I think of gender as a socially organised way to order sexual behaviour through our daily praxis. — Dawnstorm
Ahh ok, that's fair. A slightly stronger version that I would use is all. Fully makes sense of what you're saying though, thank you.
ou talk about exceptions for a rule. — Dawnstorm
Not quite - I don't think gender and sex are rule-bound. They vary
almost interdependently but this is no rule - a mere observation. Does that resolve that tension?
And I think the problem is socially re-inforced complacency: it's not our problem. Unless we're trans. — Dawnstorm
I think this is entirely true, on every level. It simply isn't our problem when others gender and sex vary independently. That's fine. I'm unsure that the preceding comments apply in that light, thought I understand their purpose. I just don't think we're looking for rules (though, i assume TRAs are in order to justify enforcing their identities on others social worlds).
If there are no biological markers somewhere around sex that regulate those exceptions... how can we tell? If there are, listening to trans people and what they're paying attention to should be interesting. — Dawnstorm
I agree - and i find it entirely uninteresting to speak with trans people about this specific issue. It is a mess, and rarely comes coherent or in a to-be-taken-seriously form, I think. The only claim is that trans people have the brain of the opposite sex. I note this is untrue, and usually only trotted out to support trans
women which goes directly to my fundamental scepticism in the area (not about people's ID - but about people's motivations and what that means for society).
since the combination of biological differences and living together in groups will always lead to some sort of gender distinction. — Dawnstorm
This says to me you
want to conclude that gender is analogous to sex? I understand that's not what you're
saying but it seems so intensely difficult to accept that there's some biological connection without equating the two. What could apply to one, and vary independently in the other?
"Adult" is usually connected with both age and behaviour. An adult can behave childishly without being a child, but an adult can "fail to grow up". — Dawnstorm
This speaks to the, what I think is, false narrative around trans stuff. The above doesn't change
anything about a strict delineation between child and adult, which we have along two metrics:
1. Age of majority;
2. Having experienced puberty.
Both are objective measures of an adult. The subsequent
behaviours and presentations don't alter that. Does this make sense? If so, read across to sex. If Gender has an objective standard, it would need to be to clearly assessable. Gender is not. In fact, gender can be claimed as the
opposite to behaviour and presentation (as well as sex). It seems its a category unrelated to either, on the TRA version.
But being wrong about something that's in flux — Dawnstorm
This is definitely true, and is probably why "gender transition" is such a totally incoherent concept in practice. Not that there's a moral value there - just that no one can make sense of what's happening in a transition unless they refer to an objective standard which is
not in flux.
If you're really trans — Dawnstorm
I think this is an unfortunate way to proceed. I want to know what that is, before assessing it in situ of another discussion (I realise you've resiled from that, and do not hold you to it - just being clear about any comments that might betray this)
The problem here is this: it's hard, and maybe (currently?) impossible to tell the difference from the outside, when all you have is what they do and say. — Dawnstorm
But surely, Gender can only be assessed on those terms, anyway? If its tied to sex, trans people don't have room to make claims they cannot support to others.
"safety issue" seems to be secondary to the general discourse around this (especially, since the safety of trans people is usually secondary for people who argue safety — Dawnstorm
I think this is backwards. The safety of trans people (in bathrooms, lets say)
is secondary. They are requesting access to a protected space - being the target of the protective measure (i.e male, in this argument anyway). My wife's safety comes before males who want to piss in the same room as she (for she, and I). It is
rare for people to put
theoretical safety of others above themselves. It might even be a bad move to do so.
I'd not be surprised if trans people allowed into "their" bathrooms still choose to avoid public bathrooms, as these places aren't seen as safe. — Dawnstorm
It seems to be something somewhat opposite: trans people are determined to access the bathroom they claim, regardless of any safety considerations. Its an affirmation issue. In that light, it seems more likely to be an ignorance of safety on their part, in service of their identity, than much else.