Act according to your nature -- your family, if they're good people, will acknowledgment that not everyone is the same. Be adaptable to what you think you want, not what you should be because of your family history. Of course, as with anything in life, you need to take care of your basic needs -- able to support yourself and not rely on others all the time. So, combine those two to-do task and you shouldn't have to wonder if you're "useful" or "like your brother".It's like i was born into a family of warriors and i can never be one like my brothers. In times of battle, they would often leave me behind because i am weak. I try to be good at things but i am never manly enough for them. — Desperado
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