I simply suggested that some people who consume more violent brands of porn or S&M, or bondage porn or what have you may have a taste for such things, rather than such consumption being only the result of porn addiction, as Noble Dust suggested.Issues of escalation aren't really about whether people are inclined towards S&M or not. The trouble with porn, for many who are watching purely for excitement, is it gets boring. — TheWillowOfDarkness
I don't think so. Not everyone is watching purely for excitement. Some people would happy watch couples doing missionary every day of their whole lives, much like plenty of people develop a habit of eating the same cereal for breakfast. The why someone is watching or consuming matters.
Then for the people who do become bored, it doesn't necessarily mean they will always find it boring . After some sort of break, it may be they find watching two people just having vanilla sex is interesting (or interesting enough) again.
It's just these don't hold as great promise for ever increasing interest and market. — TheWillowOfDarkness
Then I am in good company, apparently.I know. I commented as I did because your analysis is shallow. — TheWillowOfDarkness
I neither claimed to have a deep insight into the psyche of those who consume violent porn, nor did I dismiss the possibility of escalation. I took issue with Noble Dust's claim that such porn exists only because of porn addiction, and suggested an alternative route whereby one might seek out such porn due to a taste for more violent fare, rather than needing a more potent "hit" to satisfy their addiction.It's neither interested in describing the phenomena of escalation nor in understanding the presence of violent pornography. All it's interested in doing is scoring a rhetorical point against that escalation exists or there is any sort or problem-- your argument is effectively dismissing there could be any issue by saying: "but it's really just some people are interested in violent pornography."
I took issue with Noble Dust's claim that such porn exists only because of porn addiction, and suggested an alternative route whereby one might seek out such porn due to a taste for more violent fare, rather than needing a more potent "hit" to satisfy their addiction. — Arkady
What are you talking about? I wasn't saying no-one was addicted. — TheWillowOfDarkness
Noble Dust is mistaken to say it's a question of addition. — TheWillowOfDarkness
My point was people get bored of things if they are only consuming them for excitement (whether they are addicted or not), so escalation is driven by an underlying motive to attain ever increasing interest and consumption. — TheWillowOfDarkness
We know that some people are into bondage, S&M, etc in their personal life, and we know that some people have a taste for violent porn. I think we both accept these statements. The possibility I suggested is that some people seek out or preferentially enjoy more violent sorts of porn, not out of an escalating addiction, but just due to their tastes.The problem is that this is too theoretical. — Noble Dust
Perhaps not, but what hinges on this?It's implausible to imagine someone who's never been exposed to porn seeing it for the first time and going "yeah, but where's the violent stuff?".
Then we disagree about its plausibility. Recall your comment that such porn exists only due to porn addiction; that is, there is not one single person who watches violent porn who is not also a porn addict. That is what I find implausible. Very few things exist solely because of one (and only one) other thing, it seems to me.It's theoretically possible that violent or more unusual forms of porn could exist without addicts who need more novelty (tolerance), sure. It's just not plausible. I'm not a psychologist, but I would imagine studying addiction is better done by analysis and observation of addicts, not posing theoretical scenarios. The problem is there isn't alot of studies like that being done yet.
The possibility I suggested is that some people seek out or preferentially enjoy more violent sorts of porn, not out of an escalating addiction, but just due to their tastes. — Arkady
Good to know I'm too implausible to exist! — TheWillowOfDarkness
Your approach here bothers me. Why is the question of whether people might like violent pornography an issue? — TheWillowOfDarkness
You seem desperate to equate interest in bondage or BDSM with addiction, as if such desires or interests were nothing more than a horror generated out of porn addiction. — TheWillowOfDarkness
You seem fixated on the issue of porn addiction, to the exclusion of virtually every other consideration. There are other aspects of the topic, and I don't think they should be tossed off as "minutiae."Fine, I can entertain the possibility, I just don't think it's important or relevant to the issue of addiction. It doesn't affect the problem of addiction in any way. I'm primarily concerned with the issue of porn addiction, and it seems like all that you and other folks here have to say about that is "sure, addiction is possible". These arguments that fixate on the minutae are distracting from the bigger issue. — Noble Dust
This:What do you think about the possibility of porn addiction?
Yes, porn can be harmful and addictive. — Arkady
You seem fixated on the issue of porn addiction, to the exclusion of virtually every other consideration. There are other aspects of the topic, and I don't think they should be tossed off as "minutiae." — Arkady
Ok, ND, just take a deep breath and calm down. The world will soldier on and survive the scourge of porn addiction, I promise you.But the most pressing aspect of the topic is addiction because of it's prevalence and the way it affects peoples lives. What's worse right now is there isn't much data or studies to support the obvious problem that porn addiction presents. All we have are a few studies, and anecdotal evidence from hundreds of thousands of people. This is why I'm focusing on the problem of addiction. I feel like a broken record at this point. — Noble Dust
Perhaps porn addiction is the "most pressing aspect" of porn from a public health standpoint, but this isn't a public health forum: it's a philosophy forum, and there are other aspects of the topic which are salient and (IMO) interesting in their own right, apart from the issue of addiction. — Arkady
Relevant, sure, but not the only thing to talk about. The OP raised a number of other issues, including whether porn uses people merely as means rather than ends unto themselves, whether sex is or ought to be solely a private act and not for public consumption, etc.Addiction has always been relevant to the OP; he stated that there's evidence that porn is not harmful. I never directly addressed the OP, but bringing up addiction is relevant to the topic; it was a response to that part of the OP. Perhaps not the most directly philosophical aspect, no. — Noble Dust
But the most pressing aspect of the topic is addiction because of it's prevalence and the way it affects peoples lives. What's worse right now is there isn't much data or studies to support the obvious problem that porn addiction presents. All we have are a few studies, and anecdotal evidence from hundreds of thousands of people. This is why I'm focusing on the problem of addiction. I feel like a broken record at this point. — Noble Dust
I was having BDSM fantasies before watching porn or even knowing all the details of sex. — TheWillowOfDarkness
I think I've probably worn out my welcome in this thread. — Noble Dust
My guess is that people play video games for an extraordinary amount of time for the same reason they look at porn a lot: Their lives are otherwise empty, lacking in normal rewards, or are very unpleasant and they escape through a video screen. — Bitter Crank
I can see the "married porn" videos now. Lawfully married husbands and wives arrive home after collecting one child from pre-school, taking another to dance class, a third to hockey practice, a fourth to soccer; a trip to the store. By 7:00 everyone is irritable from hunger and even microwaved food takes some time. Then there are dishes, cleaning, homework, laundry, calls from the office, a couple of tantrums (dramatized by the youngest kid) and around 11:00 (on a good night) the parents go to bed. Great sex now? Are you out of your fucking mind? They lurch into sleep, (if they can) and the alarm goes off at 6:00 at the latest. Another day. — Bitter Crank
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