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  • Ukraine Crisis
    Is Putin Mad?Wayfarer

    Perhaps it should be described a bit better. That he is confined to a cabal that won't say anything against him. Now, if you don't have anybody challenging you, you really might go astray in your thinking.ssu

    Such plebeian reasoning.

    This is a part of the problem: People talking about big issues and people in high places as if those were topics suitable for pub conversations, in that lowly manner.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Nobody ought to say that a country of 44 million is "artificial"ssu

    People need to rethink whether traditional nation states are even viable if the people in them wish to live a first-world lifestyle.

    One of the implied motivations for creating the European Union was precisely this insight: relatively small countries with limited natural resources cannot make it on their own to live a first-world lifestyle.

    The EU is just implementing this in a way that helps the individual states save face. Which, however, is unfortunate, because people have lost sight of the value of natural resources and are taking them for granted.

    EU's rhetoric about the motvations for joining should have been a lot more transparent.

    If a more transparent discourse would be in place, it would be easier to understand what is going in the Ukraine.

    hence I can annex territories from it.

    Some formerly Ukraininan territories have separated themselves from the Ukraine. But very few acknowledge the will of these people. Why?
  • Changing Sex
    Just shows you what lengths people will go to to find self-acceptance in a culture where the concept of psychological gender is still uncomprehended. I’m glad you at least comprehend the distinction between biological sex and gender. You will help to one day make such surgeries unnecessary. Because, of course, that’s the only thing that’s really going to stop it.Joshs

    Such surgeries have always been unnecessary.


    It’s interesting and perhaps revealing that your description of gender mentions only who one is sexually attracted to, and nothing about what I would consider to be a more central aspect of gender for many in the gay community , which has to do with a global perceptual-affective style, of which sexual attraction is merely one small aspect. For those who dont grasp this , it is incoherent to talk about gayness outside of sexual attraction, and I think that is part of the problem.Joshs

    Many heterosexual people have the same view of their own gender identity -- that's it isn't merely about whom they are sexually attracted to, but "who they really are, as persons".

    Women's magazines, for example, are full of descriptions and prescriptions about what "a woman" is supposed to be like. From what I've seen on websites for "manliness", there is a similar model focus as to "what it means to be a man".

    All in all, I see this as an obsession with roles, models, basically, play-acting. As if "who one really is" can and should (!) be defined with a model, and then an actual person is supposed to fit themselves into some model, which functions as a Procrustean bed.
  • Changing Sex
    What ignited furor wasHanover

    No. What "ignited furor" was the superficiality level at which the entire discussion should take place, and the bad faith in which it should be conducted.
  • Changing Sex
    Do you believe there is such a thing as psychological gender, apart from biological chromosomal sex?
    Paychological gender would refer to a brain-wiring that produces what I call a perceptual-affective masculine or feminine style. This difference in behavior is what allows dog experts and breeders to tell male dogs from
    female dogs based on their behavior.
    Joshs

    No, people who have dogs and several other species of animals often tell them apart by their biological sex by looking under their tail/between their legs. Not by behavior.

    Do you think the same brain-wiring difference separates human males and females?

    There's a reason why a certain school of psychology was called "rat psychology", with all its pejorative implications.
  • Changing Sex
    Don't be silly. You're putting forward the same type of model as the traditional ones. So you're, basically, doing the same thing as those you oppose, you just add a couple of more models, nothing more.

    The traditional model expects biological males to operate in a particular perceptual-affective style considered "male", and biological females to operate in a particular perceptual-affective style considered "female". You switch this up a bit so that even biological males can be considered to operate in a particular perceptual-affective style considered "female", and biological females to operate in a particular perceptual-affective style considered "male".

    But neither the traditional model nor you encourage one to, you know, just talk to the person. Instead, you both encourage people to act within scripted roles, and to interact with eachother in terms of those scripted roles (because this is what "perceptual-affective styles" are, scripted roles).

    Remember, you said:

    We are born with many personality traits that are robust and stable. to recognize them in others is to see their style, the art of their being with you. Recognizing the art of their personality style allows you a greater intimacy with them. Gender behavior is an art of being, and not seeing it deprives both you and others of this intimacy of relation.Joshs
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    So evil and lack of conscience can be understood as a kind of arbitrariness , irrationality or capriciousness at the heart of intention and motivation, right? People are tempted, they stray from the ‘right’ path, but we don’t know why, or we assume there is no reason.
    That’s my claim, that this arbitrariness is an assumption we make about ‘evil-doers’. But what if this simply reflects a failure of insight on our part? What if ‘evil-doers’ believe they are just, and their failure isn’t one of moral intent but of insight?
    Joshs

    And what if it's not failure at all?

