The Subject as Subjected: Self vs Identity in Our Social Context It’s what we are able to make of events , how we construe them that determines whether they are validating or alienating, not what they supposedly are ‘in themselves’, and that varies from person to person within the ‘same’ consumerist society. — Joshs
Absolutely. However there are circumstance where these external circumstances are challenging or contradictory enough that that it becomes difficult for a person to validate their identity with any group. My assertion is that this is happening to a greater extent in today's society than say a couple of decades ago.
Let’s say we find that members of our family support a political orientation that puts them in an opposite camp from us. They may feel alienated from us based on this political difference, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that we feel alienated from them. — Joshs
True for a family member. But in that case the dominant identity would be of them being family, rather than their political identity. So the alienation is not happening in the dominant identity in that group - for that to happen a person would have to find their goals do not align with their family member being family. This certainly would cause an identity crisis - but it is not the crisis I intended to highlight with my example.
I might have been overly vague in my example as I wanted to generalize and not fixate on any single political or social issue. Here is another, perhaps clearer example:
There are two political parties X and Y. Jack's goals match reasonably well with X and he identifies as an Xer. Happy times.
Now the parties become more polarised. Jack's purpose no longer matches well with either party. Even worse, a lot of Xer now deplore him and his goals. Yet Y still does not align with his goals any better than previously. Jack is now a politically alienated person, who has an identity crisis in a portion of his social groups.
Note that does not mean he has no identity any longer - he may have a number of identities around family, work, etc. But a part of him is no longer fulfilled and he no longer has an identity in that area.
While I used a political party identity in the example above, I don't intend to limit my point to that - I just thought it would be the easiest example. I have seen it happen with work, gender, etc