Is it any different to owning shares (or really anything that isn't cold hard cash)? — Michael
Every woman who criticizes the movement is condemned for "interiorized misogyny". — jamalrob
which women and men have used social media as a forum to describe sexual misconduct, have gone too far by publicly prosecuting private experiences and have created a totalitarian climate. — NYT
while the only thing they did wrong was touching a knee, trying to steal a kiss, or speaking about ‘intimate’ things at a work dinner, or sending messages with sexual connotations to a woman whose feelings were not mutual — NYT
So until you solve the underlying moral issues, and adopt a culture which doesn't put sex so much on the pedestal, this issue won't be addressed adequately. — Agustino
Question: How should I have responded to the following scenario that just happened to me.
NicK and I were leaving out best guy friends house at the end of a party and as we were saying goodbye and hugging as we do, our friends' brother opened his arms offering a hug to me (first time I had ever met him) and I stepped into the hug with my arms around his chest and then went to release and as I did he said to me "Oh push your body hard against mine" in a moaning drunk way and I pushed away but he wouldn't let me go. Keep in mind NicK is saying goodbye to others and not watching what is going down but my friends' sister in law saw what was happening and I mouthed to her, help me with BIG eyes and she stepped right in and broke his hug on me and took it onto herself. Why did she do this? Not because she wanted that kind of attention but she felt the need to help me and I am forever grateful. She intervened because she understood how uncomfortable I was and likely because it was her home that we were in but either way that time it ended gracefully.
So when NicK and I got in the car I explained to him what had happened and he dismissed it as the guy just being a "huggy" kind of person. I called bullshit on NicK because I am a "huggy" person and I have never uttered such words to a man while embracing and NicK still, today, believes that I am over-reacting. Am I? I don't even want to be around him because knowing NicK doesn't have my back on this makes me nervous. Not because I don't know how to put an end to it but because of the ripples within our friendships it would cause if he were to do it again and still not hear me and make me call him out on it. — ArguingWAristotleTiff
So why should I be surprised that sexual relations are some of the most abusive relations there are? It is entirely to be expected in this cultural environment. If you went on to speak with some of those men who grab women, etc. - which is a large majority of them - they would laugh at you. They would say, "you go do that, we will keep doing what we've been doing". They will say "you have a micropenis, so you want to stop people like us, with bigger tools, because you cannot compete with us". That is how they will approach this subject. They will say that you are a woman's slave, etc. So that's how the rhetoric will go. It will be impossible to change their minds. Even if you make a law against it, and enforce it, all that you will do is make them afraid, but inside, they will be the same, completely unchanged. So how will you ever get to such people? — Agustino
Your comments express a wish to impose a regime of flirtation that you believe is the only permissible one. I was pointing out that it's not always easy, and in some of those cases it is worth trying (for both parties, obviously). — jamalrob
The problem with these sentiments, which I've seen all over the place recently, is that they don't take account of the richness of life. Thus they amount to an acceptance of new social restrictions surrounding sex, an impoverishment of sexual interaction and a degradation of individual autonomy, decades after the freedoms gained in the sexual liberation of the sixties.
Everyone is different, and even if you're good at reading signals, still sometimes it is hard to know if your advance will be welcome or not. Sometimes you do have to take risks.
But sometimes people want to be treated like that. Sometimes people want to be conquered and used. People play games. It's part of the fun, and inevitably it will often misfire. But it's ok to make a mistake; it becomes harassment only if you keep on doing it, and that's where respect comes in.[ — jamalrob
Here's the deal - society is hypocritical. If grabbing isn't okay, then it should never be okay, not in some circumstances okay, and in others not okay. There are situations in society when such behaviours are even expected - and that's a problem when you're trying to say that society shouldn't consider it acceptable because you must also eliminate those situations. I mean, if you go in a nightclub in a developed country like the UK, I can guarantee you, 100%, that there will be a lot of unsolicited grabbing going around. What do you do about that? — Agustino
A feature of the #me2 movement is that they are unwilling to distinguish between a pat on a woman's derriere and rape. The former can not be worse than annoying, and has nothing in common with the latter. — Bitter Crank
Does it? I don't see how. — Banno
Yet by allowing the relief valve you are allowing the injustice to continue. — Banno
The argument set out in the OP is that the poor, if they are unhappy, should be allowed to terminate their own lives. That is set out explicitly in Point 4.
Now I do hope that most folk would see this as the atrocious proposition it is; that a far better approach to the devaluing caused by inequity is to improve the dignity of those devalued.
— Banno
There is also the assumption that I pointed to in my first post, that folk are all in an equal position with regard to judging the values of their lives. They are not.
Hence one of the reasons for my introducing disability into the thread. Folk with disabilities live with others perpetually devaluing their lives; the best they can hope for is to be an inspiration to the able.
And the result was not something I expected to see from a philosophical oriented community. Summary dismissal and denial of Stella's right to speak.
