If the thread were renamed "Let's Talk About Depression Every Day Without Ever Doing Anything About It" I'd withdraw all complaints. — Jake
I wouldn't say that it goes either way just because I've heard stories both ways -- sometimes it goes away, and the reasons for that vary (from constant medication to a quick visit to talk therapy); and sometimes it does not, and you need to either always go through talk therapy or medication or both. — Moliere
On the other hand if a depressed person tells herself that improving diet and exercise habits is too difficult and/or couldn't possibly help, and so on, then that self-diagnosis would likely be self-fulfilling, I would think. — Janus
I should say that I think medication is great. That's what works for me. Though there is variability, the common prescriptions work great -- I started with the basic exercise, diet, sleep, etc., and eventually I landed in a place where that was not enough. But medication got me out of the deepest slump and gave me the opportunity to work through what I needed to. It's not over yet for me, but it's also much better than it has been. — Moliere
I guess that's why I said in one of your other threads about depression that you really just have to experiment with anything -- or at least that's what I did -- to finally find what works for you. While the description seems to be similar enough across time, or you can at least see a thread, the cure seems to vary incredibly. — Moliere
You'll at least wait a bit for the Guinea pig phase to end, and see what happens to the first wave, right? — All sight
He's also funny, in that he says that he doesn't really believe in a God, but still prays to any that perhaps might be listening for their blessings from time to time. — All sight
Well I would say that the shifting towards another dream is maybe the result of derealisation, but not the derealisation itself. Derealisation is more the temporary absence of the dream, a kind of madness or drunkeness where one doesn't stay very long usually... but it can maybe give some insights so that the following dream has shifted yes. — ChatteringMonkey
De-realisation then would be falling out of that dream, or the unravelling of that 'fictitious' symbolic order... as opposed to how you used it in your post, as a turning away from reality towards a dream (where dream and reality are opposed). — ChatteringMonkey
I think that he avoided consequentialism entirely. — All sight
I think he's great. I know, people made a big deal about it, were texting him right away about it too. The controversy! — All sight
Though, he doesn't think that science is the answer, he thinks that love is. — All sight
And are the roles we play in those societies not more akin to that of actors on one big stage? I mean, if people would say to the slacker 'get real' or something along those lines, doesn't this mean that he needs to start working the social hierarchy, building a reputation and things like that. What is important is how people come to view us, that is the thing that has (monetary) value in the end, not the way we 'really' are. — ChatteringMonkey
'De-realisation', I would content, is actually the opposite of turning away from reality... it's the unravelling of this dream-like apollonian structure in ones mind. If you want to experience that, I'd recomment getting drunk for a couple of days straight, and just walk arround a city observing people and things. — ChatteringMonkey
So translated to millennials, the critique then maybe is not that they are escaping reality, but more that they don't buy into the collective dream of previous generations, and are creating dreams of their own. And doing so, they actually are also 'real-ising' their own dreams. Just look at how big the gaming industry, E-sports etc have become... and how much money can be earned there. And what other then money would be the ultimate fiction as a measure of realness ;-)? — ChatteringMonkey
We live our lives immersed in Kanye and Rihanna, Trump and Putin, Big Brother and America's Next Top Model. Are these not fantasy worlds? — Pattern-chaser
I think Jake's contention that we cannot think ourselves out of our situations is right, or at least half-right. I think we must see our way out of our situations or at least into coping with them. And of course seeing will require much prior thinking, even if the seeing itself goes beyond mere analysis. But seeing also requires physical activity and well-being, even if it goes beyond mere health and activity. The way out of depression is to cultivate a balanced vision I would say. — Janus
I think that's why depression is so enduring. Because we may be able to recognize it, identify it, talk about it -- but we do not have the same kind of knowledge of minds as we do of bones. — Moliere
Start a community that sees life in this way. — schopenhauer1
Which is fine, but this is a philosophy forum and so a reach for clarity is appropriate. If this thread is just talk for the sake of talk, ok, no problem, but let's face that, admit it, and accept it. — Jake
It seems to me that depression is, more or less depending on its intensity, a refusal to carry on; that is a refusal to cope. As living beings there will always be for us adversities to either cope with or attempt to ignore, run away from and so on. — Janus
I think unenlightened's monolithic view of therapies is not only unenlightened, but uninformed and unhelpful. Of course different therapies have different and more or less helpful things to offer different individuals; you have to search and find what works for you. It's also true that any form of therapy, just like other forms of human activity can become cult-like, and that's a danger for the unwary, to be sure. — Janus
Jake's advice to simply distract yourself with activities that short circuit thought is OK, as I see it, but it's a very partial, limited approach. Adequate diet and physical activity are certainly a necessary part of any healthy life, though.The point is that you have to find what works for you. Of all things there is nothing more pragmatic than therapy, I would say. — Janus
I think it is fairly common to think that depression is a coping strategy itself. Feelings one cannot cope with are depressed, because one can cope with depression. Then there are the pills that numb the numbness... Coping is the reasonable insanity that most everyone suffers from. — unenlightened
What would it be like not to cope? — unenlightened
Depression is amazing to me because it is the self-generated content of the mind. — unenlightened
Nothing is more unoriginal or inauthentic. — unenlightened
And the techniques are described in this book. For me, it was a transformative book; just reading the accounts of sessions and the theory of them took my life in a different direction. — unenlightened
I am very critical of psychology in general and think of it more as a branch of religion than of science. — unenlightened
This could be a very interesting thread of it's own. You know, the whole culture is moving steadily towards ever an deeper fantasy dream immersion with technologies such as virtual reality etc. — Jake
I'm very much like that too, as you can see from this excessively wordy post. — Jake
However, if we analyze well enough and long enough we may come to realize that analysis may be more of a problem than it is a solution. But, if the truth is that we're not really seeking a solution, then so what, on with the analyzing. — Jake
hat racist guy is just stupid, by choice (he's blinded himself to the truth). — BrianW
His inability to answer the question proves he doesn't have that compartment. — BrianW
If he truly believed (instead of just wishing) that white people were superior to black people (or other races) then it would have been somewhat convincing towards a case of compartmentalisation. — BrianW
I see compartments as constructs with deep-rooted ties of logic (reasonable associations, but according to the person's capacity to reason) and meaning extracted from experience; every compartment with its history of experiences attached to it, whether real (actual) or fabricated (delusional). — BrianW
Also, from my perspective, it is not compartmentalisation if the 'compartments' do not relate to each other logically. — BrianW
If the person, when focused in one compartment, is not (or cannot be) aware of the others, consciously to some degree, then, it's insanity (an impairment of the mind). — BrianW
For me, compartmentalisation is, 'when in rome do as the romans do'. It is a distinctive language for each person, occasion or circumstance; not something a serial killer would have to prevent him from coming to terms with his depravity. Even the latter is a kind of compartmentalisation, but it's a coping mechanism born from reaction or response to an impairment (disease) of the mind (as a way to preserve decency, normalcy, right-perspective, etc). It implies an innate awareness of the presence of the disease. — BrianW
Was your OP describing someone who had systematically compartmentalised their rationalisations so as to avoid the logical inconsistencies involved? That would take a lot of prior work. — apokrisis
Or did they camp on the edge of a pleasant stream and wake the next morning to find it had become a swamping flood? — apokrisis
Folk who don't like their inconsistencies being fingered just tend to check out because they were never trying to defend some larger coherent territory anyway. Being comfortable is the first priority. — apokrisis
