The "group" exists only to benefit the individual and its goals. For what reason do you believe that irrational animals - and rational, as in the case of humanity - come together in groups? This "alliance" - commonly referred by us, as community, civilization, etc ... - is simply a consequence of the perception that individuals seek self-realization. Obviously if some people with the same purpose meet, they would probably create some kind of relationship, as this will make it easier for them to reach their individual goals. The fact is, the group only comes to exist - as in the form of the concept - if, and only if, the individual wants it to exist. — Gus Lamarch
If the interests of the child aren't important, then whose interests are? The desires of the parents? — Tzeentch
And doesn't your mention of obligations imply that the interests of the future child should be taken into account preceding the act of putting it into existence? — Tzeentch
I'd take it a step back and argue that one should avoid forcing one's will upon others against their will altogether. Voluntary and consensual interaction seems to me the basis of moral conduct. — Tzeentch
The way I see it every effect turns into a cause which in turn turns into effect ad infinitum. The domino effect is perhaps the best analogy for describing the nature of causality.. — Jacob-B
"Individual" is not synonymous with "Individuality". It is easy to confuse the metaphysical perceptions of "One in existence" and "Being one in existence" — Gus Lamarch
It is very likely that your perception of what a perfect world would be is seriously affecting your perception of reality. Human nature was never "group mentality" "but "egoistic". Man exists to fulfill himself individually, not to fulfill the will of the community, in fact, it is the individual's own action to be fulfilled that consequently creates the community... — Gus Lamarch
And yet we act as if consent is required. — khaled
I don't think any more justification is necessary. You cannot kill people without their consent. Period. — khaled
What do you mean what is being conserved? That is not how the word is used clearly. "Conservative" just means less likely to do harm. — khaled
People have more things they don't want done unto them when they exist than when they don't exist. This is trivially true since when people don't exist there is nothing that can be done to them nor is there anything that they don't want done. — khaled
Let's say one lives in absolutely dire poverty and there is no doubt that any offspring one may bring forth will also lead a short and miserable life.
The line of reasoning you present would see no issue with birthing children in such conditions, since there's no individual whose well-being we need to take into account preceding the birth. — Tzeentch
If it is acceptable to use one's power at one's own subjective discretion to force one's will onto others, we enter a slippery slope that inevitably leads to "might makes right." — Tzeentch
This is not true. "Individual" is defined by unity, not by being differentiated from its environment. — Metaphysician Undercover
But there is nothing within the concept of "individual" which requires that one is the member of a group. In this way, "individual" is logically prior to "group", because "group" is dependent on "individual", while the inverse is not the case. — Metaphysician Undercover
Protection implies more parties are involved (AKA, parent protects their would-be child from a third party). — Tzeentch
I am arguing from the viewpoint of the parent in relation to their would-be child. 'Protecting' one's future child from one's own desire of having children can be more easily understood as making the choice not to potentially violate one's would-be child's will. — Tzeentch
What justifies the act of forcing an individual to experience life without knowing whether they want to or not? — Tzeentch
Let's say I had the power to make you experience something that you may or may not enjoy. Why should or shouldn't I use that power without your consent? — Tzeentch
From whom? — schopenhauer1
It's always been do not cause unnecessary suffering on behalf of someone else. I will admit I went down a consent rabbit hole with you, but I still think after debate this can also be an principle because I see this is about forcing other people into impositions unnecessarily without consent as well. — schopenhauer1
Absolute vs. instrumental. Already born, vs. no need to impose at all, period. — schopenhauer1
If people should not be exposed to suffering or imposed upon unnecessarily, that principle is the judge. If you don't believe in it, see my idea about how meta-ethics works. — schopenhauer1
You do not have to minimize anyone else's suffering unless they're dependents. But what you must not do is act in such a manner that they suffer more due to your actions as opposed to if you just weren't around then. — khaled
I know what consent is. And I know I don't have it in this case.
What does "consent from an unconscious person" mean?
