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  • Post truth
    Plato wanted a benevolent dictatorship, run by philosopher-kings of supreme virtue who had no self-interest and altruistic motivation. If that matches your idea of Donald Trump, then send us a postcard from your planet some time, so we can avoid it. X-)Wayfarer
    >:O No it doesn't however Plato did provide a hirearchy of governments - you can find them summarised here since you like Wikipedia:

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plato's_five_regimes

    Trump sounds like he would fit Timocracy or Oligarchy, both superior forms to democracy.
  • Post truth
    Amazing the number of people who can't or won't recognise a demagogue when one appears.Wayfarer
    That's exactly what a leader should be saying... What would you expect a leader to be saying? The job of a leader is to ensure their country is great, and the will of the people is followed. Fuck democracy. Why should we be addicted to democracy, unquestioningly? Seriously people speak of democracy as if it was a God-sent political system that we should never change... Why are all non-democratic systems deemed totalitarian? As if there was only one alternative - democracy, or totalitarianism :s Such a narrow world-view. Plato himself made it abundantly clear that democracy is quite possibly the worst political system, only tyranny was qualified as worse. But of course, you're just parroting liberal propaganda Wayfarer.
  • Nietzsche - subject and action
    I did play the flute, but I gave it to my cousin.Mongrel
    And were you also a pessimist while playing the flute? :P
  • Are non-human animals aware of death? Can they fear it?
    Willow I think it's time you also follow Heister's advice and my example ;)

    Let him be, thenHeister Eggcart
    You are right, I'll go play my flute :DAgustino
  • Nietzsche - subject and action
    I agree. He's my favorite philosopher.Mongrel
    Are you a flute playing pessimist? :-}
  • Nietzsche - subject and action
    Uh.. don't know about that.Mongrel
    Schopenhauer lived a great life I think, all things considered. Definitely a life worth living.
  • Nietzsche - subject and action
    My speculation has been that it was a massive emotional response to Schopenhauer's pessimismMongrel
    Schopenhauer's flute playing pessimism? :D
  • Post truth
    That's bad chess strategy right there. Pawns are important, pawns are valuable, and the player who sacrifices them for no or little advantage will quickly lose.unenlightened
    Yes pawns are indeed important, however, clinging to pawns may very well lead to defeat. The paradox of strategy is that any path can lead to defeat. America has bigger concerns than Eastern Europe. If Eastern Europe can be gambled for Syria and exterminating ISIS, America hasn't lost much, but has gained quite a bit.
  • Post truth
    It's beyond laughter at this point. The Joker has the Button.Wayfarer

    (Y) (Y) (Y)

    I think the Master would have told you this Wayfarer if he was still alive. I bet during the Cold War you were one of those people so concerned about the threat of nuclear war >:O - but as Osho tells you, you shouldn't be worried - you'll have the cockroaches to keep you company! :D
  • Post truth
    respect in sex(just not necessarily with one person)TheWillowOfDarkness
    Well according to my position a person is of infinite value and thus they cannot be respected without full devotion to them. That would be equivalent to not recognising their full value as a person - their deserving status as an end-in-itself.

    It the obsessions of vengemceTheWillowOfDarkness
    I don't think vengeance, if by this you mean reprisal outside the law is just. If someone kills my wife, and because they're powerful the police does nothing to them, and I take it upon myself to annihilate both them and their entire family, then I am taking revenge and that is not just, but neither is what happened to me just. Revenge is just a (wrong) reaction to injustice.

    Jealousy for that matter is also a (wrong) reaction to injustice.

    The important fact is that both of these - jealousy and revenge are motivated by an actual and real injustice, which is what makes them so complex to deal with in practice.
  • Post truth
    More to the point I think Landru was a progressive living in a very conservative environment (he was from Texas). If I lived in such an environment, I would be a fucking progressive as well >:O
  • Nietzsche - subject and action
    'Turning the other cheek' is 'slave mentality' for Nietsche.Wayfarer
    This is such a misreading :-d - in fact quite the contrary, for Nietzsche taking the sword and cutting their head off is slave morality based on ressentiment.