    I’m more interested in the philosophy and psychology of motivation. I understand your stance. What I would like to know is how you articulate the nature of wrong-doing and evil in terms of the capriciousness of straying from the path of righteousness. Tell me more about what makes such straying possible. Is it a kind of randomness? Is it an irrationality?Joshs

    I asked you (and @Tom Storm) about this before, but you didn't reply. Namely, on the difference between I-statements and you-statements (I-language and you-language).

    E.g.
    https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/comment/632636
    https://thephilosophyforum.com/discussion/comment/647537

    I point this out because you're using you-language in your discussions of a topic that I think could be approached more effectively when acknowledging the distinction between I-language and you-language.
  • Pessimism’s ultimate insight
    You need to keep yourself busy at all times because ...
  • Ukraine Crisis
    The fact is, Russia poses no threat to America, so there is no reason for Americans to fear the Russians.Apollodorus

    But why then all the American anti-Russian propaganda?
    Sheer contempt, to boost the American ego?
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    What if ‘evil-doers’ believe they are just, and their failure isn’t one of moral intent but of insight?Joshs

    You used this line of reasoning to defend Nazis.

    So Putin's "failure of insight" is what exactly? That Slavic people are inferior and must let the West rule over them? That when the West makes promises to Russia and doesn't keep them, Russia must accept this and bow to the West?
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    What I am suggesting is that we can get rid of the concept of blame, but only when. we stop thinking of motive and intent as potentially arbitrary , capricious , vulnerable to bodily-emotive and social conditioning and shaping.

    I dont know any philosopher or psychologist who follows me here
    Joshs

    Early Buddhism maintains something similar, but the matter is rather complex to explain (lots of things to remember).
  • Pessimism’s ultimate insight
    Putin? hahaschopenhauer1

    No, Biden.

    If the world were a paradise of luxury and ease, a land flowing with milk and honey, where every Jack obtained his Jill at once and without any difficulty, men would either die of boredom or hang themselves; or there would be wars, massacres, and murders; so that in the end mankind would inflict more suffering on itself than it has now to accept at the hands of Nature. — Schopenhauer

    Indeed, often, people who claim to only want peace and prosperity don't think their desires through to their logical consequences.
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    I should note that focusing on increasing our care and consideration implies that we believe we were acting carelessly and inconsiderately, which I consider to be forms of anger-blame.Joshs

    So if you live in a suburb, and dry your laundry by hanging it out in the air in your backyard, and your neighbor burns trash in his backyard, so that the smoke makes your laundry filthy -- you see no problem with this? You don't think he was careless and inconsiderate to do so, and that he should have at least warned you, so that you could take down the fresh laundry on time?

    The solution is that you buy a dryer? But that is still care and consideration on your part, and as such, anger-blame.
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    If we believe ourselves righteous in anger towards someone, it’s a sure sign that we don’t understand where they’re coming from. That should give us pause.Possibility

    Why? People generally don't consider it very important to understand others. In fact, they generally prefer to see themselves as the arbiters of the others' reality, they prefer to see themselves as the judges over what is true for another person, esp. concerning the other person's inner life. They make this very clear in their insistence of using you-language.

    Do we really think that attributing blame and directing anger towards someone will repair any damage or prevent future occurrences?

    Of course. Blame and anger are effective means for gaining and keeping power over others. It's why people do it.


    I think the Israeli-Palestine conflict is a clear example of the inefficiency and ineffectiveness of blame and anger. What would a win-win situation look like here? Everyone is so focused on the significance of history in such a limited space, they’re ignoring aspects of the present reality. They acknowledge present pain and loss, but what’s not being recognised is the present state of humility. This is why the conflict continues, because both sides focus on past or consolidated pride to avoid a sense of humility in any present or future interaction.Possibility

    But such humility would require them to give up their identity. And --

    There are few things less noble than resenting or undermining people for who they are.Tom Storm
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Then we understand eachother.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    What are you actually defending here?Christoffer

    The Old World.

    The West will probably win, if in no other way, then by destroying the planet with consumerism.
  • Pessimism’s ultimate insight
    That's why people provoke others into wars, to relieve their own boredom.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    So what does Putin want? Perhaps one ounce of honour from the West to it's promises?Isaac

    The West has always been dishonorable toward Russia.

