts out, only covered by the palms of their hands.Serena is showing neither genitals nor fully showing breasts in the image you apparently find so morally appalling. — John
Yes, I very much share some of those feelings.Having said that, I do tend to find celebrities' apparent needs to share everything with the public, and the public's tendency to lap it up somewhat disgusting, but more for aesthetic, than for moral reasons. This is also reflected in the 'minor celebrity' phenomenon of people sharing images and anecdotes showing mundane details of their lives on social media. " Look, this is me at the beach!" I do find that disgusting as well. — John
Why not? Who decides this you? And where have you taken this from, out of your ass maybe? :PBut it shouldn't concern you. — Sapientia
That would be hard specifying, it would require a lot of writing. Of course I do - when I see indecent behaviour I do judge it.I'm trying to ascertain whether this is more of a hypothetical thing or whether you actually go around judging people, and if so, under what circumstances. — Sapientia
I would if I met him. But for now you might have to supplant for him. Clearly it concerns me, that's why I'm asking him.I don't know. That's his concern, not yours. Why don't you ask him? That'd be funny to watch, actually. — Sapientia
I don't understand your question?When can you be sure if he's just some guy on the other side of the street minding his own business? If he's good looking and seems confident? — Sapientia
Why does he want to appeal sexually and attract attention?2. Even if he's doing it for sex appeal, so what? Stop being a prude. — Sapientia
Depends on the circumstance.1. When you see a guy with his top off on a hot summer day, you can't be sure of the reason, and so you can't be sure of whether or not you'd approve or disapprove, so you shouldn't be too quick to judge. — Sapientia
Again, one specific case is not basis enough for making a rule out of it. You seem to be ignoring this fact.And my point stands. I would have felt more physically comfortable, and that would have been the reason for taking my t-shirt off, and there would have been nothing wrong with that. You're just a prude. — Sapientia
>:O Yeah, it's useful you've specified the color ;)I was wearing a black t-shirt out in the sun on a very hot day recently. I would have definitely felt more physically comfortable if I had've taken my t-shirt off, and I probably would have done so if I had the abdomen that I used to have. — Sapientia
Staying cool on a hot day requires clothing. Many people believe this idiocy, but actually the body creates an exchange environment located between the body and the clothing. This is one of the primary ways of the body to regulate its own temperature, so clothing actually helps. That's why in the Middle East they go fully clothed for example, even though it's scorching hot. And it does actually feel cooler if you walk like them.Let's say that he wants to stay cool on a hot day, — VagabondSpectre
Okay, highly unlikely.or just that shirtlessness is the most comfortable for him. — VagabondSpectre
No. But again we need rules. Rules can't cover ALL cases. If they cover most cases, that's good enough.Is it still immoral for him to walk around shirtless? — VagabondSpectre
Yes she would be, but (1) I doubt most women would seek to appear sexy just by showing ankles, and (2) a rule cannot cover every possible case, there will be exceptions which bypass the rule, and that's fine. All it needs is to cover most cases.(by your logic, a woman who shows ankle because they want too appear sexy is behaving immorally. You should probably look into correcting your moral reasoning here) — VagabondSpectre
I've explained to you very specifically for that particular case, and there was no reference to subjective and religious reasons by the way.Asking you what determines the standards of decency isn't some "gotcha" or trick question; you stated that something is indecent, and now I'm asking how you came to that conclusion... — VagabondSpectre
You still haven't answered my question. What KIND of answer would you expect? Can you give me an example of the kind of answer you would expect?Honestly, I expect really terrible answers because I know you base your position here on subjective and personal-religious emotional sensitivities — VagabondSpectre