    And I'm saying this even though I disagree with Nietzsche on this point. Turning the other cheek is right in some circumstances, and taking the sword is right in others (for example Jesus using a whip to drive out the money changers from the temple). Strength is being able to execute the right option.
  • Post truth
    Landru is more a progressive than a liberal.TheWillowOfDarkness
    Actually, Landru is paradoxically opposed to reason-skeptical conservatism, and not so much opposed to my type of conservatism. I think Landru's focus was more economical than otherwise, and a fight against conservatism in-so-far as it is oppressive (anti-reason).

    In fact, I remember a discussion with him in which he admitted that there may be something of value in social conservatism.
  • Eternal Musical Properties
    And I liked the video :DTimeLine
    :)
  • Eternal Musical Properties
    A good marriage is two good people, marrying. You cannot understand others if you do not understand yourself and so one would need to first better themselves. That would mean to do what Cavavaca suggests because one would need to eliminate all bias [customs, traditions, or what others expect basically enable marriages that are bad and the eventual misery results].TimeLine
    While I don't think you've accurately represented my position given:

    it seems to me that if they got to the point of "unhappy marriage" + "children", then the dice have already been thrown so to speak. Whether they separate or not, the children and they will still suffer; suffering becomes inescapable.Agustino
    But unfortunately, in all societies that have ever existed, exploitation was taken as the social norm - indeed hypocrisy has always been the face of society.Agustino
    But:

    While I am annoyed at the sudden digress from the OPTimeLine
    You are indeed correct about this, and that's my bad. So my apologies for digressing from the OP O:)
  • Post truth
    Isn't that what the migrant workers are for? Get paid slave wages way below minimum requirements and no benefits?Marchesk
    There are hidden costs associated with this, including large future costs.

    The North in the US was doing quite well industrially without slave labor leading up to the Civil War. The South was more agrarian, and being the virtuous souls that they were, decided to have other human beings do the work for them.Marchesk
    And the US is bearing the costs for it today.
  • Post truth
    :s

    As I have explained, "post-truth" is a liberal meme. In order for liberals to deny the TRUTH of the cold reality out there, they curse reality, and call it "post-truth" - it's a mechanism of psychological denial. They can't accept the situation as it is. They must find a way to cling to their fantasy. So they call fantasy true, and reality post-truth.
  • Post truth
    What do you expect? They have 5 times as many people, and we found it in our economic interest to trade with them. Expect India to follow suit, and Africa after that (granted, it's a continent not a nation). That's globalism for you, and that's countries realizing they need to catch up and modernize.Marchesk
    No. It's China having outsmarted the stupid US and the stupid Russia. China - everyone depends on them, no economy can do without China. They're becoming indispensable, and they're very quiet about it, they don't make a big noise. Have you even heard that China is now the world's biggest economy? Many people haven't. China will become a global hegemony very soon if things don't change drastically. Trust me, I've studied Chinese history for a very long time, these people are the biggest snakes out there. The political manipulations that exist in China's history dwarf anything in the West - their strategic mind is phenomenal. They hide great ambition under a mask of humility. China's people are also virtuous, keenly aware of the dangers and difficulties of life, willing to bear hard labour and hard lives with little satisfaction. When will you see Americans doing that? >:O >:O

