Israel killing civilians in Gaza and the West Bank
Ok, so you're telling me that the IRA did not go out of its way to maximize civilian casualties. Something tells me that if they did, the British public would see them quite a bit differently and peace would have been a bit more of an obstacle. The ways in which terror attacks are carried out are deeply relevant both morally and for public perception: A strike on an empty bar on a Sunday morning where the enemy gathers is quite different from one against a crowded night club on a Saturday night where young people gather. The IRA does not strike me as morally comparable to Hamas with both the methods and general hatred coming from Hamas running much deeper. To the best of my understanding, the IRA did not try to maximize civilian casualties or recruit child suicide bombers (in all fairness this one even caused backlash among normal Palestinian civilians.) The IRA also did not seek to destroy the UK or define their vision in uncompromising dogmatic religious language. Take a look at the Hamas charter:
https://fas.org/irp/world/para/docs/880818a.htm
Yet the conflict in Ireland, not just in Northern Ireland but the whole history from the Irish revolt and the IRA, to Irish Independence and then "The Troubles" in Northern Ireland is quite comparable to the Palestinian conflict, if we separate from this the wars that Israel has fought with it's neighbors. — ssu
Unfortunately we can't make this separation otherwise the history and moral judgments that we draw just don't make sense. If we don't consider the wars then it just looks like Israel just grabbed the land out of nowhere.
We need to consider the circumstances under which the land was taken. The conflict cannot be viewed in isolation, it must be viewed as part of the broader Arab-Israeli conflict, and even in this conflict things aren't black-and-white. Egypt also helps with the blockade against Gaza because they don't support Hamas either. Others just conveniently ignore the fact the if the Arab countries wanted they could relieve the pressure, but they don't. If your own people aren't stepping into help when they could that is definitely its own issue. Jews have always accepted other Jews into Israel even when doing so was a serious difficulty.
That's the difference between SOPs. — ssu
Sure we can talk about SOPs and this would be useful discussion to have. I'd suspect the USSR would have been much, much more than brutal than Israel here. I'm certain the Nazis would have been much more brutal as well. I'd suspect the Israeli response would be roughly in line with the US on an issue like this and we can try to draw some numbers. If the US is averaging 2k/year civilians dead in the war on terror then Israel is doing even better, on average and that number includes militants. In these discussions it can be difficult to determine what exactly qualifies as a "humane" number. You drew an example from the Lebanon conflict earlier, but Lebanon was an actual war as opposed to dealing with the Palestinians.
It would still be an extremely useful bit of information to know how IDF SOPs compare with those of the US and UK in low intensity conflicts.