No. That's your problem you are so darn attracted to them, most men aren't.I'm attracted to the ankles of women, and some women intentionally excite me in public by displaying their ankles to me in public. That makes ankle display immoral right? — VagabondSpectre
That's absolutely false. I haven't seen any women in my town appearing without a top or a bra, but when I was in Saudi a couple of years ago, I've seen PLENTY of women going unchaperoned in their huge ass malls.A woman appearing in Saudi Arabia without a man is like a woman appearing in your town without a top or bra. — VagabondSpectre
Yeah, a very tiny percentage of women.Some women would actually like to walk around topless for comfort reasons, but because you find breasts so sexually provocative suddenly their display becomes immoral and nefarious. — VagabondSpectre
Don't be stupid, I haven't said any of this garbage. Stop strawmanning.So far the only actual qualifier you've offered is "women intending to be provocative", and if we were to use that as a standard to determine indecency, then make-up of any kind, any decorative hair-styles, any clothing which flatters the human form, (basically any overt aesthetic display by men or women) can be viewed as an attempt to provoke sexual desire (aka, immoral and nefarious). Similarly, any unintentional attempt to be sexually provocative (a woman walking around naked because she likes being naked) therefore is NOT immoral or nefarious (because there's no intent?) Of course not right? It's still immoral because if you're forced to see a nipple then.... Reasons...? — VagabondSpectre
The fact you think that some things are indecent are proof enough. Why are sex acts in public indecent? It will be so fun watching you give the same reasons I have given now sweetypie.I don't think public displays of nudity (from anyone) are inherently indecent...
I would hazard to say that public sex acts are indecent, but I would not include brief kisses (even between men) under the description of a "sex act". — VagabondSpectre
Yes, I clearly would. I got most of my moral values before I became a Christian actually. And contrary to what my society was pushing me towards as well.If god didn't describe nudity as shameful in Christianity, might you assent to this position? — VagabondSpectre
Why is that man going shirtless? :s Is it because he wants to show his sexy body openly on the street? Then that's immoral and lacks decency.Why is a shirtless male on the street bad but an ankle sporting women is O.K? — VagabondSpectre
What kind of answer do you expect when you ask this question?Who decides the standards of decency? Tradition? the bible? You? God? — VagabondSpectre
Yes, you could. And then I would explain to you why women showing their ankles isn't an example of lack of decency. I would say that a woman wouldn't show her ankles for any nefarious or immoral reasons - such as provoking sexual desire, showing off, etc. I would say that her showing her ankles in public would not produce any negative social consequences, but on the contrary it may be useful when it's very hot outside for example.I could pretend to be a puritan and admonish you for not condemning the indecency of an exposed female ankle. I could accuse you of having a nefarious political agenda and that all I'm doing is sanctioning a lack of decency in public... — VagabondSpectre
I would ask them why they consider it indecent for a woman to be unchaperoned by a man in public. They will probably tell me that it's either because the woman should be protected at all times because of the danger that exists from a man trying to pick her up, rob her, etc. They may also tell me that a woman who isn't with a man may be provoking for other men and may incite their lust. In the first case I'd suggest that we should use police to protect women such that they are not harassed by men while out in the street. In the second case, I'd ask them if the lust provoked in the men looking at the women is any different if she's with another man. They'd either say yes, or no. If they say yes, then I'd ask them to explain how this is possible, granted that the woman, and not the man is the cause of this lust in the first place. They might try to say that the presence of the man would produce fear in other men, keeping their lust at bay. Then I may say that we should try to produce the same fear by means of the law, not by means of requesting her to be escorted by a man at all times. And so forth.In Saudi Arabia it's considered indecent for a women to be unchaperoned by a man, at all times (in public).