When that was pointed out the discussion became a false juxtaposition, as if we could work for equity or introduce euthanasia, but not both.
Before we can talk about death with dignity, we need to ensure that all people, regardless of age or disability, can live with dignity. We're not there yet. — Stella
This is my major concern with legalising assisted death; that it will give doctors more control over our lives. — Stella
See paragraph #8. I do take your point about normal futures, soybeans and such, but evidently the CME and CBOE bitcoin futures don't work that way. — fishfry
Correctness in language use is totally faith. The fact that I can remove myself from good faith and get idiosyncratic if I want, demonstrates the reality of this. You seem to already recognize this so I don't see why I need to tell you. — Metaphysician Undercover
And by the way, I don't assume the existence of God in such a discussion, I assume the POSSIBILITY for the existence of God. If God's existence is impossible, a priori, then you could adopt your attitude, but you haven't shown that to be the case.
So if you want to have a discussion, you must assume the possibility of God's existence too. Otherwise, no discussion can be had. — Agustino
After you run all your test, you still have the issue of what qualifies as "stale bread" and "bad wine", your definitions. This is necessary in order to make your judgement as to whether the test results are according to the definitions. That these terms ought to be defined in the way that you define them is something "unseen". — Metaphysician Undercover
So that's why, actually struggling and trying to understand so that you can ask good questions is important. If you just come with a destructive attitude, you cannot make any progress in understanding the other. Not any question that you can ask is a good question and merits answering. — Agustino
You have no clue what "God exists" or "God doesn't exist" means, so don't try to talk in languages that you don't understand. Go back to the experience of meditation. — Agustino
What do you obtain by meditating? That - whatsoever you call it - is what I call getting closer to God. — Agustino
Nope, not begging the question at all. I expressed something in Christian discourse, you want me to translate to atheist? It's just a question of translation. You cannot figure the meaning of those terms. Read the rest of what I wrote. You don't have to be a theist to meditate for example. — Agustino
My point - It is not reasonable to dismiss theism out of hand. — T Clark
I have expanded on that thought much more in other threads. I even started one where I tried to discuss it in depth. I made a valid point - in my opinion, theists have a more complete understanding of the nature of reality than atheists, materialists, realists, and their ilk do. It's a respectable philosophical argument with a history. My point - It is not reasonable to dismiss theism out of hand. — T Clark
What about the meaning of words, aren't they things unseen? Or do you claim to have seen the body and blood of Christ? If you've taken part in the Eucharist, you have evidence that the items are body and blood of Christ, because you've seen them, and seen that this is what they are called. If you think that the words refer to something else, or that the items should be called something else, you are going on faith in something unseen. — Metaphysician Undercover
In the Christian tradition, for example, prayer, worship, meditation and contemplation are means for the believer to get in closer communion with the Lord through His Son Jesus Christ. — Agustino
The idea that cryptocurrencies will replace government-backed currencies is laughable. — Maw
What does useful mean? — Agustino
But faith is reality, you just admitted so much. And the "says you", "no says you" attitude is reality too. So it's nonsense to say "let's just remove faith from reality, and make this attitude go away, and then we can have a real discussion". A reality without faith is not real, therefore we have to deal with this attitude, it's very real. You can't assume that having faith in non-faith will make faith go away. — Metaphysician Undercover
Then why would VISA guarantee such a bubble prone currency? — ArguingWAristotleTiff
That makes sense but I am left with the question of how the vendor would know you were using a bitcoin backed Visa card? — ArguingWAristotleTiff
The problem is that faith is something very real, it is just as real as the food we eat, and we all partake. That someone can't handle the proposition that faith is real, and we all partake, so we as good philosophers ought to try to understand it, doesn't make faith go away, it just makes that person a lesser philosopher. — Metaphysician Undercover
I gave you examples of them existing before, or in opposition to, the establishment of the church.
it doesn't get much more refuted than that.
It is not sufficient that you think they're great, this is a philosophy forum, not an evangelical platform. If you're not prepared to argue your case I suggest you don't make it. — Inter Alia
What do you mean by BitCoin isn't instant? The acquisition of the coin, the use of the coin or the cash out of the coin?
I thought the use of the coin is instant and the value of the coin is time stamped locking in the value of the coin, the moment it was used. — ArguingWAristotleTiff
What kind of currency would cost nearly $20k? It's an awfull currency to use, if it would be an actual currency. — ssu
Virtue ethics existed in a pretty well defined system through Aristotle (and well before then).
The first recorded example of arbitration in law was in the wars of the Summarian king mesilim hundreds of years before Christ.
The independence of the judiciary, at least in the UK was written in the 1701 Act of Settlement which was directly a response against the influence of the Catholic Church.
The first declaration of universal human rights was on the Cyrus Cylinder in 539bc.
'Just' as in the massacre at Acre? — Inter Alia
