Jamal, I truly appreciate you engaging with the topic; albeit incredibly mediated from the OP. I genuinely hope that we can have a productive and respectful conversation. Let’s dive in.
I am going to address the main points, as I see it, that you made; and feel free to let me know if I missed anything crucial.
Eristic vs. Rational Discourse
You provided an interesting, brief treatise on dialectics that aim at sophistry (eristic) vs. truth (rational knowledge) and analogized it to our dispute in ethics and metaphysics. You seem to think, and correct me if I am wrong, that two completely antithetical or exclusive theories cannot be rationally resolved; and, consequently, we must rely on ‘metacritique’—viz., critique of the ‘genesis’ beyond the ‘validity—to decipher which one a person should hold as true. To me, this is false for the following reasons:
1. The genesis of an idea is
historical and, consequently, (inter-)subjective and, consequently, cannot provide any influence on the truth or falsity of a proposition (or theory). A genesis, including yours of mine (which I will get to later), at best, exposes the (social or individual) psychology at play in developing the idea—it uncovers the motives...not the truth...of the idea.
2. The kinds of theories you are describing are just ones that are logically consistent and internally coherent; but epistemically we evaluate theories on much more than that. The main two you seemed to have missed is
external coherence and parsimony.
I submit to you, that we use internal coherence and logical consistency to determine if the given theory meets the
prerequisites to be sound; and then we move forward comparing how well it (1) fits the relevant data needing to be explained, (2) how parsimonious it is at explaining it, and (3) how well it coheres with the prioritized (external) knowledge we have of the rest of the world.
With all due respect, what your ‘genesis’ exposition did was collapse ethics into psychology—a fatal Nietzschien mistake IMHO.
Question-Begging
Your criteria for evaluating ethical frameworks used to demonstrate that your ethical framework is better was circular:
a moral framework is better if it is more comprehensive, coherent, and leads to a more humane society
(emphasis added)
The word ‘humane’ is a morally-loaded term; and as we see at the end, you end up presupposing the truth of your ethical theory to prove it:
3. It leads to a more humane society: no loving couples are told by authorities that what they're doing is a privation of goodness or that they are sick in the head.
What makes a humane society? You are presupposing here, in effect, that, in conclusion, your theory is better, liberalism, because it makes a
better society. You then, and throughout the entirety of your thinking, assumed the concepts at play in liberal thought to convey your point. E.g., you used ‘love’ in a hyper-individualistic, non-traditional way; and you assumed that it is better for society to have the ‘authorities’ ‘butt-out’ of people’s lives as much as possible—both of which are tenants of classical liberalism.
More importantly, though, I want to be clear that I have not advocated for an authoritarian regime, like big brother, that forces people not to do sexual evils. Not once have I said that. In fact, I think Christianity entails that people need the ability, the leeway, so long as it is not gravely bad for them, to do evil to themselves. E.g., gluttony is evil but I actually think it is evil to force someone not to be a glutton. I just think there is a point where it may be too detrimental to their own good (e.g., Cindy should not have the option to do heroine even if we knew she won't harm anyone else by doing it, being 'objectively suicidal' should not be honored with suicide assistance, people castrating themselves to try to be the other gender should not be affirmed, etc.). The grave issue with liberalism is that it presupposes freedom
of indifference and not freedom
for excellence; and this is why we see it pushing for what is good as merely what coincides with what a person wants. True liberalism should support furries, medical affirmation care for transgenders, suicide assistance, euthanasia, providing people with hard drugs if they want it, helping people maim themselves if they want to, letting people sell their bodies for money, let people enter sex indentured servitude if its their kink, etc. Liberalism is hyper-libertarianism.
So, to be clear, you are partially arguing against a straw man of my position here. Nothing about the Aristotelian thought I gave necessitates that Chinese-style authoritarianism is the best political structure; or that we should force homosexuals not to have sex. In fact, I think that would be immoral to do.
Natural Law Theory: Based or Absurd?
Kissing, holding-hands, and the like are not sexual acts—they are intimate acts (with sometimes sexual undertones); and are a part of the natural ends of the human body. We use lips for many things—not just one. What your argument here suggests is that any intimacy outside of sex must be contrary to the natural ends of non-sex organs; and I don’t see how that is true. Which leads me to:
But if only some of those acts are bad, why?
In order for an act with a natural faculty to be immoral, it has to be
contrary to the ends of that faculty such that it inhibits the said faculty from fulfilling them. Consequently, singing, kissing, cutting one’s hair, cutting one’s fingernails, getting an ear piercing, etc. are not immoral because they are not contrary to the ends of the respective faculties in this way.
Anal sex, for example, on the other hand, inhibits the anus from fulfilling its ends of (1) holding in poop and (2) excreting it. Anal sex does, in fact, although the organ can repair itself to some extent, loosen up the anus organ. Even liberal studies usually admit this to the extent that they suggest to people to do exercises to strengthen the pelvis area to help keep the anus healthy (to counter-act the anal sex they are having). Which leads me to:
The mention of "an organ designed to defecate" pretends to be a scientific or common-sense observation but is really a public performance of disgust, an attempt to bypass rationality by invoking a visceral reaction to justify exclusion.
This seems like an attempt to ignore the obvious fact that the anus is designed to defecate by ad hominem attacking me: you are essentially saying “hey, guys, let’s ignore the fact he’s right about this one part because he really is just prejudiced and trying to give a bad-faithed public performance”. This is the kind of rhetoric on this forum that saddens me; because I am out here trying to have good faith conversations with people.
Likewise, you are absolutely right that heterosexual anal, oral, and touching (such as masturbatory) sex is immoral—I only see this as a bullet to bite from the perspective of liberal thought.
identity thinking
Am I correct in thinking that your ‘identity thinking’ critique is that all concepts and ontological identities are forms of coercion? Do you accept that there are real identities (like a triangle
really as opposed to
only conceptually being a three sided shape)? Are they all coercive and immoral in your view?
he must reduce the whole person to the act he finds disgusting to justify a coercive impulse to force everyone into his chosen norm of being. No attempt is made to understand the lived experience of gay or transgender people, to listen to their voices, to appreciate their diverse experiences of love and intimacy. That's all pre-emptively obliterated under the force of the categories of degenerate, defective, violation of nature, and so on, and the total person is reduced to the function of sex organs, the context of the act ignored in the act of imposing the category of non-procreative act.
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And it's in comments like those that Bob is most forceful and genuine, which again indicates that the genesis of Bob's arguments is not in reason, but in prejudicial feeling, an aspect of a certain kind of ideology.
To demonstrate good faith in my desire to have a productive conversation with you, I am going to overlook the fact that you reduced my entire metaphysics to a baseless ad hominem attack on my character and psychology; but I do need to clear my name. I am not ad hoc rationalizing a feeling of disgust for homosexuals; I am not prejudiced towards homosexuals; and I am not trying to use the terms like ‘defective’, ‘violation of nature’, etc. to pre-emptively obliterate anything (although I grant that the term 'degeneracy', although it truly does apply to what I was saying, is a provocative term that I would not use when talking to a member of the LGBTQ+ community). You know nothing about my personal life…..nothing, Jamal.
One last thing I wanted to cover:
Despite the Aristotelian clothing, Bob doesn't properly engage or inhabit any tradition at all, if we understand a tradition along with MacIntyre as a "historically extended, socially embodied argument".
MacIntyre accepts the vast majority of my view. He’s an Aristotelian too and a Christian; so I don’t understand why you would think that he would think I am not following a tradition when I am using Aristo-Thomism. Aristo-thomism is a long-standing tradition in the Latin, Dominican Scholastics.