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  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    . The point is that the cause of the injustice offers no support for the continuation of the injustice.Hanover
    And what makes you think I disagree with you there? Have you read this:

    The best we can do is what we're doing now. Use the law to protect women over those things where they can be abused because they are vulnerable - this means protect them against sexual abuse, physical violence, provide equal access to education and learning, provide equal access to political expression and manifestation, etc.. Much like we offer protection to children, who are exposed to a lot of vulnerabilities because of their lack of knowledge, physical size, etc. But there's not much more than that that we can do. There's some bullshit affirmative action, and other leftist ideology going around where, for example, a female professor is hired over a male professor just because she's a female - that's absolutely stupid, and in my view should stop. People should get hired for something based on their competency to do the job, not based on their sex.Agustino

    Seems like I have to cite this over and over again for some of the leftists here. I know you're not one (at least not completely, you certainly also have some leftist views yourself), so it surprises me a little.

    What are your thoughts on the quality of human life and how it has changed over the centuries?T Clark
    Physically better, spiritually worse. And we both know that man doesn't live on bread alone.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    They changed. And these (big) changes aren't very common.Michael
    Yes after quite a long period of unrest and bloodshed :-} And you know why they collapsed? Partly because they didn't heed the words below:
    Prepare for war, and peace will take care of itself.Agustino
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    We've already succeeded. We succeeded thousands of years ago. We don't live in an anarchy. We have laws and a government.Michael
    Yes, and hundreds of times the laws and the government we had disappeared as if it was nothing. The great Roman Empire is no more. Prepare for war, and peace will take care of itself.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    So we had 9 years of war over a span of 113 years, and you want to say that society is fundamentally an anarchy? Seems to me that anarchies (using the term loosely here, as society wasn't an anarchy during the wars) are the irregular, temporary occurrences.Michael
    No, we're always seeking (and rightly so) to escape anarchy, and never succeeding.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    And at any moment we could all have heart attacks and die. But the odds are so unlikely as for it to be irrelevant.Michael
    Except that the odds here aren't like that. It's in fact very likely we will revert to anarchy. It keeps happening over and over again historically, and we bounce back from it. It's less than 100 years ago that we went through two absolutely vicious world wars, and there will be more in the future, especially if we have people around who think like you and aren't aware of the dangers.

    It has always struck me that the amazing thing about human society, with billions of us jammed together, is how little violence there is.T Clark
    You clearly don't know any history then. The brutality showcased by the human race far outweighs all our positive achievements. You live in a very small, artificial social bubble which insulates you from the underlying reality of anarchy - this forms a psychological barrier of protection for most people. You're mistaking less than 100 years of prosperity for the underlying reality. You'll have a very big and unpleasant surprise when the world next erupts in a vicious and brutal war then. That's man's undoing - he forgets stuff easily.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    What do you mean by saying that we're fundamentally an anarchy? Do you mean that if we take away all the temporary social constructs like laws and the government then we'd be an anarchy?Michael
    No, I mean that any moment we can revert back to an anarchy, and the only thing that can ABSOLUTELY guarantee that we don't is ultimately brute force (wielded by virtuous people, obviously).
  • Achieving Stable Peace of Mind
    Yes, I meant to say Lucretius.mcdoodle
    :s very confusing man!
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    So if the biological factor isn't sufficient, then what else is required, and is it arbitrary? If there's some arbitrary non-biological factor then Hanover's point stands.Michael
    Biological facts and social facts are interrelated, as I have already said.

