I agree. The social liberalism and degradation of cultural matters when it comes to family, sex, respect and the like feeds into the consumerist and individualist mindset that has been ingrained in many young people already. — Agustino
The celebration of culture, widespread access to culture and history, and the development of culture are at an all time high. Yes, it's less Bach and Swan Lake and more spoken word, movies and Banksy. There's no "right" culture in this respect and enjoy all of them. Families (and not just the marrying kind!) are safer with less rape, less abuse, less incest and when it does go wrong, more courts that recognise victims instead of protecting perpetrators. All thanks to liberals.
A counter-movement against the sexualisation of the female body has been going on for some time and is gaining traction (just compare mainstream hiphop videos now with 10-20 years ago), which I think is a healthy development.
So, really it's the reverse, social liberalism has emancipated the weak and has evolved institutions to hold the privileged accountable.
They have heard the narrative of emancipation, freedom after the devastation of the two world wars, enjoying life, social mobility, you can pull yourself by your own bootstraps, 1001 second chances, etc. It is very difficult to shake this now, because it is self-reinforcing. They have other people who they see behaving like this, which, whether you like it or not, psychologically makes them feel secure in their way of life.
Ah right, so people's salaries were halved and they have to work twice as hard now but they're still lazy fucks. Which one is it? Make a choice.
It is indeed the crowd that prevents any sort of persuasion from functioning. And without breaking up the crowd, it is impossible to make any forward movement.
That should suit you just fine then as it suggests nothing ever can change. Yet it does. Weird huh?
As to your second post:
I live in the world man! Go speak to some young people, and see what they say. Around me, most guys I know aren't interested to get married. Even those who have girlfriends, even in cases where the girlfriends have asked them to, they refused. And some are well into their 30s. Their reason is simple: independence. In virtually 100% of cases that I know. There are some guys I know who got married early, but they are a minority. — Agustino
Anecdotal evidence. Useless.
Simple. Double the labour force, half the salaries.
This claim is false. Salaries didn't half. They did stagnate and the increased profits as economies grew went to the already affluent (you know, the kind of economics that come automatically with most social conservative parties such as the GOP). Here's an opportunity to read up:
life time incomes over 6 decades
Personally, I don't think women should stay at home, women should work, since work is an important aspect of life. But working does not imply lack of family values or getting married late. As I have explained, prior to the Industrial Revolution, women also worked in trades - away from home - or even farming (which didn't always occur on their own farm, many people didn't have this privilege). — Agustino
Prior to the industrial revolution women worked unpaid. They were farmers but their men or families pocketed the money. The main difference is that their salaries are now their own. So it gives women more choices and therefore also the possibility to decide to marry late. They're still welcome to marry early but they don't. I don't see what the problem is with that and you haven't made clear what's wrong with marrying late to begin with.
Sure, and many have, unfortunately, taken it. Why have they taken it? Because of increased individualism, consumerism, and selfishness. So the causality goes the other way around. — Agustino
Not unfortunately. Thankfully. Their choices are first of all not forced on them by circumstance. Secondly, with age comes wisdom, so presumably they chose for better reasons. You apply motivations to it that are just your personal assumptions and not based on reality. Why can't women chose family life by
planning to have children at a later age and to have less children? The two are not mutually exclusive you know.
Now with regards to birth control, some people use birth control to avoid having children in order to foster intimacy with their partner in marriage or in a committed relationship. BUT most uses of birth control aren't for this - they are to promote fornication and sexual promiscuity. — Agustino
And? Nobody is forcing you to have sex. How exactly is this your problem?
I see smaller families as the effect of less kids, not the other way around. — Agustino
Not quite. Since women have more and different choices, having a zillion kids doesn't rate high among it any more. So there's a social change to have less kids, so you can start later.
It is more difficult to have kids with age. In addition, the body's maximum reproductive capacity occurs much earlier, which means that the best time to have children is missed. So I disagree that longer lifespan means you don't have to hurry. — Agustino
Factually wrong. If you define "best" as meaning the best chance for the health of the infant, then the “best age” for first birth, based on USA national data, looked at a different measure of a baby’s health—rates of overall infant mortality rather than birth defects— is at 32. If you only look at birth defects, the age is 26.