What would you say to Saudi Arabia when they accuse you of sexual depravity? — VagabondSpectre
Yes, except in the appropriate contexts, like the beach. But certainly if someone goes shirtless on the street that should be considered a problem.If some women find the male chest to be disgusting, should we forbid any man from appearing shirtless in public? — VagabondSpectre
No - it's just an ankle.If some men find public displays of female ankle to be disgusting, should they be forbade from doing so? — VagabondSpectre
Because it is used to promote a nefarious political agenda, which is a problem. It's much like prostitution - it's using something that is natural and wholesome - the pregnant body - for an evil and nefarious end.You find public displays of the female/pregnant body sickening, but why??? — VagabondSpectre
And let me guess - the discomfort is due to my insecurity, even though I have a sexier body than most men. Sure. :-} Typical absurd progressive thinking.What exactly is the basis of your sentiments toward nudity and sex other than the discomfort you personally feel toward it? — VagabondSpectre
No, I am part of a political movement aimed at sanctioning lack of decency in public.Aren't you a part of a political movement aimed at vilifying public displays of the female form? — VagabondSpectre
Is a good woman one who benefits herself, or who benefits her man? I like to go to the doctor who most benefits me, not who benefits himself, I don't know about you. So since when would it be wrong for men to be important in setting up the ideal of what a woman should be? And the opposite is also true - a good man is one who most benefits his woman, not himself. Hence the standard of what a good man is should be set by women.that suggests that some men are making an active choice to keep women seeking to satisfy the objectification level that the male desires. — ArguingWAristotleTiff
Well who are you to suggest the opposite? :sDo you have a heart in there Agustino? Holy cannoli! Who are you to suggest what is and isn't a GOOD POSITIVE movement to bring the reality to a woman's body as it morphs over life? — ArguingWAristotleTiff
It's a biological response that is culturally and psychologically mediated. You can train yourself not to get a boner, except at command (I have done that for example). What you find sexually attractive is also culturally mediated by what others find sexually attractive. If you see this smoking hot girl followed by 5 guys salivating after her, then chances are you'll be very sexually attracted to her. If you saw that girl alone, then you'd be less attracted to her than otherwise, but still attracted to her if she meets the image that society has projected of an attractive woman.No one has ever had to convince me to get a boner. It's a biological response. — geospiza
Okay, what does this ability have to do with publicly showing your naked body while you're pregnant? :sbut rather the ability to love living life at every stage, which for a woman can include pregnancy. — ArguingWAristotleTiff
Which is another stupid thing. Some women aren't physically beautiful, that's not the end of the world. It's not even a big thing. There's much more important things than physical beauty. Her "way" of dealing with this is telling them a lie - "hurr hurr you're already beautiful" - oh really? Rather than teaching them that the most important beauty consists in being virtuous, they teach them that they already have a beautiful body even while it's false, and reality will show them that it is false sooner or later, and they will be miserable, because they put their money on something that is corruptible and can be lost (physical beauty).She and women around the world are imploring women, to accept the beauty of THIER bodies — ArguingWAristotleTiff
I am skeptical of this. Yes, it does have a basis in biology, but that doesn't play as big of a role as we're often made to think it does.Sex appeal has a very real basis in biology. — geospiza
The fact that it doesn't illustrate the non-physical beauty that you're speaking of. It's not an image which arouses in you feelings of the glow and beauty of a newly created life. Neither does it illustrate the bond between mother and child, or between mother and father for that matter.What about that picture is defaming? — ArguingWAristotleTiff
Because Serena is doing this just to show she is PROUD of her pregnant body and isn't ashamed of showing it out in the open for all to see. It's part of a political movement aimed at normalising public displays of intimate matters, as if such things were meant to be put on public display. To me, this is quite sickening.And why is it "political"? — ArguingWAristotleTiff
No, I don't have any children, so you're quite correct about that. I certainly agree with all this, and I hope I haven't given you the impression that I don't. But all this is something very different from what that picture illustrates. I think what that picture illustrates is quite defaming of what you're saying right here, in that it obscures these elements, rather than showing them.This is just a guess not an assumption so please do not take it that way but my guess is you have never contributed to the creation of a child. There are hopes and dreams created through the 10 lunar months that your partner is pregnant that enamor you with the upcoming birth of a part of you, blended with part of your partner. That actually translates to an appreciation of the beauty of a woman when she is literally carrying your baby. At times men will wonder if the pregnant woman in their home is actually the same woman he married because co-habituating a body is a pretty magnificent and creepy feeling all at the same time. But in the glow of the pending addition to your life, a pregnant woman could not be more beautiful.
