That is so cool. — Benkei
When I have a chance I will try to check it out. If you can can you give me a short summary of what the book is about? — dclements
Question: can you offer a better explanation? — Art48
The OP is my attempt to understand a phenomena I've witnessed many times. — Art48
After the infant learns there are people and objects external to herself, in time she naturally attributes certain properties to the parent(s), qualities such as source of comfort and protection, as source of knowledge and instruction, as able to do wonderful things (feed her, give her toys, take her to the ocean or mountains for vacation). As she grows, she learns that the parent isn’t ideal, that the parent doesn’t fit the mold perfectly. Sometimes the parent makes her go to bed early, eat her spinach, takes her to the doctor for a needle.
If the parent ceases to occupy the mold, it doesn’t necessarily follow that the mold collapses. Quite the contrary, the child has built the mold in her mind where it may continue existing. But it’s empty.
In time, the person fills the mode with Jesus or Allah or Krishna. — Art48
The OP presents a thesis, a possible explanation, but doesn't not present a proof. — Art48
Consider this evidence: The relationship of extreme power between parent and child is more prevalent in more conservative societies and households, and far more prevalent in the past. The more this extreme relationship holds, the more religiosity we observe. Corresponding with liberalization, and the softening of the parent-child relationship, we see a corresponding trend towards secularism. — hypericin
I would add that a (typically) a parent occupies a overwhelming position of power in relation to their child. The parent decrees what is right and wrong, dispenses reward and punishment, at their whim as does the God of the OT. This power differential creates in your terms a mold which inevitably the parent cannot actually fill. But as you say, the mold remains, and is fulfilled by personal gods. — hypericin
I am curious about what genuinely motivates the neo-Luddite perspective. — Bret Bernhoft
I provided it to those who are capable of searching Google Scholar. Those who can't are just screwed. — Tate
Monogamous animals are usually sexually monomorphic. We're dimorphic, so our monogamy is unusual. — Tate
I agree with you, but T Clark was complaining why I said that birds do not count. I said birds do not count because in my previous post I mentioned mammals, not all possible animals. — Eros1982
we turn monogamy into ideal because we want to show that we can differ from other mammals, are two different things. — Eros1982
birds do not count — Eros1982
we are able to connect with people spiritually to such a degree as to set our desires and inclinations under the control of our brains — Eros1982
Because we somehow show we can be different from all mammals... and we are able to connect with people spiritually to such a degree as to set our desires and inclinations under the control of our brains (which often are socially/ethically oriented). — Eros1982
This is why the topic intrigues me. The fact that males and females are dimorphic reminds us of our basic earthly makeup. Our ideas about monogamy are opposed to this, attempting to leave the earth behind in some ways. — Tate
Likewise the fact that the eyes of white men of a certain age tend to be spaced apart just so that they provide improved long distance depth perception, — Tate
I'd appreciate it if you'd refrain from assigning views to me that I did not express. — Tate
This is starting to derail — Tate
Does that seem racist to you? — Tate
I just thought it was funny. — Tate
The reason most NFL quarterbacks are white isn't what you'd expect. It's not a history of racism. It's that white males between 32 and 43 have superior long range depth perception. — Tate
I've never heard that. It's kind of stupid because NFL quarterbacks don't call the plays. They don't have to be very intelligent. — Tate
It's not a history of racism. It's that white males between 32 and 43 have superior long range depth perception. Go figure. — Tate
The evolution of primate monogamy is described as an ordered sequence of choices by generalized, hypothetical females and males. Females first choose whether or not to associate with other females. Predators encourage gregariousness in diurnal primates; however, nocturnality or scarce and evenly distributed food supplies may enforce separation. A testable group size model based on food patch size is developed and qualitatively supported. If females choose solitude, males then choose either to defend a single female and invest in her offspring, or to compete with other males for access to several females, usually by defending a territory or establishing dominance over the home ranges of several females. The decision rests on the defensibility of females and on the availability of an effective form of male parental investment. Both of these factors are dependent on local female population density. A model is developed that assumes that territorial defense is the principal form of male parental investment, and it predicts that monogamy should occur at intermediate densities: at high densities, males should switch to defense of multiple females, and at low densities there is no investment value in male territorial defense. — A T Rutberg
Well, gorillas seem to have survived pretty well using that reproductive system. They've been doing it for 7 million years, so I assume it has the potential to work. — Tate
Children of a harem system thrive. — Tate
This all supposes power on the part of every male in society. — Tate
An empirical claim is a philosophical claim nitwit. — I like sushi
The last 3 lines of your 5 line paragraph are ad hominem. Just wanted to point that out. — Art48
Your OP is fine. Ignore those looking to smear you rather than offer any kind of constructive criticism. — I like sushi
I don't think you're seeing my point — keystone
Your long-running thread about the Tao Te Ching is full of its guidance and inspiration.
I have tried to internalize it so that it helps on a subconscious level, as well as being
rationally helped and directed by it. WWTTD: what would the Tao do? — 0 thru 9
Like with a lottery, to win a lottery is almost impossible, you could play lottery all your life and never win something because the chances you will actually win is astronomically low. Isn't that also for the people living right now on earth in this present? The odds for a humanbeing living right now would be so impossibly high, and yet here we are. — Persain
The fundamental forces run their couplings. They are all fractured and very different in the cold/large universe of today. But all their strengths and properties (probably) converge at the Planck scale in one simple Grand Unified Theory – a vanilla form of quantum action that is the contents of a general relativity spacetime container of smallest scale. — apokrisis
runs its couplings — apokrisis
But physics tells us that this is not fundamental, just a passing stage. The Big Bang had quite a different kind of ontology. And physics has worked up a decent account of the maths required to track how each stage evolved into its next. — apokrisis