  • Ukraine Crisis
    What's disgusting is the level of discourse at which you and your cronies want to exist.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    A country either has sovereignity or doesn't. If it cannot take care of itself, then it doesn't have sovereignity. It's not posisble to take away something from a country that a country doesn't have.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Looks like the Western propaganda has done its job on you.
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    But moving past this, is it really philosophically correct to not assign blame for the wrong done?L'éléphant

    Is it really philosophically correct to take for granted that the party who feels wronged is automatically the arbiter of morality?

    A no-blame morality is untenable and unsustainable because it is a one-sided premise whose burden is on the person harmed.L'éléphant

    As the poor and the powerless, and the innocent animals have experienced for millennia.

    What this discussion is lacking is an acknowledgment of the role of the power differential in moral judgments.

    The one who can punish is in the position of power.
    If punishment is justified, as a matter of principle, then might makes right. Do you want to go in that direction?


    The desert proponents once argued that punishment is a way for us to acknowledge the humanity of a person. Denying him a punishment is denying his accountability for his actions. And denying his accountability is denying his moral agency. So personhood has this component of culpability. You take away this culpability, then we treat him like we treat innocent animals.

    And how people treat innocent animals? By keeping them in horrible conditions and then killing them or letting them die a gruesome death.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    I see your point of trying to understand both Russia and China policies or affairs but I guess Ukraine's sovereignty is the big issue here and how it is being rapedjavi2541997

    Ukraine's sovereignty? A country that slavishly seeks the approval and protection of others and which depends economically on a country it considers its enemy? That's sovereignty?
  • Ukraine Crisis
    There's a war going on with an aggressor who's invading and killing Ukrainians as we speak. You think I'm gonna sit here and be an apologist for someone like Putin? Treat him with respect? Like he treats Ukraine with respect? The fuck is wrong with you?

    There are lines crossed when there's no morale choice but to remove a player that imposes threats of the scale he does and who's at the moment killing innocent people. I would say that when he indirectly threatens, with what all experts agree on, nuclear weapons towards anyone trying to help Ukraine. That is a fucking line crossed.
    Christoffer

    The West has been intensely building up contempt against Russia for at least 80 years.
    For all this time, the West, and specifically the US, has made a concerted effort to consistently ridicule the Russians, in every way imaginable.

    And yet we're supposed to believe that the West are well-intended and morally upright!
  • Ukraine Crisis

    Read again what I said.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Remember, Putin wants his billionaire friends to be happy, he doesn't give a shit about the population of Russia.Christoffer

    Clearly, you don't understand much about Russia, or China.

    These nations may be capitalist, but they are not the kind of simple-minded, greedy consumers as Americans and the West in general.



    And again, do you even listen to yourself? With ease, you demand the death of another person, and here, you impute evil motivations on a person. Have you no shame?
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Russia only wants destruction.javi2541997

    Do you even listen to yourself? The ease with which you project evil intent onto other people????
  • Ukraine Crisis
    China has a lot more to lose on international trade than Russia.Christoffer

    Unlike the rest of the world, China and Russia actually can be self-sufficient.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    I don't think people really understand the severity of the situation outside of what is actively going on in Ukraine.Christoffer

    Why do countries have so many so powerful weapons and so many soldiers, if not because they have every intent to use them?

    Nobody of any relevance in this world believes that everything can be settled through dialogue, least of all the US and NATO.

    Putin's actions are of one of a delusional lunatic. He's up there with Stalin, Hitler and the rest. I'm deadly serious in that he needs to go. He needs to be put down.

    Right. When Russians defend their country, they are the bad guys. When Americans defend their country, they are the good guys.



    Do you even listen to yourself? The ease with which you demand the death of someone???
  • Cancel Culture doesn't exist
    Come, man, tell us what you know!

    Is "the ability to listen to opposing views without fear that we'll slide into a holocaust if you let other people have their say" something one can learn, or is it something one simply has or doesn't have, but cannot learn?
  • Cancel Culture doesn't exist
    Afghanistan. Somalia. The US.Olivier5

    You said "without things like forgiveness and redemption, societies tend to accumulate hatred until people kill one another."

    What evidence can you present that people wouldn't be killing eachother if they had "forgiveness and redemption"?

    Resources needed for living are scarce and require considerable effort to be obtained. No amount of "forgiveness and redemption" can change that. People compete with eachother for the resources needed for living, and sometimes, this competition escalates to killing.