    If our current temporary social construct isn't an anarchy (which it isn't) then what I'm saying is right.Michael
    You're not right, because we're fundamentally an anarchy. We need to prepare for the very worst, not for fantasies that we know cannot ultimately last forever. The people who suggest disarming ourselves are living with the same foolishness as you. We must cultivate strength, and objectively great leadership (including from women, because women can also be great leaders), not live in pink-flying cloud lala land. Ultimately only brute strength can guarantee the continuation of our current social construct.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Being a good leader doesn't require any of this. Most governance these days isn't limited to waging war or dominating other nations in other ways.Michael

    Society is fundamentally an anarchy, and you'd be deceiving yourself if you thought anything else was anything more than temporary social constructs, regardless of how virtuous or right they happen to be. That's why brute force has ultimately decided the course of things historically.Agustino
  • Achieving Stable Peace of Mind
    Yes, I beg his pardon.mcdoodle
    Haha, so why then did you recommend Sextus as the place to start the journey towards being Epicurean? Why not Lucretius?
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    So which is it? Should the leader be the one most suited to the job or should the leader be the one with the biggest muscles and the biggest stick?Michael
    The leader should be the one best suited for the job. I simply said men are on average better suited for leadership positions because of certain biological traits they have (and that doesn't include just muscles by the way, it includes a competitive nature, aggressiveness, etc. which are hormonal in nature). This doesn't mean women can't be leaders, or anything of this sort. They absolutely can be, and there have been great women leaders historically, and even today.

    But yes, if you're a Fortune500 CEO, do you think you'd be more effective if you look like a small, tiny guy, or if you're a big towering gorilla (all other things being equal of course)? The towering gorilla will encourage obedience naturally, on a biological level. People will feel that he is strong and powerful, someone who they should naturally obey.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    And then, you responded to my response by quoting this:Michael
    Nope, I quoted an entire paragraph, and that was just one small sentence from it which you have taken completely out of context.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    you've explained how men are able to force women into submission, you haven't explained why they did so.Michael
    Well the human race does have a tendency towards immorality, so if they can do something, especially something bad, sooner or later they will do it. That's like asking me why have human beings been so brutal with each other historically - for the simple fact that they COULD! That holds for a very large number of people - the majority. Now of course there are exceptions to this - virtuous people who are concerned about morality and seek to live life with principles. But they will never be the majority. Society is fundamentally an anarchy, and you'd be deceiving yourself if you thought anything else was anything more than temporary social constructs, regardless of how virtuous or right they happen to be. That's why brute force has ultimately decided the course of things historically.

    So something other than the biological differences between men and women is required to explain any social inequalities.Michael
    Right. I never claimed the biological factor is the only one, so again, I don't understand how any of what you've said here is relevant.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Having the physical strength to force others to obey you is not the same thing as being a competent leader.Michael
    And did I say it was? :s you're really very puzzling... Can you comprehend what I write?

