I'm no expert but it may be a positive sign that gender dysphoria is on the rise. — Tom Storm
Then it's oxymoronic because it can't be dysphoric and be good. The opposite of dysphoria is euphoria, but I don't know that we can consider those who believe they're something they're not in a state of bliss, nor can we can generally call those who medically alter themselves euphoric. Maybe they find some benefit, but transitioning has hardly shown to be curative of the depression and other symptoms associated with gender dysphoria.
There simply is no good logical explanation for why gender can be entirely removed from ontological reality and be declared entirely a social construct and yet other genetic designations cannot unless you say that we as a society have the right to arbitratrarily decide which designations to allow be linked to reality and which to societal choices.
And that is a long way of just saying you can't say that gender is not associated with chromosomes but race (or any other genetic condition) is unless you just arbitrarily decide to do that. As indicated by the OP:
For some, the solution is to dismantle traditional categories entirely, embracing fluidity and rejecting labels. For others, the answer lies in retreating into the comfort of established norms, reclaiming what feels like authenticity in an increasingly disorienting world. Yet neither path fully resolves the underlying problem, as both are reactions to a distorted reality. — Benkei
What this means is that the reason you refuse or permit someone of Nordic descent to declare themselves of Asian descent is based upon one of two reasons: (1) we choose fludity and allow the person to call themselves Asian, or (2) we choose the comfort of tradition and insist he call himself Nordic.
My response it that the decision is based upon neither, but it's based upon the unstated #3, which is that we don't call the Swede Japanese because he's not, and he will not be regardless of how he might change appearance, dress, speach patterns and whatnot.
If we deny it's my #3, but instead insist we've just chosen option #2 in this instance as it pertains to ethnicity because we arbitrarily have chosen to do so, then you have no reason to object to the person who choses #2 as it pertains to gender. They have just acted arbitrarily differently than you.
And this was the crux of my initial response to the OP, which was that it was correct in noting the problems, but that it still had buy in to the notion that we as a society have complete freedom in declaring what reality is. Your post suggests we should celebrate as each traditional shackle is removed and handed back over to society to decide what to do best. I'm disagreeing with that because there is a right way and a wrong way regardless of what society says.
Either we declare immutable truths or we don't. The consequence of not is what we're currently dealing with. You can base the immutablity of truth on God or just plain stubbornness if that suits you better, but without it, you end up with the anything goes chaos described in the OP. And your question is when should we do this, when should we declare we've reached a barrier and not permit society to allow the change.
I'd respond by saying that we shouldn't allow the Nordic person to be accepted as Asian. If you don't agree with me, why not?