    That existed due to the outcome of WW2, and it led to a cold war with thousands of nukes hanging over our heads. But the rest of the world was going to catch up.Marchesk
    No it existed because of staying quietly out of the war, only to join at the end - in BOTH World Wars, and then dictate the terms after the war. It also existed because of the long-time reliance on slavery which enabled production at virtually no material cost.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    You see? This is that radicalization I was talking about. You've got to stop reading conservative websites. They're just fishing for suicide voters.Mongrel
    >:O Right - move on to reading liberal progressive websites!
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    I know. I'm planning to employ de-programmers for the lot of you.Mongrel
    Well you should always remember that if you can't beat us, you should join us (Y)
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    Somebody needs to make the distinction between colonial slavery and the slavery of antiquityHeister Eggcart
    Genius! I actually agree, good point (Y)
  • Post truth
    There are many 'pro-Russia' trolls operative on the internet, you never know where they might turn up, although they're not that hard to spot.Wayfarer
    My country is the first to lose if Russia's influence grows. Don't play dumb Wayfarer. That doesn't mean that I fail to see that Trump is good for America. Trump isn't good for me and Eastern Europe - but does America give a shit about Eastern Europe? Should America give a shit about Eastern Europe? No America should give a shit about itself. You know what Eastern Europe is for America? A pawn on the chess board of global politics.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    I lament that you were radicalizedMongrel
    :-! We've all been radicalised, except you Mongrel
  • Post truth
    Is a New York billionaire going to save the interests of the people?Marchesk
    Fuck the interests of the people! Survival is above the interests of the people - what use if the interests of the people are satisfied and in 20 years America disappears off the face of the Earth? China is already a larger economy than the US. In 20 years, if the current rates continue, China will be TWICE as big as the US. You can calculate this yourself. The rise of Islamic terrorism, slow economic growth, ever increasing debt, a population which loves hedonistically indulging itself and has less and less concern about virtue and the harshness of reality, - all these problems will cripple America very soon if not addressed

    What greatness was destroyed?Marchesk
    America's global hegemony.

    Last hope for what?Marchesk
    For the survival of the United States of America and their continued hegemonic status.

    What makes you think Trump is any better?Marchesk
    Trump is pragmatic. He represents the hard virtues, such as discipline, pragmatism, getting the job done, facing reality, taking tough decisions, courage, etc. much better than Clinton :-! I actually laugh when I compare Trump to Clinton on these criteria. He will not get Americans to be virtuous, but he may get them to stop being hedonistic by getting them to work. Trump is stupid in spiritual matters, but not in worldly matters.
  • Post truth
    But seriously, everyday I read the news and I'm loving it! I've never loved it so much, so many retarded liberal tears! >:O I mean can you believe that these people thought that the world is a fantasy? I mean they thought they could go on and on in their stupidity, hedonism, total ignorance of virtue and pragmatism, driven purely by an empty and unsound progressive ideology based on an all extensive compassion for everyone and everything including that which is rotten? They actually think the world can work and exist in that state - that to me is the height of insanity - the slumber of reason.
  • Post truth
    Do you really believe this? That's straight up propaganda. It's not remotely real.Marchesk
    :-}

    No it is the truth. Rampant liberalism/progressivism, hedonism, stupid decisions and leadership have utterly destroyed America's greatness. Trump is America's last hope - really and truthfully now. And all this is because he's the only one who has the pragmatism that it takes to save America. As I said, America's interest diverges at this juncture from the interests of its people.
  • Post truth
    Indeed, every day I read these liberal tears I am rejoicing. What a sham, how utterly foolish some people can be unaware that:

    Heaven and Earth are impartial;
    They see the ten thousand things as straw dogs.
    The wise are impartial;
    They see the people as straw dogs.
    — DaoDeJing

    >:O

    These guys actually thought they lived in a world of pink flying unicorns >:O - I mean can you believe that?
  • Post truth
    The America we lost when Trump won was a liberal fantasy which would have been wiped off the face of the Earth in a few decades by the infantilism of the Clintons and their cronies. Trump saved America, as much as America can be saved at this juncture. Trump is right - after Bush and Obama America isn't great anymore.
  • Post truth
    Drumpf's 'post-truth' world;Wayfarer
    :-d
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    Reason skepticism is conservative for my society because of the influence of people like John Locke.Mongrel
    Please unpack this. I don't understand what influence John Locke had on your society much or what he had to do with reason-skepticism and conservatism for that matter (indeed I often hear him cited as the father of liberalism). I've never read or studied Locke. All I know is that Hume (who did have reason skepticism and who did follow Locke in his empiricism and whom I've studied lol) was greatly influenced by him.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    In addition reason-skepticism is inimical to my values. For example, take Hume, taken to be by many the first conservative. He advocates the use of prejudice, as does Burke, in making judgements. I disagree with that. We shouldn't do something because it's always been done. We shouldn't have slavery because we've always had slavery and it seemed to work. We shouldn't have men be promiscuous just because "it's how it's always been done". Chastity isn't a virtue simply for women - as Hume would argue. And so forth.