    I say people should be hired based on their competency, not on their sex, and you say that having the physical strength to force others to obey you isn't being a competent leader... :s as if the two had ANYTHING to do with each other.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    And being a woman is a biological fact (contra some modern theorists who say it's not), so one could say that the biological fact of being a woman determines whether one is going to be subjugated as a woman, but this obviously wouldn't be saying much.jamalrob
    Again, I seem to have to keep repeating this to you. Biological facts don't determine - rather they CAN determine social facts (which is what happened in some societies in the past, and is currently happening in many ISLAMIC societies in the Middle East, but you being a leftist may not like to hear that).
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    The Judeo-Christian tradition actually blames the first woman for the existence of evil.Mongrel
    And you forget to mention that the Judeo-Christian tradition also ensures that it will be the woman's offspring who will crush the head of the serpent. Not to mention that the woman's curse in the OT is shorter than the man's, and the length of a judgement generally indicates the gravity of the offence in the Judaic tradition. But of course, I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't know this.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    All right, I guess we can kind of agree on all that. Even so, it's obvious that you wanted to emphasize the biology, as if doing so somehow went against Hanover's point. It doesn't, which is why I made my contribution, to point out something you appeared to be missing.jamalrob
    Hanover's post suggested that the reason for social inequality was arbitrary, which is wrong. It wasn't. And that's also what the women's studies feminists seem to believe, which is just bullshit.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Ah, I see. So that's what you mean by saying that there are biological reasons for social inequality. Men were/are strong enough to force women into submission.Michael
    Yes, that's the explanation for why social inequality has not been historically arbitrary. And that's also exactly why (contrary to the irony I sense in your post):
    The best we can do is what we're doing now. Use the law to protect women over those things where they can be abused because they are vulnerable - this means protect them against sexual abuse, physical violence, provide equal access to education and learning, provide equal access to political expression and manifestation, etc.. Much like we offer protection to children, who are exposed to a lot of vulnerabilities because of their lack of knowledge, physical size, etc. But there's not much more than that that we can do. There's some bullshit affirmative action, and other leftist ideology going around where, for example, a female professor is hired over a male professor just because she's a female - that's absolutely stupid, and in my view should stop. People should get hired for something based on their competency to do the job, not based on their sex.Agustino
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    But that doesn't immediately follow. There's a missing step between the division of labour and the subsequent dominance.Michael
    Look, if I'm in charge of fighting wars, while you're in charge of watching over the animals, who will rule? I will rule, because I'll become stronger than you, quite naturally, and if you disobey me, your head will not stay on your shoulders for very long. I don't see how there's a missing step there at all. As I said in my post, military and brute strength ultimately settles things in this world. All we can do to minimise suffering is promote virtue, and have virtuous rulers who are capable of enforcing laws that protect those who are vulnerable, and ensure the adequate rights for everyone.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    that the fact of pregnancy determines the role of women.jamalrob
    I never said this.

    the fact of pregnancy determines the role of women in a social environment in which women are bound to the household, subservient to men, unable to pick and choose between social roles, where childcare is unavailable, and so on.jamalrob
    :s No, it's much simpler than that. The biological fact can determine a social environment where women are subservient. And by the way, as I made abundantly clear, I don't think women have always been subservient historically. I'm not a women's studies feminist who thinks Western culture is a patriarchy that has to be burned down.

    You wanted to say that biology is primary here, but if what I've said so far is true, it is the social environment that is crucial.jamalrob
    Wrong. They're both important. They both impact one another. This was abundantly clear if you had read my whole post, where in the last paragraph I made it clear we should ensure that we have a social environment which prevents women from being abused when they are vulnerable.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    The biological facts only determined that men became fighters and women became childrearers. Why that lead to men having social dominance is a different matter.Michael
    As a result, men became dominant. It was the men who left camp to hunt animals, who made contact with other tribes, who traded with these groups, and who quarreled and waged war with them.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    The major theory of the origin of patriarchy men dominating society points to social consequences of human reproduction. In early human history, life was short therefore to balance the high death rate and maintain the population, women had to give birth to many children.

    Consequently, around the world women assumed tasks that were associated with the home and child care, while men took over the hunting of large animals and other tasks that required both greater speed and longer absences from the base camp.

    As a result, men became dominant. It was the men who left camp to hunt animals, who made contact with other tribes, who traded with these groups, and who quarreled and waged war with them. It was they who accumulated possessions in trade and gained prestige by returning to the camp triumphantly, leading captured prisoners or bringing large animals they had killed to feed the tribe.

    In contrast, little prestige was given to the routine, taken-for- granted activities of women who were not perceived as risking their lives for the group. Eventually, men took over society. Their sources of power were their weapons, items of trade, and knowledge gained from contact with other groups. Women became second- class citizens, subject to men's decisions.

    Male dominance may be the result of some entirely different cause. For example, anthropologist Marvin Harris (1977) proposed that because most men are stronger than most women and survival in tribal groups required hand-to-hand combat, men became the warriors, and women became the reward that enticed men to risk their lives in battle.
    Good, thanks for proving me potentially right. Tell that to jamalrob, who apparently can't fathom that biological facts can determine social facts.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    as I didn't accuse you of saying that biology should or must or necessarily determine social facts. You said...jamalrob
    QUESTION: Can biology determine social facts? Answer with yes or no please.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Well, that's precisely what you did (setting aside your sneaky "necessarily"). You explained social facts with an appeal to biological facts. You strongly implied that you think the fact that "women have traditionally been relegated to submissive roles" is down to biology.jamalrob
    Look are you purposefully being disingenious? Review what I said.

