Authenticity and Identity: What Does it Mean to Find One's 'True' Self? Nice thread
@Jack Cummins
There's a problem in terms of how we think of the self when we think of it as something that can be found, like a Mars Bar that fell down the back of the couch. And it doesn't work any better when we make the Mars Bar into a gold bar or a diamond or whatever happens to be current and valued. When we project the "problem" onto the self, we distract from the context the self finds it in. The context is that which forms the space in which the self finds itself, and so forms the self, whether or not we consider it found. We are always already found and if something is wrong it is where we find ourselves. But it's a neat trick of contexts to render themselves invisible so that we absolve ourselves of the responsibility to change them while we focus on this nebulous Mars Bar that always disappears when we have the munchies. Erm, anyway
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To find one's true self is to confront that monster, and set it free from the prison of the unconscious. It is to face the fear and shame of oneself. — unenlightened
And to lose oneself is to look for it in abstraction, in ideology, in navel gazing, in allowing the unconscious to work freely under our comfortable habits so that the context which it has created for us can go on making us what we don't wish to be,