    If you go here, then you'll see the big conservative principles. I agree with (1), (4), (5), (6), (7), (8), (9), and (10). I disagree with (2) and (3).

    In fact I'll paste it underneath:
    First, the conservative believes that there exists an enduring moral order. That order is made for man, and man is made for it: human nature is a constant, and moral truths are permanent.

    This word order signifies harmony. There are two aspects or types of order: the inner order of the soul, and the outer order of the commonwealth. Twenty-five centuries ago, Plato taught this doctrine, but even the educated nowadays find it difficult to understand. The problem of order has been a principal concern of conservatives ever since conservative became a term of politics.

    Our twentieth-century world has experienced the hideous consequences of the collapse of belief in a moral order. Like the atrocities and disasters of Greece in the fifth century before Christ, the ruin of great nations in our century shows us the pit into which fall societies that mistake clever self-interest, or ingenious social controls, for pleasing alternatives to an oldfangled moral order.

    It has been said by liberal intellectuals that the conservative believes all social questions, at heart, to be questions of private morality. Properly understood, this statement is quite true. A society in which men and women are governed by belief in an enduring moral order, by a strong sense of right and wrong, by personal convictions about justice and honor, will be a good society—whatever political machinery it may utilize; while a society in which men and women are morally adrift, ignorant of norms, and intent chiefly upon gratification of appetites, will be a bad society—no matter how many people vote and no matter how liberal its formal constitution may be.

    Second, the conservative adheres to custom, convention, and continuity. It is old custom that enables people to live together peaceably; the destroyers of custom demolish more than they know or desire. It is through convention—a word much abused in our time—that we contrive to avoid perpetual disputes about rights and duties: law at base is a body of conventions. Continuity is the means of linking generation to generation; it matters as much for society as it does for the individual; without it, life is meaningless. When successful revolutionaries have effaced old customs, derided old conventions, and broken the continuity of social institutions—why, presently they discover the necessity of establishing fresh customs, conventions, and continuity; but that process is painful and slow; and the new social order that eventually emerges may be much inferior to the old order that radicals overthrew in their zeal for the Earthly Paradise.

    Conservatives are champions of custom, convention, and continuity because they prefer the devil they know to the devil they don’t know. Order and justice and freedom, they believe, are the artificial products of a long social experience, the result of centuries of trial and reflection and sacrifice. Thus the body social is a kind of spiritual corporation, comparable to the church; it may even be called a community of souls. Human society is no machine, to be treated mechanically. The continuity, the life-blood, of a society must not be interrupted. Burke’s reminder of the necessity for prudent change is in the mind of the conservative. But necessary change, conservatives argue, ought to be gradual and discriminatory, never unfixing old interests at once.

    Third, conservatives believe in what may be called the principle of prescription. Conservatives sense that modern people are dwarfs on the shoulders of giants, able to see farther than their ancestors only because of the great stature of those who have preceded us in time. Therefore conservatives very often emphasize the importance of prescription—that is, of things established by immemorial usage, so that the mind of man runneth not to the contrary. There exist rights of which the chief sanction is their antiquity—including rights to property, often. Similarly, our morals are prescriptive in great part. Conservatives argue that we are unlikely, we moderns, to make any brave new discoveries in morals or politics or taste. It is perilous to weigh every passing issue on the basis of private judgment and private rationality. The individual is foolish, but the species is wise, Burke declared. In politics we do well to abide by precedent and precept and even prejudice, for the great mysterious incorporation of the human race has acquired a prescriptive wisdom far greater than any man’s petty private rationality.

    Fourth, conservatives are guided by their principle of prudence. Burke agrees with Plato that in the statesman, prudence is chief among virtues. Any public measure ought to be judged by its probable long-run consequences, not merely by temporary advantage or popularity. Liberals and radicals, the conservative says, are imprudent: for they dash at their objectives without giving much heed to the risk of new abuses worse than the evils they hope to sweep away. As John Randolph of Roanoke put it, Providence moves slowly, but the devil always hurries. Human society being complex, remedies cannot be simple if they are to be efficacious. The conservative declares that he acts only after sufficient reflection, having weighed the consequences. Sudden and slashing reforms are as perilous as sudden and slashing surgery.

