Antinatalism's main gripes revolve around causing others unnecessary suffering and the fact that something as important a decision can never be consented. — schopenhauer1
Well these gripes are covered by it being a responsibly-informed decision. You have to catastrophise the average life to make life itself seem always an intolerable burden and thus never justified in its starting.
Your argument collapses right there. Exactly where there are those of us who are indeed quite glad to have had the chance to be born and live out a life even if we failed to sign the correct legal papers in advance of the fact.
Procreationists/natalists want to see a FORCED outcome for other people. — schopenhauer1
People can want to have children. It is perfectly natural. And they take responsibility for their choices. Or at least that is where their ethical duty lies.
But you want to invent some kind of monstrous fertility cult taking perverted pleasure in producing miserable souls. Weird.
I claim that procreation is a political move. It is VOTING on ANOTHER'S BEHALF that one must carry out X. — schopenhauer1
Your hysteria rises. You want to take what is just an everyday part of most lives – a pragmatic decision about what suits some couple – and turn it into a legalistic, and now politicised, burden. Some kind of ballot rigging or election fraud for which a couple must be charged. Or at least shouted at in capital letters.
Again, do you accept that people are allowed make their own informed risk-reward choices or not? Are they allowed to express the potentials of their own bodies or do their preferences require your consent as the fertility police. The fertility police who will anyway only ever say no.
So quite literally, antinatalists cause no FORCE, simply propose arguments while pro-procreation people quite literally FORCE situations upon others. — schopenhauer1
But why do they get so shouty when told their argument is based on the false premise that life is inherently only for the worse, never for the better? That they would deny as many good lives as the bad lives they might hope to prevent.
If you polled a 1000 people – a proper cross-section of society – how many would say it would have been just better never to have been born than to have lived at all?
I would expect an antinatalist to at least be able to offer this data to show there was any kind of genuine consent issue.
This is one list of death bed regrets.
1) “I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”
2) “I wish I hadn't worked so hard.”
3) “I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.”
4) “I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.”
5) “I wish I had let myself be happier”
So at the end of the journey, the issue is not that the journey was started but that more could have been done in terms of personal growth.
If you want to have some grand position on ethics/politics/life, that seems a more fruitful focus for a conversation.