Yes. I want you to stop misrepresenting the facts all the time by cherry picking data and spreading misleading or false information. It's not nearly as much as you state it is and it is also meaningless without understanding the gains. It's kind of like saying 'an iPhone costs 300 EUR to make so we shouldn't do it because it's to expensive!'. On the UK contribution:
https://www.ons.gov.uk/economy/governmentpublicsectorandtaxes/publicsectorfinance/articles/theukcontributiontotheeubudget/2017-10-31
Meanwhile, based on figures from 2005 to 2015 the Netherlands, Germany, Sweden, Belgium, Luxemburg, Denmark, France and Austria all contributed more to the EU as percentage of their GDP. This still excludes the Fontainebleau Abatement, which probably puts the UK net contribution even belowthan Italy's.
https://www.cbs.nl/en-gb/news/2016/50/netherlands-largest-net-contributor-eu-this-century
The economic benefits of being part of the EU are nevertheless clear (it costs us 230 EUR a year per person and results in a 1,500 EUR benefit). And of course a Nexit is discussed in the Netherlands but that's a matter of EU bureacracy, sovereignty and local autonomy and a perceived democratic deficit. The EU, by the way, is in its structure less democratic than the Dutch structure but
more democratic than the UK structure. So "taking back control" in the UK is quite misleading as it is mostly about taking back control for a specific elite in the UK. But whatever, don't let actual facts get in your way.
Then the trade deficit.
https://www.ons.gov.uk/economy/nationalaccounts/balanceofpayments/bulletins/uktrade/january2018
The trade deficit in the UK widened from 3.4 billion GDP to 8.7 billion GBP during a time the pound depreciated in respect of the EUR. The 95 billion is not a familiar figure. Have you decided to take an arbitrary time period and added all the yearly deficits together?
Finally, the EU can hardly be blamed for UK citizens wanting to import non-UK manufactured goods and retain non-UK services. That's a consequence of free trade markets that UK citizens have access to those goods.
It is unknown whether the trade deficit will improve due to Brexit. Any economists claiming one way or the other is just guessing. The depreciated GBP should lead to a reduced purchasing power abroad, so less imports. UK goods would be relatively cheaper for foreign bowers, so more exports. But, there's a barrier to trade now as the EU negotiated trade deals with third countries are lost and the "trade deal" of the EU is lost as well. Where the UK has no real alternative to buy abroad what it cannot provide itself, all other EU countries can avoid the hassle of dealing with UK customs by turning to any other country in the EU for that product or service. That will obviously lead to less exports for the UK to EU countries.
Finally, capital flows are significantly larger than trade flows. Where it used to be that trade deficits would correct themselves in a floating exchange rate environment the exchange rate nowadays is set by capital flows and trade flows have a neglible effect. It's therefore unclear what the GBP currency pairs will trade at in the future, which will be the main driver in the long run as to what happens with the trade deficit. A strong GBP will continue the trade deficit, a weaker one can reduce it or lead to a surplus. I doubt (as in when hell freezes over), however, the UK government is prepared introduce capital controls.