Is Cooperation the Best Strategy for Alien Civs?
This doesn't make any sense to me.
When two alien civs discover each other, each will have to deal with the following disjunctive proposition: "Either there are only two advanced races in the galaxy who happen to find themselves right next to each other OR there are more than two advanced races in the galaxy". They can't both be true, and since the probability "two advanced races in the galaxy happen to find themselves right next to each other" is exceedingly unlikely, the disjunct is therefore exceedingly likely: "there are more than two advanced races in the galaxy".
If you postulate there are THREE advanced species in the galaxy, you run into the same problem: it's exceedingly unlikely that two of the three only advanced races are right next to each other. The same is true if you postulate there are FOUR advanced species in the galaxy. What are the odds that two of the four would be right next to each other? And so on...Eventually, you'll conclude there are a lot of advanced species in the galaxy, and you just met your neighbor and it's almost a given there are more neighbors.
It is possible, of course, that the only two advanced species in the galaxy are right next to each other. It's also possible to win the lottery. It's almost certainly not going to happen, though.
I don't think so. They seem more like fantasy to me.
It's fantastical that advanced aliens would be concerned with self preservation, would be curious about what's around them, and would send out probes? You think those are fantastical assumptions? Really? I think they're rock solid. Aliens are going to be under the same evolutionary pressures everyone else is, and if you have clawed your way to the top of the food chain, it was a long hard slog. In their history, they would have had to fend off competitors and predators and they would be well aware of the dangers an unknown alien race poses.
Remember, all this is happening with the background knowledge that biospheres are fragile, planets are sitting ducks, and accelerating course-correcting projectiles to ram into planets at high speeds is not that hard.