You don't know whether I have a girlfriend or not, and even if you did or didn't you have no context for understanding that potential relationship.
Manipulation and influence are the same thing, with different intentions.
I dont understand why you have such a hangup with the word good, you sound like a Determinist steeped in cultural relativism.
Telling me to fuck myself while being a woman and wearing a bikini is just rude (not the bikini part, I'm not sure why you added that necessary detail), it's not really a moral transgression, it just means that person would be kind of a dick. There's nothing wrong with being kind of a dick unless you accelerate it to the point of lambasting someone with slander.
Even if this was a moral transgression it would be a very minor single act, rather then the collection of experience people have and act in their lives.
"Who can be slandered and who can't?"
People with more cultural capital can be "slandered" but culture receives it as parody or satire if they have the foundations of free speech. People that are just run of the mill and have no higher influence then their job will allow shouldn't be slandered because in truth most people can't handle it and could end up committing suicide or worse attacking people. Criticized? Yes, but not slandered.
There is no "authenticity of motivations" because we all have the same motivations, security, love and fun.
Perhaps you mean authenticity of intentions, which are not the same thing as motivation. Motivation is the primordial precursor to intentions, it is up to the individual to decide for themselves as best then can given the restraints of their society and worldview what is right and wrong to do. Is accident of birth a thing? Yes, but it isn't the only thing, by a long shot.
I'm not indifferent, I just know from experience I can't go down that rabbit hole again. I choose to know that I will do what I think is best in the future. Am I wrong? Yes, at times I'm sure I will be, but you can't just program your moral compass to be right everytime, it's hard enough to think about what could be potentially moral or immoral even most of the time. What you are proposing is quite honestly, really short sighted.
When did I say the world is me?
I am part of the world and the world is a part of me. My identity is inseparable from the time and place of my existence.
You say instinct and motivation aren't the same thing.
Me: Instinct/Motivation precedes intention(s)/moral compass
You as I am interpreting your post: It's actually instinct then motivation. I don't remember seeing you write anything about intentions, but I could be wrong.
It's semantics at this point so I don't think we really believe our primordial natures are any different, your wording is just different compared to mine.
The you was bold, meaning Timeline the poster, specifically.
You claim to understand your moral compass but seem to like to type good in quotations, which indicates you are uncomfortable with that term. Further, the final part of that statement asserts that NO ONE's moral compass is distinct from their environment.
My understanding is that you think somehow a moral compass can exist totally outside of structure and context.
"Your understanding of my assertions is wrong."
Ok, so prove yourself right.
There is none, neither structure or context are totally knowable in the future. There is only the summation of your acts in trying to be the most moral you can be.