Should hate speech be allowed ? This is a very difficult issue, especially with the “think of the children” rhetoric involved.
I like to think of it this way: if we educated children in the nature of language, and how to better grapple with their feelings when in contact with abusive words, they will learn to negate the bully’s attempts to exert power and coercion through verbal abuse. — NOS4A2
There is no "think of the children" rhetoric involved and it was one of many examples I provided. I picked it, because it has the most egregious consequences in my view. Psychological abuse is a real problem and it's not just limited to child abuse but that's an example where the State can (and will) step in by separating the children from abusive parents. We do not step into adult-adult relationships the same as we consider them autonomous enough to walk away from that relationship because of presumed independence. Children are dependent on their parents and therefore deserve special protection from parents who do not properly fulfil their caretaker role to the point where the relationship becomes abusive.So the idea "if we educated children" only works if the educators can be trusted. They cannot be trusted in every case, therefore education alone is not a panacea.
Next, you're equating bullying with psychological abuse. They are not remotely the same thing.
I'm telling you what I'd do. What do you want instead--tell you what someone else would do?
I'm okay with "child abuse" when it's only psychological, sure.
With you not being okay with it and wanting to prohibit it, can you answer the question I asked: how would you enforce any laws against psychological abuse? How would you establish that there has even been psychological abuse against kids? — Terrapin Station
First off, I explicitly asked you to reply given the nature of reality where you're not king. I again get a reply "I'm telling you what I'd do" but that's just made-up nonsense if it's not grounded in reality. You keep on doing this and are effectively not answering my questions at all as a result.
I'm not sure what to say to your claim that you're okay with "child abuse". We're not remotely on common ground - ethically speaking - if you're okay with child abuse. Such abuse leads to serious behavioural, emotional or even mental disorders. How is that "okay"? Are you suggesting we should let parents abuse their children to protect their free speech?
Your questions are a bit silly given that children are regularly placed out of their parental homes due to psychological abuse. It's more difficult to assess than bruises but it's entirely possible. So there's no issue there, parents can appeal in the courts against such decisions but there's already a system in place and a method of establishing such abuse (e.g. disorders of kids the source of which can be found in parental behaviour towards those kids).