I apologize: I forgot to respond.
What I don't see here is the alternative they should have chosen, how they could have known that was the better choice and did they have the capability and opportunity to choose it?
This wasn’t an analytic essay: the prose is provocative, pungent, and crude. I think provided explicated life paths would betray that prose.
Who decides whether they are well or sick, according to what criteria?
“The wellness makes them sick; and the sickness makes them well” is a purposeful equivocation for intents of an aphorism. It is supposed to get you thinking about what sense ‘wellness’ and ‘sickness’ are being referred here. How can a person that is well be sick? How can a sick person be well?
What do you think? When would a well person be sick? Or a sick person well? And why would one
make the other?
What if most of us are common and content not to walk on flowers, but just look at them alongside the road?
Firstly, it still stampedes authenticity, individual profoundness, and deep thinking; so what you are asking is essentially “what if most of us are content with being inauthentic, dull, and intellectually shallow?”. To that, I say, secondly, that it will be a very shallow sense of happiness: it is not possible to acquire a deep sense of fulfillment that way; and it will tend to come back to haunt those people who are ‘content’ in this way. It’s almost like the short-term happiness makes them well, but also produces long-term misery……..
If common folk were not a majority, how could they have trod a paved road?
There would be no common folk in the sense you mean if everyone was authentic; unless everyone was authentically the same, which is highly unlikely.
All the people I ever met had thoughts and lives and purposes...But I'm not happier for having chosen differently, and neither their or my lives made an impression on the universe.
Of course most people have purposes and lives—no doubt; however, many people, especially those that are young, walk a path given to them as the easy downstream path of the river of society. It’s so easy to survive and be immanently healthy (physically) following that path nowadays that many people never are slapped with any sort of struggle that forces them to contemplate the heavier, deeper questions in life.
I would say, as a side note, that happiness is not subjective. No, people are not just as happy doing whatever option they choose (out of the full list of options).
What is true meaning and how do you tell it apart from false meaning? What is an authentic self and how can you tell what someone else's authentic self is? What is a 'deeper thing than they're thinking about, and who gets to measure the depth?
Exactly! That’s what the passage that you quoted is trying to get
you to think about.
Not always. Mining coal is hard, even if every man in your village does it for want of a better job. Active service in a war is hard, even if all your cohort is conscripted; bearing and feeding nine children is hard, even if every woman on the street accepts all the blessings God sends them.
Most jobs in the west are not like those you mentioned and more and more women are not having kids (or very few). The fact is that most people in the west, such as the US or Europe, have extremely comfortable lives even if they are drowning in debt. Outside of the West, there are plenty of places that have far worse living arrangements (to your point).
Old people have regrets, and some of those regrets are about not having pursued their passion. But they're just as likely to be about doing someone wrong or missing opportunities for happiness. If there are holes, they're particular and personal, not metaphysical.
A regret tends to be the shadow of the right intuition that one did not follow what is good.
Human beings, like sea lions and zebras, are individual, real, particular, unique - not generalities forming a dull backdrop against which the special ones suffer mental anguish and shine like stars.
I didn’t follow this part; but those of us that suffer
in the right and proportionate ways for higher goods definitely shine brighter.