    Unless Jesus makes haste and feeds multitudes with a few loaves of bread (and provides them with 5G internet while he's at it), from then on until forever, "forgiveness and redemption" are going to be as powerless as they've always been.
  • Is there a wrong way to live?
    That's the whole point to anything at all. I don't see why you would find anything wrong with it.Agent Smith

    Parse this.

    I'm saying journalist interviews (and psychological questionnaries) are not the best way to learn what a person thinks about a matter.
  • Need Help to Move On
    What I'm struggling with is trying to understand why someone wouldn't intuitively reciprocate. I know everybody is not the same but the first thing I would do would be to find a way to show my appreciation after years of receiving help. For the life of me I don't understand why someone wouldn't.Tex

    Like others have said, there is the sense of entitlement, as a cause for not reciprocating.

    Another possibility is shame. If the person feels ashamed of asking for help, then they'll try to put the whole matter behind them as soon as possible. Showing gratitude, reciprocating, or just admitting to feeling ashamed of asking for help and receiving can be so overwhelming to a person's ego that they just won't do any of those things, because doing them would force them to face their dire situation and their helplessness.

    Thirdly, if it's about a family member or another person with whom one has long-term ties, possibly over generations, then the matter is more complicated. Maybe someone on your side of the family did something wrong to someone on their side of the family, or their family helped yours in the past, but you don't know about any of this while the other person does. That can also explain such dynamics.
  • Changing Sex
    Do you think other people owe it to you to accept you and comprehend you?
    — baker

    They owe it to themselves to understand themselves, because failing to do so will cause unhappiness both in isolation and with others.
    Joshs

    And who gets to be the judge as to whether they correctly understand themselves or not?
  • The Moral Emotions: Can we overcome anger and blame?
    On the contrary, I think it's possible to think beyond anger and blame entirely, but we can only do this by giving up the aims that anger and blame serve, ie. wealth and power.
    — baker

    Do you mean only the wealthy and powerful have anger and blame, or that the anger and blame the rest of us experience is somehow manipulated by the wealthy and powerful? What do you think motivates power?Is there a drive for power? Does greed motivate wealth?
    Joshs

    Again: I think it's possible to think beyond anger and blame entirely, but we can only do this by giving up the aims that anger and blame serve, ie. wealth and power.

    In other words, people get angry and blame (others) for the purpose of securing or obtaining wealth and power.
    If people wouldn't seek wealth and power, they would have no reason to get angry and blame.
  • Cancel Culture doesn't exist
    I think he's arguing for a kind of immersion therapy. A little QAnon here, a little Mein Kampf there, until you become desensitized and nonreactive.praxis

    A sheeple, easy to manipulate?

    "Nonjudgmentally listen to the views of others" has never actually been a virtue, anywhere.
  • Ukraine Crisis
    Or do you really think NATO wants to somehow undermine the health of the Russian state?frank

    NATO needs a reason for existing. It needs enemies. If there aren't any, it makes them.


    And the West has always despised the Slavic people, considering them second-class people. Biden is part of a tradition that is picking up where Hitler left off.
  • Cancel Culture doesn't exist
    Why should there be charity? Can you provide an argument for charity?
    — baker

    Because nobody's perfect. Errare humanum est. When YOU make a mistake, do you prefer it not when people show a little charity? Or do you prefer to be treated without mercy?
    Olivier5

    No, that's a weak defense. "People should be given something because they need or prefer it" is far too general, too open-ended.

    Judge not, least you be judged.

    Evidently not true. You can be a total sheep, and still be judged. Witness the history of illegitimate children, for example.

    Another argument is that, without things like forgiveness and redemption, societies tend to accumulate hatred until people kill one another.

    Do you have actual real-life examples of that?

    Because if anything, it seems that it is the tension between people, the tension born of perceiving each other as dangerous and merciless that keeps people in check.
  • What is it to be Enlightened?
    The empirical observations that underpin science can be made by anyone who has been trained to use the equipment or to know what to look for. People can be reliably trained.

    No such reliable training exists in religion.
    Janus

    Of course it does. That's the whole point. That's how there exist whole schools in religions, lineages where thousands of people are trained to discern and develop the same things.

    You might have been meditating or praying for decades and enjoyed no "religious" experience or change of consciousness.

    And even if you had, the fact that you had is not observable by anyone else.

    Of course it is. People trained in the same tradition as you can observe it. They can asses whether a particular person has come to a certain attainment or not.

    Religion/spirituality isn't simply about "introspection". It is supposed to bring about a change of consciousness, a change in one's moral status, and more, and this is something that other people can observe, in accordance with the standards of their religion/spirituality.