    Fifth, conservatives pay attention to the principle of variety. They feel affection for the proliferating intricacy of long-established social institutions and modes of life, as distinguished from the narrowing uniformity and deadening egalitarianism of radical systems. For the preservation of a healthy diversity in any civilization, there must survive orders and classes, differences in material condition, and many sorts of inequality. The only true forms of equality are equality at the Last Judgment and equality before a just court of law; all other attempts at levelling must lead, at best, to social stagnation. Society requires honest and able leadership; and if natural and institutional differences are destroyed, presently some tyrant or host of squalid oligarchs will create new forms of inequality.

    Sixth, conservatives are chastened by their principle of imperfectability. Human nature suffers irremediably from certain grave faults, the conservatives know. Man being imperfect, no perfect social order ever can be created. Because of human restlessness, mankind would grow rebellious under any utopian domination, and would break out once more in violent discontent—or else expire of boredom. To seek for utopia is to end in disaster, the conservative says: we are not made for perfect things. All that we reasonably can expect is a tolerably ordered, just, and free society, in which some evils, maladjustments, and suffering will continue to lurk. By proper attention to prudent reform, we may preserve and improve this tolerable order. But if the old institutional and moral safeguards of a nation are neglected, then the anarchic impulse in humankind breaks loose: “the ceremony of innocence is drowned.” The ideologues who promise the perfection of man and society have converted a great part of the twentieth-century world into a terrestrial hell.

    Seventh, conservatives are persuaded that freedom and property are closely linked. Separate property from private possession, and Leviathan becomes master of all. Upon the foundation of private property, great civilizations are built. The more widespread is the possession of private property, the more stable and productive is a commonwealth. Economic levelling, conservatives maintain, is not economic progress. Getting and spending are not the chief aims of human existence; but a sound economic basis for the person, the family, and the commonwealth is much to be desired.

    Sir Henry Maine, in his Village Communities, puts strongly the case for private property, as distinguished from communal property: “Nobody is at liberty to attack several property and to say at the same time that he values civilization. The history of the two cannot be disentangled.” For the institution of several property—that is, private property—has been a powerful instrument for teaching men and women responsibility, for providing motives to integrity, for supporting general culture, for raising mankind above the level of mere drudgery, for affording leisure to think and freedom to act. To be able to retain the fruits of one’s labor; to be able to see one’s work made permanent; to be able to bequeath one’s property to one’s posterity; to be able to rise from the natural condition of grinding poverty to the security of enduring accomplishment; to have something that is really one’s own—these are advantages difficult to deny. The conservative acknowledges that the possession of property fixes certain duties upon the possessor; he accepts those moral and legal obligations cheerfully.

    Eighth, conservatives uphold voluntary community, quite as they oppose involuntary collectivism. Although Americans have been attached strongly to privacy and private rights, they also have been a people conspicuous for a successful spirit of community. In a genuine community, the decisions most directly affecting the lives of citizens are made locally and voluntarily. Some of these functions are carried out by local political bodies, others by private associations: so long as they are kept local, and are marked by the general agreement of those affected, they constitute healthy community. But when these functions pass by default or usurpation to centralized authority, then community is in serious danger. Whatever is beneficent and prudent in modern democracy is made possible through cooperative volition. If, then, in the name of an abstract Democracy, the functions of community are transferred to distant political direction—why, real government by the consent of the governed gives way to a standardizing process hostile to freedom and human dignity.

    For a nation is no stronger than the numerous little communities of which it is composed. A central administration, or a corps of select managers and civil servants, however well intentioned and well trained, cannot confer justice and prosperity and tranquility upon a mass of men and women deprived of their old responsibilities. That experiment has been made before; and it has been disastrous. It is the performance of our duties in community that teaches us prudence and efficiency and charity.

