"Western Culture" and the Metric
Not intending to start a flame war (the world outside is already on fire enough as it is), but every time I hear anything about gender, capitalism, money, sex, beauty, masculinity, femininity business and power, the recurring theme I hear from critics of the identified norm is "Western Culture," and I have to ask: Western, as opposed to what? Eastern, Southern, Northern? Where's the point of reference, and whose culture is the "correct" culture, according to those who oppose "Western Culture"? What's the metric for defining what "Western Culture" is, short of the misnomer of conflating it with "Modern" or "First World"? I feel as though it was an umbrella term created to strawman all American and European ideas into being considered "bad" or "wrong".
The West has expanded over the years, to the point where its ideology now regularly clashes with the East in all the ways you have itemized. Ideologically the Prime Meridian continues to shift with some narratives overlaying others.
China and Russia were at odds with the West shortly after WWII. The West put them and a few others behind an 'Iron Curtain'. The essence of the dispute was ideological. Forms of capitalism were posed against forms of communism. Reality under these two ideologies was described in very different terms.
What one side saw as colonialism, the other side saw as indoctrination. What both side saw together was the importance of technology for the advancement and safety of their respective populations. This emphasis on technology has a lot of different costs, which include huge financial and academic expenses. These costs dissolved many of the apparent ideological differences by creating technology as a 'common cause' which each could adopt as their own.
Technology became a kind of Point Meridian, I think it's still holds its position, but its being challenged by cultures with great moral/religious traditions, societies whose architecture is built around a religious ideology, one which is far more integrated into everyday life than in either the East or the West. These cultures also value Technology, but it is subservient to their religious/familial values.