I think that allowing you to wear your mask, respecting your decision, while not mandating you to adopt mine, recognizing that your values are different than mine, but of equal value, makes me who I am. I do not begrudge anyone their mask, the decisions they make, or the values that guide their lives. I simply ask for the same respect in return. When the house is on fire, I will go in after those inside, I will risk life and limb for those unable to escape, and I will not begrudge those who choose not to. However, when I am no longer allowed to go inside, not because of my concern, but because those watching aren't willing to do so, THAT I have a problem with.
You will live your life by your tenets, as you should. Wear your mask if you like. Get the vaccine if you like. However, do not impose your values on to others. We are not you, nor do we want to be. We wish to live life on our terms, not yours, or anyone else's. I have freeclimbed 250 foot chimneys (rock climbing narrow rock cracks without ropes), I have snowboarded in avalanche zones, and stood within petting distance of Wild grizzlies in rivers in Alaska. Most people will never see any of these things, let alone do them. I have driven at excess of 300kph. I ask not that others are mandated to do these things, but I have no interest in begin told I must stop because others are uncomfortable with them.
The mask dehumanizes my patients, my coworkers, everyone. Wear it if you want, but also recognize that others don't want to, and as with any decision you make, someone might mock you for it. Your extended family sound rather horrid. My condolences there. I can not support mandating values onto pother people. Not now, not ever.
Eventually they will demand that I get the vaccine or they will fire me. Too bad really, I like my jobs. But I am not taking the vaccine. Ah well. Career change I guess, no more fire fighting, no more first responding, no more Emergency Department. If enough of us do this...No more emergency services.
Poorly thought through mandate.