Thank you, I'll try to make it brief. It's truly just a differently-detailed example from before, but hopefully the new details are illuminating.
If you believe there is only one Alice and one Bob, then imagine a scenario like this.
You've got the entangled-photon emitter, emitting one photon East and one photon West like before. Bob is east, waiting to receive the photon 10 light seconds away. Alice is west, waiting to receive the photon 11 light seconds away.
At t=0s, the photons are emitted. At t=1, both photons are in their way to Alice and Bob respectively, BUT crucially the photons have an indeterminate spin at this moment, right? Because they haven't been measured.
At t=9, both photons are close to their respective destinations, but crucially still with indeterminate spins. Same thing at t=9.9999 right?
At t=10, Bob gets his photon and measures it as spin Up. At this moment, Alice still has not received her photon. Now, if you want this to all happen with only speed of light level causality, the problem starts to become clear:
Alice's photon is still unmeasured at t=10, and Bobs has only just been measured 20 light seconds away, which means Alice's photon must still be indeterminate, right? It was indeterminate at t=9.9999, and nothing casually exists that would have changed that in the meanwhile in our example, right?
So, here's the problem. Bob has measured Up. Bob knows for a fact Alice will measure Down. But Alice's photon is still indeterminate, and the information required to make Alice's photon collapse to "Down", at t=10, has 1 second to make it to Alice's photon. It has 1 second to travel 20-21 light seconds, to make Alice's photon spin state collapse to the matching value.
It has 1 second to travel 20-21 light seconds. The information has to travel over 20 times the speed of light to achieve this.
This is why you can't just believe in a single real world and say "my virtual worlds collapse at the speed of light".
I hope that makes sense.