    Let's do it together.

    IF women have traditionally been relegated to submissive roles (which by the way I don't think is the case everywhere in history), then why did this happen? Is it an arbitrary thing that it was women who were relegated to submissive roles and not men? :s It seems to me that you have internalised a very leftist way of looking at this situation.

    The truth is there are biological reasons for this.
    Agustino
    The question was if it was an arbitrary thing that women were relegated to submissive roles in those situations that Hanover mentioned. And the answer is, no it absolutely wasn't. This has ZERO to do with whether biological facts should (necessarily) determine our social environment.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    I don't see the relevance. Just more opinionating.jamalrob
    Well that's mutual, I certainly don't see the relevance of your post. As if I suggested somehow that biological facts should necessarily determine our social environment.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    The point is that it's the social environment that determines whether the biological facts--of pregancy and giving birth--lead to such relegation. Nowhere in your post do you show that it's the other way around.jamalrob
    :s

    The best we can do is what we're doing now. Use the law to protect women over those things where they can be abused because they are vulnerable - this means protect them against sexual abuse, physical violence, provide equal access to education and learning, provide equal access to political expression and manifestation, etc.. Much like we offer protection to children, who are exposed to a lot of vulnerabilities because of their lack of knowledge, physical size, etc. But there's not much more than that that we can do. There's some bullshit affirmative action, and other leftist ideology going around where, for example, a female professor is hired over a male professor just because she's a female - that's absolutely stupid, and in my view should stop. People should get hired for something based on their competency to do the job, not based on their sex.Agustino
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Let's state the obvious. Women have traditionally been relegated to submissive roles due to the power structure in place. Barriers have been reduced, but not eliminated. Some women have transcended those traditional roles through special effort, others have fully consented to embracing those traditional roles, and others still have tried but failed to overcome the limitations imposed by their social situation. That is to say that whatever successes elude women (other than those requiring brute muscle), is the result of environment, not some inherent leadership, intellectual, or emotional deficiency existing specially in women.

    Are we really having this discussion?
    Hanover
    IF women have traditionally been relegated to submissive roles (which by the way I don't think is the case everywhere in history), then why did this happen? Is it an arbitrary thing that it was women who were relegated to submissive roles and not men? :s It seems to me that you have internalised a very leftist way of looking at this situation.

    The truth is there are biological reasons for this. Pregnancy, hormonal issues, etc. were all matters which made women more vulnerable physically speaking than men, at least at certain points in their lives. This, combined with lower tendencies towards aggressiveness and competition ensured that women would not often hold leadership positions - though there are exceptions, for example Cleopatra, Mishil of Silla, Queen Seon Deok, Joan d'Arc, etc.

    Ultimately we live in a world where, apart from virtue (which is rare), brute strength rules. Remember this because it is important. People are often mistaken about this point, and think economics rules, or money rules, etc. but that's all false. Ultimately, it's the military that rules. When the shit really hits the fan, it's the military that steps in and settles the situation, no one else.

    I think there are no biological differences between men and women in terms of intelligence, but there are differences - generally speaking - in key attributes - compassion, aggressiveness, emotional resilience (women generally show a better capacity than men), conflict orientation, physical strength etc. These can be traced back to biological causes, and they exist and will continue to exist regardless of what we do (or what the leftist agenda is). And granted this fact, men and women simply have different priorities and considerations in life, which can however quite often be mutually reinforcing. Of course it depends again from person to person, because you can have men who are very feminine, and women who are very masculine, physically strong, etc.