And yet you talk of consent. — khaled
At that point it's their fault. They should have changed the declaration if they changed their mind. — khaled
Agreed. But I don't think the principle is "maximization of choice". I think the principle is simply: You can't kill people without their consent — khaled
If you have a child you risk someone getting harmed. If you don't, no one gets harmed. Therefore the latter is obviously more conservative. — khaled
Even IF their life is overall good, they definitely had more harm due to being born than they would have had they not been born (because then they would have had NO harm). — khaled
There's no protection of another's will. It's the prevention of violating another's will. — Tzeentch
Why would it be? You keep asking these questions that seem to imply a "default position" where there is none. — khaled
I don't require it answered. You're the one asking "What does it mean to have consent from from non-existence", not me. Why would I require that answered? — khaled
Same here. More importantly, what do you do if you have no idea that that is what the person wanted or didn't want? You don't pull the plug do you? If you already knew the person would want the plug pulled then you DO have consent. — khaled
To say that it is unavailable. Therefore the conservative course should be taken. Which is not to have kids. — khaled
I wouldn't conflate what a person wants with what's least harmful to them. For example, the comatose patient may have wanted people to pull the plug if he went comatose but never told anybody. — khaled
But regardless, if this is what we do, why would having kids be ethical when we know for a fact that not being born is less harm than being born? — khaled
And I already told you that life is not "overall" objectively more harmful or good. — khaled
Because the best option is too difficult to be expected regularly. — khaled
Creating situations for suffering so you can get to consent.. — schopenhauer1
This is honestly why I rarely form the argument around consent and just keep it at unnecessary suffering because at the end of the day, you are creating the suffering so you can ask consent. That is why I brought up the idea of let's say you know that a baby will get tortured if it is born. But it doesn't exist yet, so does this consideration matter? I mean according to your view nope, there is no thing to give consent, so who cares right? Fine, at that point the original AN argument stands.. causing unnecessary suffering onto another is wrong. — schopenhauer1
You can make an argument combining both too. Unless you get consent, you shouldn't put someone into a negative state without knowing what the person wants. Why would the assumption be that this is okay?
Surely this goes back to something about suffering itself which makes its imposition on someone else wrong. That is not something intuitive or relevant to your judgements? — schopenhauer1
If not, I'd like to know why you think you can just do that on behalf of someone else other than rhetoric for the sake of argument. Cause I doubt you really do, other than this case of procreation. I can't find out if this guy wants to be put in a state of negative situations.. so I'll go ahead and proceed. Wrong. — schopenhauer1
And here's why in my first formulation in the post I said unnecessarily and absolute not instrumental. — schopenhauer1
When it is our job to minimize the other party's suffering AND when we know that our choice is actually minimizng suffering (vaccines for example). Which only really happens with dependents. — khaled
What would it mean to have consent from an unconscious person? In both cases: Meaningless question. Point is, you need consent, and you don't have it. Doesn't matter why you don't have it. — khaled
Not really. We don't pull the plug. Period. — khaled
You don't "guess" you only look at the amount of harm done in both cases and pick the one with least harm. You take the conservative approach. I challenge you to come up with a situation where you pick the option that does more harm when consent is not available. — khaled
What's wrong with having such a moral system? Why would you demand? — khaled
Yes but when non compliance results in severe harm that's not really a choice. That scenario is what people call "an imposition". For instance: You theoretically could kill someone in public, you'll just be executed for it. In this scenario, while techincally there is a choice, practically there isn't. That is what impositions do, practically remove choices. — khaled
Because without it one risks causing harm or distress against an individual's will, regardless of one's intention. — Tzeentch
If we can agree that forcing individuals to do things without their consent is inherently problematic, then this raises a lot of questions regarding the act of having children. — Tzeentch
In an abusive relationship you could cause harm by breaking up because doing so will alleviate more form yourself. — khaled
I don't know what you mean by "harm is different", I don't know what I said to make you think that in any way. — khaled
But regardless, even applying this "general rule" when do we have consent to give birth to people? — khaled
So why are you now still trying to get me to make a claim that I never made for a reason? — khaled
It is not uncommon for consent to be impossible to obtain. For instance, we don't pull the plug on comatose patients. The whole POINT of consent is that the default value for any request is "no" until that request is actually made and answered positively. — khaled
I already said "virtuous" is doing more good than the system demands.
"right" is the best possible outcome (donating to charity/saving the drowning person/ etc) — khaled
Well if I were to take this to the extreme, then you have an abusive relationship. And I am pretty sure we can agree that the abusers in an abusive relationship are being immoral. — khaled
What do you mean? — khaled
So if you cannot get consent, you should be able to impose suffering and impositions on someone unnecessarily? — schopenhauer1
However, if I was to indulge this as if it was a symmetry rather than an asymmetry, then I don't want to be around you at all because your default position is you are allowed to cause impositions if you cannot get consent. — schopenhauer1
So there is a contradiction in the very act of deliberating here admitting that this is the very thing, not quite "denied" the person that will be affected, but simply incapable of even doing so from the very nature of the non-existence. — schopenhauer1
The very fact that you think deliberating upon a moral framework right now, implies that people should be able to make decisions on what affects them. — schopenhauer1
1) Imposing suffering.. used in conjunction
2) Imposition in general.. as in for example, if I said you have this game where you make many choices, but you cannot escape except through death. That can be an imposition. It is de facto imposition as there is no escape without death or making the choices the game's conditions imposes. These more generally, are the challenges of life.
