Yet here we are so I guess the question then leads to did something come from nothing ? — Deus
You just rightly rejected the idea that something could come from nothing. The existence of something already negates the possibility of a true nothing as that true nothing would have to lack the capacity for even the possibility or potentiality of producing a somethingness.
So next up on the batter's order is something from everything. The prior potential could be understood as a plenum, a state of absolute everythingness. And this works quite well as it is pretty quantum. In the quantum path integral or sum over histories, all possibilities exist, but then the majority must also contradict or self cancel. If a fluctuation can go right, it can also go left, and the upshot is the somethingness of a fluctuation that just didn't really get to happen at all.
Quantum field theory tells us reality actually works this way. A neutrino or quark are mixtures of all the particles they could be. The maths has to sum over all the possible states to get the most probable emergent state - the one that cancels away all the everythingness to arrive at some local somethingness, exact to 20 decimal places.
So we already can imagine using a quantum sum over histories to account for the Cosmos as simply what emerges when you average over all possible dimensional and particle arrangements to arrive at whatever final structure doesn't just self-cancel away its own potential to actually exist.
This approach to the Big Bang fits as its trajectory is then towards its own Heat Death. The Universe is also locked into a structure of expanding and cooling which will eventually achieve a state of as close to absolute nothingness as it can get - technically, a de Sitter void with a temperature of absolute zero and empty of particle content apart from the residual sizzle of Hawking radiation produced by the cosmic event horizon itself.
So everythingness must constrain itself via the interaction of all its own conflicting possibilities, which is how a residual somethingness is left. And we can see that the Big Bang cosmos is still manifesting this fate - this dissipative journey towards the nothingness of a void, exhausted of all its possibilities and so able to now exist in peace for all eternity.
But then "everythingness" as an initial conditions becomes something we can refine a little further. It carries connotations of an infinity of actuality - actual interactions, some actual place that was full of rather concrete possibilities. We want to get beyond even that to arrive at some more pure definition of a simple state of unbounded - not yet in anyway constrained - possibility.
That leads us to a logic of vagueness. A state of anything and everything is really just a state of absolute vagueness. The principle of non-contradiction doesn't even apply. It is literally less than nothing as it is beyond any concrete distinction, such as the negation of a nothing, or the affirmation of a something.
To sum up, the big question is the "why anything?" question. If you check ancient metaphysics, the "something out of everything" story is in fact pretty routine. The "something out of nothing" story arose with Greek atomism and its void, then got embedded in Christian theology in particular, with its need for an act of creation.
Modern science has arrived back at "something out of everything" as a mathematical theory. Quantum field theory can simulate the stormy interior of a proton as a suitably constrained potential, getting to the point where the sum over histories calculations shows surprisingly that the internal mass-creating fluctuations produce
far more anti-down quarks than anti-up, to give a random example of how well supported this is.
But then, to really shift our thinking, we need to upgrade our metaphysical logic. Vagueness becomes a further category of "existence" that goes beyond the yin and yang of everything vs nothing.
Presence and absence are the crude or emergent categories which folk tend to want to apply to fundamental nature. But we can do better. Vagueness makes an even deeper claim that transcends the distinctions - the dichotomies - which it can thus engender.
To get back to the question, the short answer is that there is something because a state of everything includes its own negation, its own limitation. But not everything could then self-erase or cancel away its possibility of being actualised. Even the Heat Death of the cosmos - as an actualised state of maximal nothingness or void - is still going to be forever a residual something. The Universe will be like an infinitely large box produced so as to definitely and actually lose all the unbound possibilities that an absolute vagueness would have had to have contained.
A potential just wants to burst. And a vague potential has nothing to stop it bursting, but also no direction into which to burst. So the Big Bang is that logical impasse resolving itself in a sum over histories fashion. Spacetime organised as a direction, and matter-energy organised as the contents expressing the constraints of this spatiotemporal structure.
You had the hylomorphism of material impulse and formal order. A path arose to concretely turn a manifested everythingness into a matching "end of time" state of actualised nothingness. And overall this can be seen as a logical trajectory from a pure vagueness to a state of supreme counterfactual definiteness.
Physics and metaphysics come together, as they ought.