Otherness, Forgiveness, And the Cycle of Human Oppression Otherness can be diminished by empathy, but there will still be differences; but those differences end up becoming more defining than similarities due to our tendency to define by noting exceptions. It is somewhat of a techno-trick, that taxonomies proliferate and jargon needs to keep up, so rhetoric is generated that resonates for some, but may vilify others. Perhaps our logic is so obsessed with cause, that we populate sources with bias to calm dissonance.
Typically, punishment is little more than wishing to will away a past affront to a socially constructed convention. Since we can't change the past, we try to affect the future by steering society by using harm, which generates fear. This seems more prominent than rewarding people for not doing bad things, since resources are limited and the value of state issued hugs have somehow lost value. When someone does do something they think is bad to another, and wish to be forgiven, penance must be accepted by the harmed party AND the person must be able to forgive themselves, to be able to find respite from remorse. It isn't enough for someone to forgive themselves if they are not forgiven; just as it is not enough for someone to be forgiven but still haunt themselves. Although, it should be mentioned that remorse may be healthy, and self-forgiveness may just be something of a luxury for the forever sinful. As an aside, I believe in penance. I think that people can change and that self-grief is capable of modifying someones actions and beliefs. I think that burning bridges is an overall detriment to society, but also value individual rights to steer clear of violators. Losing trust in each other and in ourselves does not tend to increase the agency of the whole; but getting a faction to distrust another faction does seem to make divisions more clear in order to root out the latter faction; which seems like increasing agency if the premise is that the latter faction are decreasing agency of the former faction.
Humanism was brought up quite a bit at the beginning of the thread. Perhaps we can do a better job of humanism if we look towards post-humanism. If we open empathetic channels to animals and computers, we may include other humans along the way.