Certainly one should not unnecessarily impose suffering on others no matter what. But it also stands to reason, which I will just call Argument Against Paternalism, is to try to benefit someone else by imposing on them challenges to overcome which they could not consent. — schopenhauer1
Yeah, well it is a special scenario. What do you want me to say. That is the point. It is a special scenario that is hard to analogize without making a false analogy. — schopenhauer1
I'll answer in two ways:
1) Fine, ditch it. Self-imposed suffering is also not analogous. Doesn't hurt my argument, just shows how using analogies like these aren't great anyways in this very unique scenario, and hence my highlighting how unique it is.
2) It can be kept because, self-imposed suffering, or suffering on others who consent are examples of being able to consent. The only example where one would unnecessarily cause suffering (because it's not in order to prevent a greater harm as they don't exist obviously), and where there is no consent that can be obtained is the case of E v. N. — schopenhauer1
It's both. If you want to self-impose your own suffering, go ahead. Once you impose it for someone else, it's not good. Please don't make the move comparing E v. N vs. E only scenarios as I addressed that. Otherwise, we will keep talking in circles. — schopenhauer1
As I said: Children are a special case because it’s your job as a parent to make sure they don’t do something stupid. You don’t do that for adults or strangers’ children do you? — khaled
If you're in an abusive relationship, surely you should cause heartbreak. It'd be just as easy to come up with situations where you should cause pain. — Echarmion
When I talk of “harm” I mean causing more than you alleviate. So vaccinating a child isn’t harm, even though it hurts and is against their wishes. — khaled
Which part precisely? When did I ever say life had “more harm than good”? Please quote me this supposed BS. — khaled
First off, I don’t understand how they’re not working in this scenario. — khaled
My objection was against forcing people to do things. If I am choosing to live with someone else I’m not actually being forced to do anything am I? — khaled
Why are you conflating the 3 terms. I define each of them differently. — khaled
A state of E (existing itself) vs. N (not existing), rather than default already existing E (where x, y, z intra-worldly affairs happen within it). — schopenhauer1
Oh can we make no one suffer? Please tell me how? But since we obviously can't, simply not procreating is sufficient to prevent all harm to a future person, and it is sufficient to not impose unnecessarily challenges to be overcome on someone else's behalf. — schopenhauer1
No rather, the fact that the happy natalists/optimists cruel next move is to just say something like "Oh well you always have the choice to kill yourself or find a piece of wilderness to slowly die" or something like that. But what a shitty choice.. Either be imposed by the things that you need to live or kill yourself. But where did this choice come from? Being born in the first place. — schopenhauer1
You know for a fact that a vaccine doesn't harm. That's non-negotiable. — khaled
You don't. Both are subjective. Some are having a blast with life, some hate it. — khaled
The child's assessment which is obviously not available. That would require a time machine. — khaled
Not really. If I count myself as part of the calculation then I don't have to live as a hermit somewhere. Could you give an example as to why it would lead to me living as a hermit? What harm am I inflicting by being in society that is so bad I must instead suffer myself so as not to cause it? — khaled
It is a fact of the matter that if you don't consider something a duty you will be less likely to do it (which is why I call doing it anyways virtue) — khaled
No it wouldn't though. My personal assessment of whether life is worth living should be applied for myself, not for others. — khaled
Just because I find life worth living doesn't mean my child will, and so my assessments are unimportant. — khaled
Still wrong to force people to do it. Much less so than slave labor, but still bad. — khaled
There is a practical difference. I don't have to donate to charity if I don't want to for instance, whereas by your standards you have to. You would also have to volunteer, etc as long as you're capable. — khaled
Yes, then you would be correct. Different states. — schopenhauer1
But these are also different cases. These are self-imposed. I have nothing against that. It is creating unnecessary harm and impositions, in an absolute sense for someone else. This is the height of paternalism (and again, not in a literal sense.. which it is too, but meaning that someone knows better for someone.. and worse knows better to the point that suffering and impositions have to be overcome by the person born due to someone else's decision.. even if intentions are good that it is for the child's "benefit"). — schopenhauer1
There are some choices, but certainly not the choice to not have these choices in the first place. That can never be when born. — schopenhauer1
