To the extent the problems you identify are soluble at all, it would only be through political action. — T Clark
You obviously can't save lives forever, do you just want a quantitative amount of lives saved? — Red Sky
What exactly do you mean by religious harmony? (One religion, or just coexistence and acceptance) — Red Sky
I would say unless you're the billionaire batman, you will need to gain the support of many people. — Red Sky
The important thing in choice is that you are the one making it, and not others. — Red Sky
Getting a 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc opinion would also qualify as getting more information before making a decision. — Harry Hindu
That is an unanswerable question, and best not to waste time contemplating it as it would just make your depression worse. — Harry Hindu
It's not your fault. It's not your fault. It's not your fault. — Good Will Hunting
Think of trying for the best as Offense and avoiding the worst as Defense. — LuckyR
This means I am never "second guessing" myself because everything is done to a framework, applicable at all times. — AmadeusD
I wish you had had a better psychiatrist. — unenlightened
A book that might help, "Prudence: Choose Confidently, Live Boldly." — Leontiskos
What do you see as your mistake in this instance? What is the thing you wish you had done differently? — Leontiskos
by making choices that eliminate the worst outcome — LuckyR
You made the best possible decision given the information you had at that moment. — Harry Hindu
I meant whether my nonexistence would have been better for me, compared to the life I have lived so far, which has been mostly suffering. Also, my nonexistence would have prevented all of my negative and positive impacts on others and the world e.g. ecological footprint. I am a Vegan, Egalitarian, Sentientist.Only if you were Caligula, Hitler or Stalin. — Harry Hindu
I have come through life almost scar free and I have lead an ordinary life but an enjoyable one. — Malcolm Parry
I agree because I can't change the past. Thank you for sharing your experience and for your advice. I am exercising daily but it is hard. I have a healthy diet but my problem is that my medication causes weight gain. I am also trying to learn computer programming which I find hard because of my depression and because of my age. I am 47.you are where you are and decisions going forward are the only ones that matter. — Malcolm Parry
While freedom is a curse, it is also life's greatest blessing, and I say this with total sincerity. Llfe truly wouldn't be living without freedom.
Much more to be said, but what do you think of that so far? — hypericin
Seems to me that the key is other people. Keep reaching out. And keep in mind that while you don't know what will happen next, sometimes things get better.
You are welcome to PM me. — Banno
More likely, you would be equally discontent but with a different set of issues. — Banno
In terms of suicide of why you should stay alive it breaks down to practicality and it’s something out of my remit to advise on personal choices and circumstances. — kindred
There are factors involved when making choices and these are often a matter of personal preference. — kindred
This happens because I am haunted by previous errors. If I had known how things would turn out, I would have chosen differently.Do you know why this happens? Are you haunted by previous errors? — Tom Storm
I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder on the 5th of March 1998. My parents told me to ignore the psychiatrist and not take the prescribed medications. I didn't listen to my parents. I trusted my psychiatrist and took the prescribed medications. 27 years and 3 months later, I am still struggling with depression and all the side-effects of the prescribed medications. I have gone from 65 kg to 98 kg as my medication causes weight gain. My mental illness has ruined my physical health, education, career and relationships. I often wonder how my life would be if I had listened to my parents instead of my psychiatrist.What would be an example of this? — Tom Storm
All of them and many more.Is it things like having children, getting married, or deciding where to live? — Tom Storm
Is this one you are mulling over or a hypothetical? — Tom Storm
Our choices are not free from the determinants i.e. genes, environments, nutrients, and experiences. These variables not only determine our choices, they even constrain them. You can prove me wrong by instantly becoming fluent in a language you have never learned - it's an impossible task, or by going back in time and changing the past at will, or by becoming all-knowing and all-powerful at will. We can have delusional beliefs, but even they are not free from the determinants.I think you have this backwards, it should be “Determinants, constraints, consequences are never free from our choices.” Why? Because we are free to think otherwise. And in fact, we do. — Richard B
If you are the only one who could do that for yourself, what does it mean to appeal to others? — Paine
We all make choices, but our choices are never free from determinants (genes, environments, nutrients, and experiences), constraints and consequences. — Truth Seeker
"A man can do what he wills, but not will what he wills," — Janus
Try to point to your genes and experiences. What else in the universe besides yourself are you pointing at? — NOS4A2
If you are satisfied that all is determined, why ask about it?
Would it change something? — Paine
We are our genes. We are our experiences. So if genes and experiences determine our choices, then we determine our choices.
Nutrients and environments may have certain effects on our biology, but they cannot determine our choices because at no point do they control the sensory-motor architecture of our bodies. — NOS4A2
Sounds like you have a lot of challenges to manage. Your question has much more impact hearing this. For what it's worth, I wish you well. You've been resilient and strong in the face of significant difficulties. — Tom Storm
A latter-day Sisyphus – no doubt your struggle (i.e. love), my friend, is stronger than your suffering – let that be your peace — 180 Proof