"Why am I me?" — noAxioms
That's a great example. In trying to discuss this, metaphysical positions are elucidated. It's interesting that the question makes sense to some people and not others. But refusing to address the issues with a 'wrong question' shuts down the interesting stuff.
"Why does time go slower for the twin in the rocket?" — noAxioms
"It doesn't go slower for the twin in the rocket." Engage with the subject matter, no need to shut down the conversation with a dismissive 'wrong question'
"Why does everyone hate me?" — Benj96
"They don't really, they're all jealous of you." Again, engaging with the subject.
"Why do the rich always get to be happy and not struggle?" — Benj96
"They don't. Some rich people do struggle..." Again, no need to dismiss the question
"How well did my excellent, perfect example clarify things for you?" — Benj96
"Not very well actually." Perfectly possible to engage with the subject.
Perhaps the respondent is trying to say that you have made a Category Error, hence any assertions you make are "not even wrong". That kind of put-down is usually reserved for science vs pseudo-science arguments. — Gnomon
Yes, this is the kind of thing I was getting at. Saying "Yeah, the rules you play by are the wrong rules. My rules are the right rules. Your question doesn't make sense in my rules, so ask me another one that plays my game not yours." This is a dick move that shuts down conversation. It's perfectly fine to challenge the rules, obviously. But that's not what 'Wrong question' does. That's a refusal to discuss not an opening to discuss. It about power not philosophy.
"Why is the sky solid?" — Benj96
"It isn't solid. But perhaps you mean something different by the word 'solid' than I." Perfectly possible to engage with the meat of the matter.
have you stopped beating your wife? — Banno
"I never started." is surely the appropriate response.
"Why do things happen?" Seems like a question. — Mikie
It is a question. But maybe it doesn't have an answer. It certainly has a number of possible senses.
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None of the above examples invite a 'wrong question' response. Most of them simply have a false assumption embedded in them. The assumption can be wrong, in which case the appropriate response is to tackle that.
What 'wrong question' is often trying to do is make a meta-move. It's to say 'I will not engage with you until you adopt a broad meta-view that is consistent with mine.' It's like refusing to reward bad behaviour with any attention. It's not just disagreeing over some subject matter, it's refusing to acknowledge the existence of the other person's point of view. It's going over to a chessboard where someone has set up the pieces, and saying, "What are you talking about 'make a move as white'. No. I'll be the car and give me the dice."