One is about inter-wordly affairs (should we impose existence, and the harms and challenges to overcome that come with a usual life) — schopenhauer1
In the intra-worldly scenario, it is an instrumental case. Survival, comfort, entertainment is necessary, and when the child becomes an adult has no other choice (unless they are okay with death or somehow finding a remote wilderness to hack it alone) to follow the impositions of a given society. — schopenhauer1
But none where you cause more pain than you alleviate. When I talk of “harm” I mean causing more than you alleviate. So vaccinating a child isn’t harm, even though it hurts and is against their wishes. — khaled
It’s not bad in itself. But forcing it on others is wrong. Take forced labor for example. — khaled
Why not? — khaled
So are pain and heartbreak. Yet we agree you shouldn’t cause those. — khaled
I don’t know where you get that. I’m just saying you can’t derive a should from a would. — khaled
I’m just saying that not everyone thinks they have this moral obligation to help with problems they didn’t cause. — khaled
I don’t think it’s weird. Everybody eats. Doesn’t make it moral or immoral. — khaled
Right. But "what rules would we want everyone to follow" is not answered by "What does everyone usually do" (in this case save drowning person). — khaled
Yes but I find it easier to believe that people do not agree on a single moral philosophy than that we do agree, but are just morally bankrupt. — khaled
I don't think morality should be deduced from what we all would do. — khaled
It's not what I should do if "should" implies that I would be wrong not to do it. — khaled
By that standard our society is totally morally bankrupt. — khaled
If helping homeless people was a duty, there would be no homeless people. — khaled
Lets assume we have found the "perfect charity" where you know exactly what your money is getting used for and it directly improves the lives of others. If such a thing existed would people be obligated to donate now? — khaled
And also not my idea. Where did I say "Whose only duty is not to interfere". You can help if you want, you just don't have to. I don't understand why whenever I share this view people worry that it will somehow suddenly make people cold and uncaring towards each other. The idea that I don't have a moral obligation to save a drowning person doesn't mean I won't.
Also, counterfactual? Since when are we talking about facts? — khaled
I'd like to ask about your view then. Do you think that people are obligated to donate to charity? And if not why do you think people are obligated to save others from drowning when they can but are not obligated to donate to charity? — khaled
I don’t have many of those. Outside of having to try and make up to someone after harming them you don’t really have to do anything morally speaking outside of just not harm people in my view. — khaled
In an arithmetical sense, 3+5 results 8, for example, same as 1+7. I know it seems overly simplistic in this example but that is my intention, because it extrapolates to any possible extent. — Marax
In this sense, is reality a cause or an effect? — Marax
and, if two causes can result in the same effect, is "reality" objectively undetermined and determined only by our imagination, as how I imagined a subjective yet feasible cause? — Marax
I'd go further to say that there is no such thing as a "positive moral duty". If it's a duty then doing it is what is expected, it is not positive. — khaled
If you have a duty not to harm others for instance, and so you do not harm others, you are not being virtuous, you're doing the bare minimum. To be virtuous you have to go out of your way and actually help someone with something, which I repeat you don't have to do. — khaled
What do you mean "transactional"? — khaled
And I would argue that even if you somehow knew that your next child would do something great (which is impossible) it is the right decision not to have them. That it would be right to have them would imply that the suffering of the child doesn’t matter, as long as he alleviates the suffering of others which I find is a disgusting idea. If I knew my next child would cure cancer but also that he’d suffer severely during his life I wouldn’t have them. In my view: You do not have a duty to help people, but you do have a duty not to harm them. — khaled
But it does. Only in situations where someone is capable of suffering, does the position become valid. — schopenhauer1
2) No suffering in the world means no people who suffer, nor people deprived of happiness. The instant a person is put into the world, the antinatalist position becomes valid. You do not need people to exist in order to recognize that the "good" of not existing is taking place. All you need is the fact that if someone does exist, the position becomes valid at that point. We can have millions of years of nothingness, and then this position would be sort of "activated". Once something exists where suffering would take place, then it becomes valid. — schopenhauer1
But for natalists it is not unknown. They know for a fact that having a child will risk harming them. And they also know for a fact that that decision need not be made. — khaled
1- Take an unjustified risk with someone else's life
2- Don't. — khaled