Disambiguating the concept of gender How are we going to police men with a dress and a wig that claim to be a woman with the intent to victimize women in a women's bathroom? — Harry Hindu
To be fair, if men are going to do this they needn't 'dress up' for the occasion. If someone appears to be female then I see no real harm in them entering a toilet. The issue being there is no way to tell. If there is a clear case where someone is a man dressed as a woman, then if they enter and no one sees them it makes no difference.
Other ideas would be to rename 'Disabled' toilets as 'Universal' (or something like that).
I think looking at specific cases is kind of trivial. Some people are idiots and some are not. Some people are violent and others are not. Some wish to cause harm and other do not.
We do certainly have to appreciate that certain behaviors have no physiological evidence. For example, being homosexual is not discernable by looking at someone's DNA anymore than being psychopathic is (although I am aware of the former being partially possible).
One thing is for sure. I should not be committing an illegal act for pointing out that someone is a man, fat, black or any other number of things.
I was once verbally 'attacked' for apparently calling someone 'fat,' when in fact the situation was that a girl with literally two chins (clearly obese) stated to everyone around the table that she was NOT fat. I simply said, without hesitation, "Yes, you are. I am not bothered by it. If you are it is your problem." or something along those lines. the fact that the vast majority of people around the table had a go at me, and others remained silent, is why these things come into the public eye.
People shouldn't be gagged if they disagree, but inevitably they will be from time to time. The very fact that these topics are contested is a good sign, even if the manner in which we repeatedly fuck up as a species is annoying. Apathy is probably worse - even if this derails the antagonists!