Possibly, just possibly, you've become a little jaded by your experiences. — Wayfarer
It is certainly the case that I am jaded by my experiences.
There are many kinds of leisure activities and cultural pursuits that can be pursued, but porn is exclusively related to the generation and satisfaction of the sexual impulse. — Wayfarer
I say that porn is not exclusively directed toward the generation and satisfaction of the sexual impulse. How so?
Porn, like all entertainment we receive through media, is a product from which enterprising people derive income. What is the purpose of commercial television programming? Entertainment? Only incidentally. The primary purpose of porn, commercial television and radio, magazines, and so on is to provide bait for consumers to see the advertising. Content is cost at a magazine, advertising is the income.
"But porn is free. I'm not paying for it." How is it free? By one means or another you are paying for the porn you watch. Some of the fee your carrier charges you to get porn works its way back to the provider. There are ads next to pornography. Sometimes there are memberships you have to pay for. DVDs are not given away for free, just as reel to reel video, print, or 8mm film views were not given away. Porn is not offered as a free public service. The per-view cost may be very low, but if millions of people pay a very small amount for something, it adds up to real money after a while.
The purveyors of porn--and a lot of other goods--are primarily concerned about making money. The consumer's sexual interest is being subverted for the purpose of making money.
Porn watching is, to a certain extent, a pleasureless meaningless activity. Only with the personal engagement of one's 'erotic machine' does porn remain interesting and arousing for a period of time. Just as eating junk food is a pleasureless, meaningless activity. We, like some dogs, will eat whenever food is put in front of us--not because we are very hungry, or long for a wonderful dining experience. Oh, food: eat.
In instances where people buy porn for the immediate purpose of achieving sexual arousal and satisfaction (like in hotels) the average duration of watching is pretty short. Tape turned on; a few minutes later he is all done. Tape turned off.
The average guy doesn't require hours to reach arousal and satisfaction. From my jaded experience, average man gets aroused and achieves sexual satisfaction in less than 15 minutes and some in a good deal less time than that. ONLY if they are prolonging the pleasure do they take longer.
So, guys who spend 3 hours watching porn (without an erection, quite possibly) are clearly not doing this just for arousal and satisfaction. They are engaged in a largely meaningless time-killing activity.