    Ninth, the conservative perceives the need for prudent restraints upon power and upon human passions. Politically speaking, power is the ability to do as one likes, regardless of the wills of one’s fellows. A state in which an individual or a small group are able to dominate the wills of their fellows without check is a despotism, whether it is called monarchical or aristocratic or democratic. When every person claims to be a power unto himself, then society falls into anarchy. Anarchy never lasts long, being intolerable for everyone, and contrary to the ineluctable fact that some persons are more strong and more clever than their neighbors. To anarchy there succeeds tyranny or oligarchy, in which power is monopolized by a very few.

    The conservative endeavors to so limit and balance political power that anarchy or tyranny may not arise. In every age, nevertheless, men and women are tempted to overthrow the limitations upon power, for the sake of some fancied temporary advantage. It is characteristic of the radical that he thinks of power as a force for good—so long as the power falls into his hands. In the name of liberty, the French and Russian revolutionaries abolished the old restraints upon power; but power cannot be abolished; it always finds its way into someone’s hands. That power which the revolutionaries had thought oppressive in the hands of the old regime became many times as tyrannical in the hands of the radical new masters of the state.

    Knowing human nature for a mixture of good and evil, the conservative does not put his trust in mere benevolence. Constitutional restrictions, political checks and balances, adequate enforcement of the laws, the old intricate web of restraints upon will and appetite—these the conservative approves as instruments of freedom and order. A just government maintains a healthy tension between the claims of authority and the claims of liberty.

    Tenth, the thinking conservative understands that permanence and change must be recognized and reconciled in a vigorous society. The conservative is not opposed to social improvement, although he doubts whether there is any such force as a mystical Progress, with a Roman P, at work in the world. When a society is progressing in some respects, usually it is declining in other respects. The conservative knows that any healthy society is influenced by two forces, which Samuel Taylor Coleridge called its Permanence and its Progression. The Permanence of a society is formed by those enduring interests and convictions that gives us stability and continuity; without that Permanence, the fountains of the great deep are broken up, society slipping into anarchy. The Progression in a society is that spirit and that body of talents which urge us on to prudent reform and improvement; without that Progression, a people stagnate.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    Well what is conservatism to you?Mongrel
    I identify conservatism with a group of values, not with a method. Most people identify conservatism with a method of reason-skepticism which started with Hume/Burke and continued with the American tradition with Russell Kirk, etc. My conservatism is of the Aristotelian/Platonic/Spinozist/Schopenhaurian/Hegelian kind - reason based. This reason-skepticism is actually dangerous to conservatism, because skepticism can just as easily fall on the other side.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    I think your conservatism is a reaction to Amy Schumer.Mongrel
    :s In what way?
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    But that's basically a statement of conservatism. Preserve our heritage...Mongrel
    I disagree with that conservatism. That conservatism is right for the wrong reasons.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    It's as anti-reason as "If it ain't broke don't fix it."Mongrel
    No I don't mean this at all.

    in many kinds of unknown past circumstances is also evidence that they may avoid producing such outcomes in unknown future circumstances.Kazuma
    A conclusion which says that it is a possibility that such outcomes will be avoided. That's not strong enough for my conservatism. That's anti-reason - they're refusing to use reason to draw the actual and real conclusions.
  • Eternal Musical Properties
    I thoroughly disagree. I've been there and done it. There is no way you want to put a child through the anger, pain, and turmoil of a bad marriage. Its adversely affects all the lives that involved, fuck traditional values.Cavacava
    Now that is certainly a great argument :-!