So maybe it comes down to beauty is in the eye of the beholder, especially in the creation of another human but I think that pregnant women are beautiful simply because the glow of life that shows in their whole being. — ArguingWAristotleTiff
Are you talking about physical beauty, moral beauty, intellectual beauty or what? :sWhat is the teleology directing a woman's beauty? — geospiza
Exactly what it says? :sThen what is behind your assertion that "the pregnant body of a woman isn't meant to be beautiful"? — geospiza
Yes, beauty is more general than sexual appeal. Also sexual appeal can be elicited in ways that are independent of beauty, but rather dependent on social standards.Do you know the difference between beauty and sexual appeal? — geospiza
I'm suggesting that the pregnant body of a woman isn't meant to be beautiful, and yes, I don't consider that picture of Serena to be beautiful, but rather ugly. Why is it ugly? A combination of factors, including the fact that the pregnant body is used as if it were meant to be beautiful in order to send a political message. I don't consider this to be art at all.My dear Agustino, are you suggesting that Serena is "ugly" because she is pregnant? — ArguingWAristotleTiff
I don't hate it, I just don't go to the beach to see naked people >:O . And even on the beach they're not completely naked.Hate the beach, then? — John
I recommend you put the crack pipe down. I see no resemblance between myself and your villain.I read this science fiction story with a villain that sort of reminds me of you. This scientist had invented a time machine. He had a drinking buddy who would go on right wing rants. The kind of person you roll your eyes at but figure they are just venting their frustrations at life.
Well, the scientist had lost his wife or something, and decided that he had no more reason to stick around, so he takes off and lands a couple thousand years in the future. The human race has changed quite a bit, and so has society. I don't think you would approve. Everyone is a genderless genetic clone with the same status, and there are no authorities. Nobody needs to work. Nobody tells anyone else to do anything. It's all voluntary.
Anyway, our hero happens across his bar friend who had gotten a hold of his plans back in the past and hand an engineer to make another time machine. I guess the machine was geared to go the same amount into the future. So our right wing villain was none too happy with how things turned out, and thus set about trying to teach inequality and social hierarchies to the future humans, while creating a terrorist plot to bring the whole society down, in order to restart things with hard work and inequality. Of course the villain would get to be king of the new society.
To be honest though, I wasn't much of a fan of that future either (I don't want everyone to be the same), although I disagreed with the villain of the story. — Marchesk
Yes, absolutely:Don't deny it. You also are clearly in love with Hillary. — geospiza
What evidence do you have that St. Paul wanted to defend the act of crucifixion and vindicate the Jews? As in what sources are you basing this on?But Saul was Jewish, and wanted to defend the act of crucifixion. The only way to vindicate the Jews who put Jesus to death, was to insist that Jesus claimed to be Son of God. — Metaphysician Undercover
>:O >:O >:O If you believe that, you're absolutely crazy. That's just like saying I don't want my wife to have sex with other men because I'm insecure >:Oyou are clearly repressing your sexual attraction for Serena. — geospiza
The beauty in the photo, to me, is found in its candour about the female body. — geospiza
Yeah, that statement is clearly false. Lots of things exist (are not nothing) that are not perceptible. — Thorongil
Why do you think that existent means just what is perceptible by the senses? Number 2 is not perceptible by the senses, but clearly it exists, albeit in a different way than a chair exists. — Agustino
Clearly if existent means what is perceptible by the senses, then an argument cannot prove the existence of anything. Only perception can.I don't understand this at all. How are they not? — Thorongil
Why do you think that existent means just what is perceptible by the senses? Number 2 is not perceptible by the senses, but clearly it exists, albeit in a different way than a chair exists.Mathematical proofs refer to [the necessity of] non-existent relationships, if we are using "existent" to mean "perceptible by the senses" (which is one way to use that word). — Mariner
