I did some more thinking, considered your comments and, apart from some racially conscious policies, I don't believe that CRS and liberalism clash. In fact, I don't even think it is that much of a threat to anybody except insofar as it is detrimental to the cause of social justice by framing the issue almost purely in terms of race and by being a little too aggressive. I still maintain that white fragility is a concept fraught with issues (not all whites take defensive moves to avoid racial considerations; whiteness cannot be as homogeneous as it is claimed to be). I also still maintain that hypostatizing whiteness and attributing it to all whites will just reinforce the attitude I originally expressed in the OP; no one wants to think that their very identity is an artifact of someone else's oppression, even if white privilege exists. — ToothyMaw
Di Angelo does not claim that every white person is affected by white fragility and that would be an absurd claim. I also think that a lot of what she calls white fragility, is actually just basic resistance to being called racist or oppressor, words that carry such weight in this day and age, it's too heavy for anyone to bear. Accepting racism in many cases isn't easier for non-white people because they're exposed to more racial tension, it's easier because they're not being accused of being supporters of a racist, oppressive system - benefactors of a racist history and guilty of doing nothing to challenge the injustices. On top of that, Di Angelo speaks in a way that is accusatory, judgemental and offensive, there's no empathy, the stakes just keep rising higher and higher until merely not having an opinion makes you a horrible person. She thinks white people have an obligation to help and if they fail to do so, that this is an indictment on their character, inaction amounts to collaboration with the racist system.
CRT can have valid points but overall has serious issues.
My two major issues are that CRT tunnel visions on race to the extent that it promotes racialised worldviews and hyper focuses on race, which has served to actually deepen racial tensions rather than resolve them. Secondly, it proposes race-based solutions to these race-based problems, most importantly, the issue of racial inequity, this is the wrong way to go from my perspective. Racism is not just happening but has happened and the consequences have been extreme, this accounts for many of the issues faced by minorities in the US and other countries too. The aftermath of racism is not racism, a lack of effort to reverse the effects of racism is not racism and trying to undo the consequences will be difficult and painful. What we're really talking about is poverty but I don't think the reasons why someone is born into a poor family should matter, was it due to racism or because their father had a mental illness or whatever the reason is, doesn't matter. Thus, place the aftermath of racism into race-neutral categories of larger social issues such as poverty, poor infrastructure, poor healthcare system etc.
Racism is such a broad category of stuff, from what an individual says or does and even what they don't say or do, implicit bias, internalised racism, often irrespective of their opinion. Then there's all of the components of the government, the private businesses, the social structures which can be racist and for so many different reasons with no agreed-upon way of determining guilt or innocence. Forget accounting for geography, demographics, history, economics, culture and all the variables which all play important roles. Navigating this issue responsibly is very difficult and while most people can see racism when it presents itself to them, people who look for racism can and will find it in almost everything. Problems in society can be reduced to racism and most CRT comes off that way to me, it is a reductionist, narrow-minded way of viewing the world. When we combine CRT with intersectionality, we get the identity-orientated reductionism where every societal problem, any imbalance, it's racist, sexist, classist, ageist, transphobic, body-shaming - whatever.
Is CRT is just doomed to be reductionist based on its structure? Researchers are looking for racism, they've got control over what information they present, over how things should be interpreted, over what elements of their research should be emphasised and so on. There are always going to be race-based conclusions, the number of uses of the words "white" and "black" in some CRT books, can be staggering. I wrote a thread about this problem, of "arranging truth", where we really construct the truth by reducing a subject to a manageable or convenient level. We need to decide what information is relevant, how to interpret it, what narrative to construct and characterisations to make and so on. CRT isn't even written by impartial analysts, they're often themselves activists such as Di Angelo. There's surely some good work out there that shines a light on real problems but I think people are right to be concerned about it and the effect it might - or does - have on people who study it.
That being said, I don't like socialism either but the average American right-wing voter seems to have no idea socialism is - even though they hate it and they hate all these people and parties for being socialist. So, I don't necessarily look for camaraderie with people who dislike CRT.
Besides liberalism, you're worried about white people being unfairly treated or town down, which does make it seem like you're proving Di Angelo right. Matters such as white privilege should be treated as pieces of an overall argument or sentiment. When we say "white privilege" how extensive is that, what exactly is being referred to and what does that say about white people or society overall and how is the term being used - this can vary greatly from person to person. If someone is merely trying to respectfully describe social reality, white privilege is not an unreasonable term to use, although I think "racial privilege" would be better because it's race-neutral, not a big deal. We need to give some lee-way to describe problems intuitively but we don't need to give lee-way to racist, aggressive uses of the term white privilege, I don't think the line has been crossed merely by using these kinds of terms.