    Well for what it counts, my parents didn't have a good marriage, and have always been fighting for quite a bit of time. Doesn't seem like I "fuck traditional values" because of that. Indeed, they were fighting because they didn't respect traditional values :-} One of my earliest memories in fact is waking up to hear my parents shouting at each other, and being so scared that I picked up one of their phones, and called the other one with hidden number so they wouldn't realise it had been me to make them stop. So? Would I have preferred to be without my mother or without my father only not to have the shouting? :s And yet, according to you I should be the first to "fuck traditional values"
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    1. The endurance of basic institutions* is in part a function of their 'factual' legitimacy, i.e., their actual actual acceptance by the population they regulate (in other words, endurance and factual legitimacy are correlated).
    2. Factual legitimacy is in part a function of how much these institutions avoid producing outcomes that are factually 'intolerable' (and thus not tolerated) for this population.
    3. There is some connection between what the people subject to these institutions consider normatively intolerable and what is actually normatively intolerable (i. e., factual and normative legitimacy are correlated, even if normatively intolerable outcomes are not always widely recognized).
    4. Therefore, actual endurance is evidence that institutions have avoided producing normatively intolerable outcomes in varied circumstances in the past.
    5. The evidence that long-lasting institutions have avoided producing normatively intolerable outcomes in many kinds of unknown past circumstances is also evidence that they may avoid producing such outcomes in unknown future circumstances.
    (X. Marquez, 2015, An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism)
    Kazuma
    I agree with the argument but I don't like the way it is made. It's too much anti-reason, and skeptical of reason. I prefer rational conservatism - as per the distinction made here.
  • An Epistemic Argument for Conservativism
    csalisbury - back to ranting against conservatism! :-!
  • Eternal Musical Properties
    What is the honest response to "Dream Brother"...maybe this separation is right for the children, an unhappy marriage can't be good for children.Cavacava
    I'd take you up on this in more detail if this thread was about conservatism - it seems to me that if they got to the point of "unhappy marriage" + "children", then the dice have already been thrown so to speak. Whether they separate or not, the children and they will still suffer; suffering becomes inescapable. Not running away simply becomes the moral way to deal with this - indeed the point of marriage is "through thick and thin together", otherwise why bother to get married in the first place? "Running away" is merely failing to assume responsibility for your own actions. Nobody forced you to get married and have children in the first place.

    Second, the idea of marriage is the idea of the spiritual unity of a man and a woman. This is the foundation for children, family and the rest. And the idea of spiritual unity between a man and a woman is underscored by the idea of personalism - of treating the other with the full significance deserved by another person, by virtue of them being a person (and thus according to them or better said recognising in them infinite value). Treating them as an end-in-themselves instead of as a means-to-some-other-end. So marriage is an end-in-itself - the spiritual union between the two people is end-in-itself, and as such is not engaged in for the purpose of having children or for any other purpose greater than itself. Having children is something that either happens or doesn't happen depending on a multitude of factors including material conditions, biological possibility, the wisdom of the couple, etc. If I am to put it in these words, having children is to marriage, just as what your shadow is to you if the conditions are right.

    In such a marriage children cannot suffer emotionally because of the parents - such children are born under a house founded on a rock. Now marriage does not occur at the moment when people go in a church or wherever they go to "officially" get married. Marriage occurs when they commit to each other - it is a spiritual affair between the two people involved and their God - the state plays no role in it. As such, two people in a relationship, a couple, are already married. The bond of marriage, Love, is eternal (which doesn't imply infinite temporal duration, because one of the people can die for example - but if they die, it doesn't follow they're no longer married) - otherwise how can it be Love, as Kierkegaard asks us?

    So these people who abandon their partners not only cause a grave harm to their partners, but they wreck their own souls (as you can see, this all comes before we even speak of the pain of the children, who have been deprived of the love that they are entitled to as people, as human beings, as ends-in-themselves of which the song speaks about). Those who abandon their partners have never loved them, but have only used them, and hence objectified them. And a torturer doesn't only harm his victim, but perhaps more importantly, they also do irreversible harm to themselves. It is not merely as the legalists and the Pharisees claim that divorce is a problem - it is the breaking of the spiritual unity, and the objectification of the other that is the real problem. Exploitation of the other, whether this is for sex or for any other thing - that is still exploitation and despicable, never excusable. But unfortunately, in all societies that have ever existed, exploitation was taken as the social norm - indeed hypocrisy has always been the face of society. Whether this was, as in the past, cast out as the woman having to "tolerate" their husband's affairs, or as it is today where promiscuity has become open and rampant for both men and women - indeed it has been "normalized". It remains equally despicable.

    But the fact remains - marriage is of such infinite value - indeed it is the infinite sharing of value between two people - that no other replacement exists for it - not promiscuity, not anything - and thus, it is as Spinoza has said: "Blessedness is not the reward of virtue, but virtue itself; nor do we enjoy it because we restrain our lusts; on the contrary, because we enjoy it, we are able to restrain them"
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