    The best we can do is what we're doing now. Use the law to protect women over those things where they can be abused because they are vulnerable - this means protect them against sexual abuse, physical violence, provide equal access to education and learning, provide equal access to political expression and manifestation, etc.. Much like we offer protection to children, who are exposed to a lot of vulnerabilities because of their lack of knowledge, physical size, etc. But there's not much more than that that we can do. There's some bullshit affirmative action, and other leftist ideology going around where, for example, a female professor is hired over a male professor just because she's a female - that's absolutely stupid, and in my view should stop. People should get hired for something based on their competency to do the job, not based on their sex.
  • Achieving Stable Peace of Mind
    I believe I'm more of an Epicurean, and the place to start that journey is an edition of Sextus Empiricus.mcdoodle
    Sextus isn't an Epicurean though?
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Is the other partner in a relationship automatically dominated if the other is more intelligent?Heister Eggcart
    No.

    I'm just curious, because being, let's say virtuous, sounds like a pretty damn good prerequisite for a capable [male] friend or partner.Heister Eggcart
    I agree :D
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    I'm sure Lone Wolf could handle the situation. She'd just call in an air strike and blow the guy's ass off.T Clark
    Well she could certainly handle the situation better and more intelligently than you, given the evidence you have provided so far in this discussion...

    Does that mean I should be submissive? That's why we have guns, mace, police, and combat aircraft.T Clark
    Well, unless you carry a gun, mace, the police or fighter jets after you wherever you go, then there may be situations when you should be submissive, yes.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    I went back and checked. That quote gives an accurate representation of the opinion you were expressing in the post.T Clark
    I recommend you check again, preferably more intelligently this time.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    See - I increased the scope of my question, since I've gotten into so much trouble with my unwarranted assumptions today. I don't want Augustino to call me names again.T Clark
    Yes, now you're being smart...
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Part of what I have been taught is to eliminate the threat, and avoid situations where you may be in danger if at all possible. So the same fight should not be repeated, and in the street, it is very rare to have a fight repeat itself exactly.Lone Wolf
    Okay, I agree with all that, but my point really is that physical size plays an important role in fighting, a role which is often underestimated by people who train in martial arts but have little experience of actual fighting beyond sparring under fixed and set rules, with protective gear, etc.

    I'd go as far as saying that physical size is one of the absolute main advantages one can have in a fight, almost as important as speed. So yes, I know your strategy when fighting someone bigger than you would most probably rely on trying to get away or escape the fight if at all possible, or otherwise incapacitate the person for however shortly so that you can run away. But most good fighters would also know this, so if they were to attack you, you wouldn't surprise them much with this strategy, unless you somehow successfully feigned a different intention. That's why it's a very tricky situation.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    In my experience, women are not nicer or gentler than men. That's not an intended as an insult.T Clark
    Well, granted your "relationship" with women in this thread, it looks like you're asking for it to tell you the truth man. You're purposefully being disingenious, you're not reading their comments properly, you're misrepresenting, etc. so why would you expect them to be "nice" and "gentle"? You may be doing the same in real life, hence your experience.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    but yes, I think I stand a chance more so than one without any training at allLone Wolf
    Yes, you certainly do stand more of a chance than someone without any training, but do you think you'd win more often than not if the same fight repeated itself?

    At the least, he will wish he would have picked on a different person. :PLone Wolf
    lol - depends, he may enjoy the challenge of fighting someone more skilled :P
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    And the creepy just keeps on coming.T Clark
    LOL! What's creepy about that now? :s You're certainly one weird man...
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Here is another quote from earlier in this thread:T Clark
    You are quoting out of context.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    many assume that because of my smaller being that I am incapable of doing activities such as combat fighting and flying an aircraft.Lone Wolf
    Alright, but do you think you'd stand a chance if you had to face, one on one, a 200-pound mugged faced unshaved rapist who lifts weights and trains like a bitch at the gym? From my experience, and martial arts has been one of my passions, size does play a very big role in a fight. Sure it's not the only relevant factor, but it is extremely important.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    My hat is off to you!Thinker
    >:O