Objectification is ignoring that others are people whose well-being is important, in favour of understanding and using them as objects to achieve your desire. It's not about being sexually aroused be someone. Nor is it about desiring a sexual relationship. It's not even about wanting to see sexy images of someone.
The problem is when understanding and concern for another person are not present, when someone understands an exchange between two people is only about getting what they desire. In pornography and sex, this means considering
other people, their desires, their well-being, rather than just arousal, activity or entertainment someone wants for themselves.
If someone is looking for a hookup, it means not just searching for someone who says "Yes,"
but someone else who wants to have sex with them. The goal is not for them to "get some." It's to engage in an act which benefits
the well-being of someone else.
The same is true of pornography. If someone is producing or watching pornography, they ought to be concerned about the well-being of the people involved. Yes, the pornography is about making money (for the producer) and feeding desire (for viewers), but it's also (if people are ethical) about the well-being of people performing it. Both the producer and viewer ought to understand pornography is not just about making money or obtaining pleasure, but an expression of the
well being of the performers.
One does not watch porn (if they are non-objectifying and ethical) just to, as you crudely put it, to "get off." They do so to engage in a mutual interaction which benefits both their well-being (which includes, in most instances, getting off)
and the well-being of any actors involved. Just as hookups are defined by finding someone else whose well-being benefits, producing or watching pornography (as least the ethical sort) is about benefiting the well-being of someone else (the performers involved).
So the question here isn't legal. The law is frequently a blunt instrument. It simply can't deal with the range of issues and understanding which come in human relationships.
Ethics is what matter to us.
Instead of making "bad faith" arguments that "the law says..." or "but they chose it..," we can think deeper. We can consider the
other person and their well-being, rather than just what the law allows us to do and how we can manipulate the situation to gain the most personal benefit. At certain points we can say, when we recognise the other people we are dealing with: "Well, that is legal, and they might of said "yes," but in circumstances their well-being isn't going to benefit. This action I'm about considering will cause them harm,
despite it being legal and them agreeing to it. It's my ethical responsibly not to harm them, even it means giving up what I want."
But people can be, and often are, used as a means to an end, and this is often quite ordinary and not immoral. There was the example given of the musician for hire, and there are plenty of other examples which could be given. Those who object in this particular case of porn actors need to explain why this is some sort of special exception. — Sapientia
When they're
objectified, yes (and it's highly immoral).
This is the deep set myth of objectification I'm talking about. Is it "objectification" merely to work for someone, give something to another person or follow someone's instruction? No, it's not. Simply hiring a musician doesn't amount to objectification. Nor does hiring a sex worker. To hire someone doesn't mean objectification.
An employee is only treated as a means to an end
if the employer (and consumer) understands and treats them that way. What do you think it says about your position that it reads
mere employment as objectification, as if wanting, desiring or asking something or someone else amounted to treating them as a means to an end? Can you not recognise they, even if you want or demand something from them, are their own person who has a well-being that's more than just whether you reach your business goals?
A musician for hire isn't objectified unless their boss is ignoring their well-being--i.e. misleading them about the nature of the work, making false promises about what the role will gain them, setting impossible deadlines, demanding the musician work to the expense of health and relationships, etc.
So no-one is making an expectation for porn actors. People in any other line of work can be objectified just as badly (and frequently are).